Thursday, December 31, 2009

Need advice for what course and college is best for digital photography?

I want a career in photography and was wondering what course would be ideal for me.I am 20 and just starting up with photography which is the thing i most admire.also i would like to buy a digital slr camera what would you recomend?thanksNeed advice for what course and college is best for digital photography?
I am not sure what is offered where you are, but yes, start with Photography class. There may be other classes related with graphic design, or multimedia design... some of those will integrate photography into the classes. Also, if you are very serious, why not check into a Photography College, like the New York Institute of Photography? They would have a whole program filled with classes to help you learn and discover your talent.





Camera?? That is up to you. Maybe you already like Canon, and own Canon lenses... so keep those as some will work with the Canon digital cameras. As a guide, you can look up reviews on the cameras on www.dpreview.com





Thanks for reading!Need advice for what course and college is best for digital photography?
I go to the Art Institute of Colorado, and we mostly use digital. We didn't start off with 35mm like some other schools. We started with DSLR's, then moved into large format w/ film, then large format w/ leaf backs (digital).





When I started a couple years ago, we had the Canon Rebel XTi in our kits (I highly suggest this camera). The newer students have the Olympus E-520.
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  • Brain Food? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    I will take a comprehensive exam on Saturday (9:30AM-1:00PM)





    What should I eat and drink for breakfast? lol :)Brain Food? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    Protein foods such as chicken, tuna, eggs, etc


    Water, milk or soy.


    Try to keep away with foods that have sugar in them, especially in the mornings and before your exam, they will most likely cause you to crash within half to an hour (this includes any fruit drinks or fruits, they are natures candy)Brain Food? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    Well, I would recommend eating something you have eaten before. Dont try something new. Eat some good protein in the morning. I would eat a whole grain bagel (lots of fiber,) with a boca burger patty on top, with some egg whites on top. Put the egg whites in an egg ring, so they are a circle on the bagel, and they wont fall of. Then, have a glass of milk, and a banana. Also, bring an energy bar with you to the exam.





    Good luck.
    My wife got me on Juice Plus. We've been on it since last year and saw great results. It has 17 fruits, vegetables and grains that provides all the nutrients you need everyday. My wife and I feel wonderful! Go to juiceplus.com/+tc84591 I would recommend the Juice Plus Capsules and the Juice Plus Complete. Hope this helps!
    Healthy organic foods. Blueberries are good. So are apricots. Yogurt and fish also help a lot. Yogurt makes your response time faster.
    Fish (omega 3) Salmon chicken the night before. Stay away from starches. Juice with anti-oxidants. Yogurt. (with probiotics) If you can make sure your hydrated. Dehydration can affect your thought process. Eat an orange or apple before you start the exam.

    Ladies: Do you like big guys? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    Hi ladies,





    I am 5'3'' 118 pounds. I was in love with this guy 6'3'' 220 pounds. Well, I am now have no interested in skinny guy. I love big guy who is 6+ tall and over 200 pounds (of course healthy men--not sloppy fat) because I think they are better lover. Is it true? Or am I just crazy?





    P.S. I am a virgin. Thank you!Ladies: Do you like big guys? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    not true..better lover comes from the inside of the person not from how he looks. perhaps, sloppy fat are far more better lover. your just crazy and whats up with that ';P.S im a virgin thing';? what are you trying to imply?Ladies: Do you like big guys? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    It is just your mindlock. It is not necessary that guy should be that big or that tall. There should be only love and everything will follow.
    my husband is small big guys dont attract me
    I'm the same way.





    Now, I'm not into sloppy fat either... but guys who are big with lots of meat on them. They're like big teddy bears... :] And yes, they know how to treat their women.





    Besides... most skinny guys are so conceited, they don't really care about pleasing their lovers. Granted, some aren't conceited... but I don't want to be with someone who I feel like I can break, and I'm 5'6'' and 125 lbs!





    But it's all about personality too, of course!
    very normal and it does not depend whether you are virgin or not .it is personal choice nobody likes skinny guys.
    i go with u girl.


    my hubby is kinda BIG...i like him the way he is...great hug i get everyday.
    i'm in love with a small guy
    u said u think that tehy are better lovers how would u no if ur a virgin? i dont think that bigger guys are better lovers it depends on the man himself and what he can do with his manhood
    well that is crazy but i do understand you I'm 5 even about 120 and i love big tall strong lookin men i think for me it might be a protection thing i know he will protect me cause of his size but they are no better lovers then smaller guys.
    Yup i love bigger guys too.I`m little and my hubby is a big tall one.And i love my cutie so much.


    But the better lover thing has nothing to do with it.


    Because even the big guys could be snobish and to much bully....controling type.
    yes you are crazy in love.theres no comparison big or small if your heart beats for that guy then hes the best lover for you.goodluck.stay in love.
    I am small too and I like big guys. There's more to grab on to.
    Err no.. you are so judgemental.





    Its not a fact that big guys are better lovers. Actually biggers guys turn out to be shallow jocks.





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    Women tend to be attracted to men who are taller than they are. Not necessarily that much taller but it's an individual thing. I'm 5'7'; and my husband is 6'5';.





    Size has nothing to do with a person's ability to be a good lover (or even in general). A kind, caring person of any stature would make a good lover. You want someone who takes YOUR needs (and the fact that you are a virgin) into consideration. Someone who will be patient with you because of your virginity.
    i love big guys...they make me feel safe and warm!!! skinny dudes suck!!!!
    We all like different types
    i prefer bigger guys. im about 5'6 so i want a guy who his taller than me. i dont think i would be as attracted to a skinny guy. i like not so skinny guys because it's better when they hug you and i just feel more protected. i've been with a skinny guy and i would absolutely prefer a bigger guy. i dont think your crazy. but you like who you like and you cant help those feelings!
    lol just wait till that big guy gets to be age 25 and that big dude turns into fat dude. With all the beer and lack of exercise. Then this dude will have to watch what he eats all the time and blah blah blah. Go with the skinny guys better stamima and look good till age 40 or so.
    I am 5'4 and my bf is 6'3 and I love being able to fit under his arms and get all cuddly! I love big and tall men. I personally just feel so secure with a man that is big and tall! Your not crazy, it's a personal choice.
    i like skinny men but big guys are OK because you can cuddle withe them but yes i think it fine to like big er gays and I'm glad you like the ones that are not slope you go later
    it doesnt matter what the guy looks like on the outside. its his heart.


    who would u rather date: a ugly guy that treat u like a queen or a fine guy that treat u like crap?
    Ugh, I hate skinny guys....I LOVE guys who are at least 6'0 tall and with muscles. However, they aren't necessarily a better lover. I've had some big guys that aren't so great!
    A guy need not be necessarily big to be a good lover. Even the skinny ones can be great. The thing you should be looking for is if the guy knows his way to top. Best of luck.
    Big guys can love you and hold you more but as sex wise big guys are known to be a bite small in the bedroom they are also known to treat girls like queen i would say keep loving him and who knows what it will come out to be
    To each his own. I don't think you're crazy.
    Wow, a woman that's interested in appearance only...weird.
    i like big men too especially when they are all buff and have 6-packs they are better lovers because even though they look big they are sooo sweet and soft and plus the bigger you are the bigger the heart
    As long as he treats you right what does it matter? Who cares if he is better or worse than anyone else? He is YOURS.I hope you are blissfully happy and wonderfully blessed.
    I agree with you, I myself won't date a skinny scrawny guy.... not that there is anything wrong with them, it is just that I like a can power over me in a sexual way and just scoop me up in his big arms and make me feel protected. I confirm that they do make better lovers the mechanics seem to work a whole lot better, but there are always outliers that don't fit that mold in the lover department. To be the best lover he must be really into you and you into him. Good luck on your man hunt :)
    I agree ~ I like big guys (that are fit but not fat) still big though.. more to love :-) don't wanna have to worry about ME squashing HIM lol..
    Haha- me TOO! I've dated guys that were thin, but I like big men. Tall or just large, I dont care, I declared myself done with skinny boys. I like muscles, but I dont care if a guy is overweight too. My husband is a plus-size, and I love his body more than the dweebs I see in the mall that look like they weigh 80 pounds. I think the better lover part is true though- skinny boys can't satisfy.

    Whats the best advice you have ever been given?

    If you don't lie, you'll never have to remember anything.Whats the best advice you have ever been given?
    Some of the best advice I've gotten came from people who care about me and were trying to tell me things I needed to know. The rest actually came from people who didn't care about me and weren't consciously trying to do me good!





    ';People are not home improvement projects. Take people as you find them or leave them alone. If you want to work on something, build a birdhouse.';





    ';If you want someone to do something, make it easy for him to do that and hard for him to do anything else.'; (This works on things you want to get yourself to do, too).





    That came from someone who really cared about me.





    Someone else who didn't actually motivated me to make huge changes in my life that I needed to make. She was urging me to do something wrong for me, something that would placate someone who was hurting me, at the cost of my physical, mental and spiritual health, because it would have been convenient for her to sacrifice me to the other person. She said something so hurtful that it almost broke me, trying to force me to do what she wanted.





    In response, I found the courage and strength to change my life, with the help of God and my true friends.





    In the end, by forcing me to admit what was going on, she changed my life profoundly and for the better, even though that wasn't her intention.





    Good advice can come from the most surprising places.Whats the best advice you have ever been given?
    The best advice i was ever given ';never consider yourself aloser'; always stay postive in each aspact of life. If you want to become something, never give up. Loosing is never a option. In sense where you always have totry hard for everything and you'll get it.
    Always treat a woman like a lady and make her feel special, she'll repay that a thousand million times over. Another good one would have to be, look after the pennys and the pounds will look after themselves.
    The best advice I was ever givin was to wait to have sex, because when you do it its not really enjoyable because you maybe should not be doing it at the time or you dont know what your doin..So yea....Wait to have SEX!?!?!?
    'Do the right thing' and regardless of the outcome and any personal suffering or consequence 'Keep doing the right thing'.
    Everything that happens happens for a reason, and everything that is meant to be will be.............................
    Treat people the way you expect to be treated!


    If someone has somthing bad to say about you, then they are just unhappy with themselves and you should pray for them (I told my overweight daughter this)
    we all have the power to choose and the choses you make shape your life so make them wisely.





    please answer my question





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    The difference between perfection and mediocrity is attention to detail.
    a goal without a plan is just a wish........
    Maybe, how you act has something to do with how others act towards you
    always be the most enthusiastic person you know.
    Save for retirement...as soon as possible.
    To buy a property.
    You don't have to listen to my advice but....
    A warmer bed leads to a colder future.


    :)
    Knives are sharp
    u will see and understand more if u're looking at an outsider's point of view
    do what makes you happy!
    stop drinking,and i did 5 years ago
    never let the world inside....
    follow your heart, not your head

    Whats the best advice you have ever recieved?

    Don't take life to seriously! YOU WILL NEVER GET OUT ALIVE!Whats the best advice you have ever recieved?
    Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.Whats the best advice you have ever recieved?
    DON'T GET MARRIED

    Whats the best advice singles should do in valentine's day ?

    Take yourself out and do someting that you dont do often for yourself, massage, tan, manicure whatever will make you feel GREAT, splurge on a new outfit that screams ';I'M A ANIMAL, BABY!';. I also suggest if your Mom's really a special lady, take her out or do someting wonderful for her. Valentines Day doenst have to be just for couples..It's a day for love.Whats the best advice singles should do in valentine's day ?
    Do what you do every other weekday.


    If you're not comfortable doing that, then maybe you could treat yourself to a massage with the money you saved by NOT having a girl to take out.Whats the best advice singles should do in valentine's day ?
    go to a valentine party and have a blind date
    I wouldnt worry about it being Valentines Day but if you must do something. I would actually try and talk to the person that I have had my eye on for awhile. You never know where Cupid is he could actually help you out on Valentines day :-). Good Luck and Happy Valentines day!
    smile,


    laugh, say hello to others and be happy and optomistic, enjoy the day as it is just like all others.
    Hang out with your single friends and have fun! Rent movies, play games, pop popcorn, etc.
    Show that lady that you truly care for her by investing in a breathtaking display of long-stemmed red roses or a bouquet of exotic flora.
    save your money
    I am a single too... :)





    Of course i prefer to buy a nice present for my girlfriend(if i had) But i will not be able buy so i will spend my money just for drink a bottle of Vodka in a nice bar...


    And listen emotional slow songs... :((
    enjoy of the day!!!!it's just an ordenary day!!!!!!!


    or if not get drunk and sleep all day so you will not realize that the day passed.
    go see a movie and enjoy a night out to eat and go home and play video games or enjoy a hot bath in aromatheraphy and music

    Whats your best advice regarding love?

    as in boyfriends etcWhats your best advice regarding love?
    take your time getting to know the person, dont rush it (:Whats your best advice regarding love?
    It's going to happen whether you want it to or not.





    you can't control love, but it will control you.





    Be yourself and try not to force things, what is meant to be will be.
    Hey Big blue eyes





    My advice would be dont give in too easily, set yourself standards, think about what type of guy you would like?, take things slow, get to know the person.


    Make sure he feels the same as you do, make sure he respects and trusts you. Dont sleep with him too soon or early in the relationship because chances are you will regret it later.





    Wait for Mr Right, someone who treats you like you deserve to be treated, someone who you know will stick by you through thick and thin and not disappear as soon as he sees a problem approaching. Make sure he's your best friend and that you could tell him everything and anything.





    Thats my advice on boyfriends dont let them take advantage of you, use you or make you look the fool. Make sure they respect you and love you for you.
    Yes- I agree- take your time.





    Regarding love?





    1. It's the little things they say or do that say the most (like when you're not watching and they go out of their way to help you/take care of you).





    2. When there's a sense of 'togetherness/thereness.' You feel emotionally held/cared for.





    3. When there's a sense of understanding.





    4. Respect





    5. When that person cherishes the bond you have, vice versa.





    6. When they are your best friend.





    7. When their actions are sincere.





    8. When they're consistent.





    If at any point you feel skeptical, the truth usually reveals itself..
    Understand and feel with him/her..





    My favorite synonym is empathy:


    1. the intellectual identification with or vicarious experiencing of the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another.


    2. the imaginative ascribing to an object, as a natural object or work of art, feelings or attitudes present in oneself: By means of empathy, a great painting becomes a mirror of the self.
    if it happens, let it dont fight it. youll know your in love when you can sit in a room with that person and not say a word to one another and you still feel stronger than ever about him.
    Just dont. Not worth it in the end. Be happy with yourself. You are the only person that will love you unconditionally and will never break your heart.
    don't freak out if one boy doesn't like you. there will always be another one.





    you need to be happy and confident with yourself before you can ever be happy and love someone else.





    don't let this aspect of your life take over everything else.





    good luck.





    :)
    take your time get toknow them. if they cheat, dont nag them, talk to them about it. and let it go. if it happens again. give a second chance but never give a 3rd. guys tend to change on there terms. the man i married cheated on me 3 maybe 4 times. i was stupied and kept going back to him. but finally he relized he loved me adn wanted only me. give em a chance if he is right for u he will come around
    dont do it lol
    Oh geez, I know this from experience.


    DO NOT lose who you are as a person while you love someone else. If that relationship ends, you may feel incomplete and not be able to function.
    Never change who you are in the hopes of attracting/keeping someone.
    don't be someone ur not
    If you really like the guy, go for it and don't miss your chance because you're scared. I did and I completely and totally regret it!
    just avoid it all together it dosent seem the pain is worth the pleasure......
    Don't rush love and always try to still make time for yourself and give your guy space too.
    Get to know him, make first moves, dont get hurt by rejection, guys mess up, guys are just as nervous and shy as you, dont panic, its ok to cry, if youre getting suspicious dont let love get in your way of finding out the truth, take it slow, and most relationships wont last, if he dumps you thre are always other guys
    Date your best friend. If you don't like spending time together over time it will not work out.


    Attraction is important, but for the long run, make sure you like each other.
    Dont move too fast thats how realationships break, if u think u know them and u really dont
    Know that as you get older your idea and experiences of love will change... what love was when you were 12 isn't going to be the same as love at 17. :) See what I mean?





    Take it slow, enjoy your time with the guy, and have fun.
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  • Whats the best advice you can give me to get over a breakup?

    after about 4 years of being with my boyfriend our relationship ended today, any advice how to get over him the fastest possible?Whats the best advice you can give me to get over a breakup?
    There's this book out there called ';It's Called a Break Up Because It's Broken'; that is hysterical. It helped me deal with my break up. It comes from the perspective of both a man and a woman and has some of the funniest takes on break ups ever.


    Not a reader? Well, surround yourself with your friends and family. Give yourself time to mourn the loss of your relationship. Four years is a while out of anyone's life. Don't dwell on the ';what if's'; and who did what to whom junk. Realize that there is a purpose to everything that happens in our lives, and in time you'll see this may have been the best thing for the both of you.Whats the best advice you can give me to get over a breakup?
    best way to get over a guy is get a new guy
    I believe in a saying which is ';Life is so simple; we make it difficult';. Well, in a nutshell, its you yourself who needs to move on in life and work towards it than sitting here and crying!





    Cheers!
    don't think about him take care of your self go shopping enjoy your day visit families don't be stress you will find some one the right one day take your time
    have a slumber party with lots of girl talk and magazine and ice cream !! watch a couple of chick flicks have a good cry and then just take one day at a time it WILL get better i promise
    hmm dont think about it get a hobby
    Getting over a break up myself. Though I've never been in a relationship for that long a period. What I do is:


    - Cry


    - Get angry even if I did the break up


    - Talk to friends/family - sis (They remind me why I we aren't together)


    - Buy something pretty


    - Talk to friends/Cry (They remind me once again)


    - Change something - hair or nails - something


    - Go to the gym


    - Talk to /spend time with friends (Conversation is about something else)


    - Read/write poetry


    - Do something mentioned above


    - Break up? What break up? Who? Ohhhhhh yeah, I'm passed all that


    There were times I got back together, but that never worked


    (smile)
    find a hobbie.Thats what I did.
    i think giving urself some tym alone 2 cry or 2 sorrow abt ut breakup is ok..





    when ur ready, go out w/ur gf's %26amp; have fun... b open 2 new prospects but not 2d point that u look flirty or something like that..





    in due tym, u'll heal on ur own..
    cry, heal, and continue with life. It's precious
    KEEP BUSY. 2 KEEP UR MIND OFF THAT PERSON
    Write down the reasons for the break up, recall these when you miss him, talk some out with him and maybe stay friends. I did with my ex, we are good friends and agree it is better that way.


    Also, realize it is your feelings that are working against you.


    Guys feel they have lost territory, girls, I think feel they are being rejected or forgotten.


    There is a time now where you need to date yourself to find out who you are on your own and with your friends.


    This way, when you meet someone, you can be yourself instead of who you think he wants you to be.....
    If you've been with him for 4 years he's been an important part of your life for a long time.





    I'm not saying you should try to get him back! But don't feel like you have to hurry to ';get over'; it. That would just be learning how to have shallow relationships and not really care about people. Go ahead and mourn for the good there was between you. Learn to live by yourself and find out who you really are before you get another boyfriend.
    I'm sorry. Time and busy-ness are the only helps. Friends are good, too.
    think of it this way: he was just another di*k that will find another girl


    if u cry over this, he will laugh at you 4 nothing


    and don't worry, there are a lot of sexxy singles out there


    (including me)


    hope u feel beter
    Purge yourself of him. Throw away or sell anything that reminds you of him... this includes things you bought together and things you received as gifts. Yes, even something like a TV... you can always replace it. Delete all emails and correspondence, put away or burn all pictures.





    If there's anything that you just can't get yourself to get rid of, put it in a box and give it to a good friend to hold onto for at least 1 year. No bending on the 1 year term... I don't care if you've already moved on at 6 or 8 months... wait the full year.





    Also, don't dwell on the good times. Sure, there were good times, but they're over and they're not coming back. Don't try to impose some kind of awkward friendship... and if he tries to be your friend it's probably just so he can sleep with you later when you're vulnerable.





    If you follow my directions, I guarantee you'll feel better almost immediately. (but still don't skimp on the 1 year minimum time for that box you gave to your friend)
    i suggest to spend as much time as you can with your friends. even if its just sitting with them watching tv. just always have someone around and always be doing somethind it will keep your mind of it and it will get you over him.


    Goodluck sweety and let me know how you go xxx
    honey, I feel your pain, and I know how difficult this. You will grieve and feel sad for a long time. this is natural. And although you don't want to go out with nayone else at this point, the ONLY way you will get over him, or be strong enough to prevent your heart being broken again is to somehow jump back in to the dating pool ,and go on as many dates as you can (without being sleazy about it). Date other guys, make new friends...you need to put serious distance (emotionally) between you and your boyfriend, even though that is the last thing that you feel lik eyou want to do now.


    If you've broken up, there is a reason: there is a 'schism' in your relationship that is so serious that you have broken up over it: therefor it is a warning sign that your relationship had fundamental, serious flaws in it. Recognize that and deal with that, rather than trying to bandais a huge, gaping, bleedeing wound that willnever be healed.
    Allow yourself to feel everything you feel. Journal. Crossword puzzles. Talk to close friends and family, and listen to them.





    Unfortunately, there is no fast way. ';They'; say it takes half the time of the relationship for you to be truly over it.





    I also, as a previous answerer said, recommend the book ';It's Called a Break-up Because it's Broken';.
    if both of u love each other so much u 2 must sit n solve ur problems clear all the things ne 1 of u must take 1st step in rebuilding ur relation
    the best thing i would suggest is to get a hobby go for a walk etc to keep your mind off things its hurts i know i have had my fair share in the past ...good luck
    im here forgett him..
    I was destroyed when my ex broke up with me after 3 years, and the best advice I got was that there is something inside that won't let you be so upset forever, I didn't believe it either at the time but its true. Subconsciencly you just stop hurting.





    Sleeping with someone else works a treat but can really backfire if you're not careful, I advise you just have fun with friends and work on forgetting about him.

    What is the hands-down best advice you've ever received?

    Who gave it to you? What was the context?





    Thanks!What is the hands-down best advice you've ever received?
    My Buddist mentor told me many MANY times:





    ';Quit trying to fix people. They deserve the opportunity to fail and learn a profound lesson from their mistakes just as you have learned from your mistakes. Encourage. Guide. Support. Don't fix.';





    Failure was always the best way for me to learn yet I often begrudge others the same opportunity because I can't stand to see people suffer. It is selfish of me because acting on my feelings pacifies me while prolonging the suffering because my ';fixes'; are only temporary for them.What is the hands-down best advice you've ever received?
    Love God with all your heart. Love your neighbor as yourself. When possible live in peace.
    Trust God in all things.





    He told me that in His word, the bible.
    Myself- Don't let things bother you ;)
    Don't take anything to seriously
    ';The only cure for grief is taking action';


    -My old creepy science teacher.
    I have to grow old ,but i should never grow up!








    (((my granddaddy)))
    give my life and heart to Jesus- never will regret that as long as I live- and by the way, that is for eternity!!!!!!!!!!
    Don't make impulse decisions. Do yourself a favor and sleep on it. If you still feel the same way the next day, then go for it.
    Always clean up one mess before you start another (my dad regarding cooking in the kitchen , but it applies to many areas of life).
    Do NOT lend your ears to the ';M';ockingbird's songs. Pay no platypus debt to human guile - North 2 the Future, The Shadow STILL stabs at the lovers' hearts; hiding its true NUMBERS behind a most COLORFUL mask of unfolding lies.





    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8A_-t9W4G…








    ';I'm NOT a man of too many faces, THE MASK I WEAR IS ONE';:





    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=037uSAIah…








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    Dolly Parton ';Better Get to Livin'';


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    Concentrate on what you are doing rather than what others are doing and you will be more productive.
    There are many great pieces of advice. You need more than just one to make your way.
    I rate advice on the Oscar Wilde scale (';Good advice is good only when it is passed on to others; it is never of any use to oneself';) so on that basis, the best advice I've ever received was:





    Keep your opinions to yourself.
    Use birth control....to bad I was too young and dumb to listen.
    When my father said, ';Stephanie, when you got into the car with him, did you think that may be the last ride you ever take?';





    I was in a very bad relationship and for some reason that struck a cord....and I never spoke to the guy again.....and I firmly believe that is why I'm alive today.
    To be old and wise; You must first be young and stupid.
    When in combat, reload every chance you get no matter how little ammunition is depleted.
    Come to Christ, The Spirit of the living God.. Saving faith.
    Dont lean over the stove





    hehee, i burnt my hair once..





    :D
    ';Don't sit around and complain that the world owes you a living. The world owes you nothing - it was here first.';





    Speech at my high school graduation, given by a rabbi quoting Mark Twain. It was very inspiring, he was speaking primarily to the people who sat around praying and complaining that nothing happened.
    Don't take advice from Laptop Jesus coal miner people.
    Not to gamble with anyone named after a state.
    believe in yourself
    ';Don't drink the water.'; My parents told me that when we went to India and if they hadn't I'd probably be dead.
    I read this somewhere and it has really helped me sort out genuine friends from those whose motivations may not in my best interest.





    'If you are not with me, you are against me.'





    It isn't that I would think that someone is my enemy, but It helps me see that if our goals are not the same, we will work against each other. Otherwise you tend to think of everyone as your friend and the word becomes a bit watered down.





    It runs across my mind at least once a day. It makes me ask in my mind, 'What is your motivation?' It really helps me think 'outside of the box'.
    My grandpa.





    If you lose your home, you can build another. If you lose your money you can earn some more. But if you lose your good name, you'll never get it back.
    Hi,





    From my father, (1909-1975) who traveled the whole world from the 30's to late 50's.





    'If you are around when the s hit hits the fan, some of it is liable to splatter on you!';





    Cheers,





    Michael Kelly





    PS - this applies from working in Iraq as a consultant to getting mixed up in gangs and such. That saying saved me on a number of occasions.
    Question everything
    Stand up for yourself. My mom. I was always getting bullied in school.

    SAD!!! 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    I applied for my dream job. They contacted me for a writing sample. It seems like they are interested. I just noticed couple of spelling errors on my resume.





    If they catch thoese errors. I am out of the league. I am under so much stress, pressure, and sad. I am so scared that I won't find a good job soon. *_*SAD!!! 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    Everyone in this life makes mistakes. Dont let a couple of errors on your resume get you down. Send them the most amazing writing sample that you can possibly give them and allow them to decide based on your writing abilities. If you notice your mail....even companies make spelling and grammar errors throughout some of their mailings. Allow people you trust to proofread what you put out. Dont ever get down on yourself. I am sure you will find a great job and maybe even this one. Also, correct your resume if it makes you feel better and resubmit it with your writing sample to them. Tell them that you noticed some imperfections in your resume and wanted them to have the best........ They will like you because you admit your imperfections and because of your willingness to work to correct the imperfections that you have! Good luck to you!SAD!!! 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    Using spell check on your resume is a good start. read it back fresh the next day with clear eyes and you might spot a few mistakes. Also, getting friends or family to glance over it (provided they spell well!) and see if they spot anything. If you emailed the resume you could always add something new and positive about yourself and attach a newer version (with mistakes omitted) and subject it as an updated version. That way, if they look at the second one they may disregard the first (fingers crossed!)





    Always type slower and make sure you watch the words appear as you type them. You can spot a zillion mistakes that way.





    If they contacted you for a writing sample its possible that they have spotted the errors and they want to be sure its just a typo, rather than a constant error in your spelling skills. If you write the sample and make sure it is double and treble checked (also spell check using Word) and then submit it only when you are totally confident. One thing I have learned is that by saying nothing people run the risk of getting caught out. If you actually tell them you are resubmitting owing to typing errors they will realise you are honest enough to fess up to your mistakes and learn from them.





    Hope that helps.
    Try not to focus on things that you have no control over but instead focus on what you can change. You can start by editing your resume and then having someone else look it over and make suggestions. Also, keep looking for other jobs. (You know what they say about putting all of your eggs in one basket.) The errors on your resume may or may not make an impact on you getting this job but everything happens for reason. I like to think that when things don't go as planned it is because there is something bigger and better waiting down a different path.
    No one is perfect! So what if you have a few mistakes on your resume! So give them an AMAZING writing sample. Have several people that you trust proofread your sample to make sure there are no errors in that. You can't change your resume at this point, so now you just have to impress them with your writing ability.


    If you don't get the job this time around, you'll have another opportunity at what could be an even better job. The fear of not getting a job is what you need to motivate you to get out there and keep looking!


    Good luck!
    First thing you should try to do is have several friends/family prescreen your resume for you. It is sometimes hard to do it yourself. That way you have extra eyes/opinions on how to make it better.





    There are lots of job sites out there. Don't forget to network as well that way people will know you are looking.





    Here are a few other places to look for jobs.


    http://www.jobbankinfo.org/


    http://www.indeed.com/





    Don't worry if you don't get this job others will come along.
    i am sorry if you fail on your spelling. but don't be disheartened. just go back to night school and brush up on your spelling. and any other weakness you might have. just hang on in there. good luck.
    do something you like, say, sport or go see a movie or something alike. it helps, believe me.

    What would you do when... 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    You are a foreigner. Someone said this to you --';All foreigners take our men'; Well, My friend said this to me out of her ignorant. I have not dated any men before.What would you do when... 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    so can date me if you like, your friend can watchWhat would you do when... 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    You're right, she is ignorant and probably just trying to get under your skin. I'd revise my standards for choosing friends in the future and find one that isn't so insecure about herself that she has to make cracks about someone elses nationality to explain why she can't get dates herself. Don't worry about the stereotypes they're not worth your time.
    Maybe she's just jealous that she can't get one.
    Just say ';actually, we're after your women';.





    Then growl suggestively. She probably won't say that again.
    Really?


    Cause most dudes I know don't really dig foreign chicks and I don't really like any foreign dudes


    I prefer people from the Americas
    I would just tell her that you have not dated anyone and just be friends with her. Dont say anything mean because thats never good.
    she might of said this knowing she was your friend and thought she could joke around with you like that?


    let her know it bothered you. otherwise she is going to think it is okay and more than likely make another comment to you, again thinking its okay with you.
    your friend needs to have some life experiences before she makes an ignorant and inaccurate statement like that. ask her what statistical proof does she have to prove that besides her own judement (and judgemental she is!). I am sure that she will get your point and hopefully she will be a bit embarassed at her brass behavior.
    If you don't see a ring, everything is fair game. No one owns a man. Until their married. If you have something he is looking for then get together.

    Best friends advice, what should i do?

    I moved from my hometown a few years ago and left my very best friend behind. At first, we used to talk to each other all the time on the phone, now we barely even speak. She has a new best friend, and i can't help but feel a bit jealous, like she never even cared about our friendship. I really miss her, but i feel like i always put the most effort in our friendship, what should I do?Best friends advice, what should i do?
    It's probably not like she never cared about your friendship she has just now moved on. and i know it's hard to here sometimes but that's just the way it is unfortunately!


    Although you can still ring her up and ask to meet up for a while and talk; maybe remembering some really good memories of you two together. Then maybe you guys will both remember the good times you had and want to both see each other more and more?!


    Just an idea, hope it helps xxBest friends advice, what should i do?
    Just move on. There's nothing you can really do, this kind of situation can't be prevented. It's happened to me several times. The best thing to do is just get a new best-friend, and move on. She obviously has..

    Need advice on best, easiest camcorder for me and my 12 yr old?

    My 12 yr old and myself are looking for a camcorder. Requirments are: EASY to use, around $200 or less, small, able to make DVD's from footage, easy to share videos on PC. I need some advice, there are soooo many out there!


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    JVC Everio GZ-MG130 (30 GB) Camcorder





    I just wrote a review on this one. I have it and it's pretty good. Does just what I want, and if you have a DVD Burner, it's easy to burn to DVD using this model.
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    I'm 5 months pregnant and was wondering : what's the best advice you would like to give me for when the baby comes? Any advice ;) I'm all ears!


    Thanx! :PMoms with experience : share your best advice! :D?
    My advice is to find your happy medium between the two extremes. Chances are you know there is a big divide between those who are vocal about letting baby cry it out all night and those who refuse to let their babies cry for any reason. Find the area in the middle that you are comfortable with, rather than either extreme. If you spend any time in the Newborn and Baby section you'll see that there are a lot of people extremely passionate about one extreme or the other (formula is just as good as breast milk, maybe better vs formula will make your baby stupid and ill, cloth diapers are unsanitary vs cloth diapers being the best option, wearing your baby will make your baby clingy so don't hold your baby unless you have to vs never putting your baby down) etc. Research reputable sources and consider everyone's perspective, and find where in the middle you feel comfortable with. Neither extreme in thinking about what to do with your baby will be the best for you.





    The best advice I can give you is to pay attention to your baby and follow your baby's cues, even if that goes against logic. If you chose to use formula do so intelligently. If you chose to breast feed, know when a battle won't be worth fighting. Create an environment where baby doesn't have to cry it out, but also learns how to be self dependent. If you have a happy, healthy baby, don't use rice cereal or purees. Baby led weaning is easier for both you and baby.





    Mostly, remember that your baby will grow up and become a toddler, a preschooler, and eventually an adult. Try not to get too caught up in all of the baby related topics that you forget that your baby will grow up. Everything that happens in baby's first year is critical and important, but remember that the next 10 years will be just as important. It's easy to get caught up in breastfeeding vs formula, baby wearing vs strollers, co sleeping vs crib, and all of those choices that you forget that your child won't be a baby forever. Put your energy where it will be most productive for the rest of your baby's life. Good luck, and congratulations.Moms with experience : share your best advice! :D?
    My best advice is to trust your instincts. You will know what's right for your baby, and because all babies are individual people, what's right for one baby isn't always right for another.





    The only other advice I have is as follows:





    1) Sleep/rest as much as you can before the baby comes. I know you'll spend most of the last month waiting to go into labor (we all do), but you've got to take the opportunity to rest as much as you can. After the baby is here your chances to sleep will be almost zero!





    2) Get a ';SleepSack Swaddle'; (by Halo) and size small ';SwaddleMe'; (by Kiddopotamus). These were invaluable to each of my kids during the first 3 months. We used the SleepSack when they were newbies and the SwaddleMe when they got a little bigger.





    3) Have an assortment of different types of pacifiers on hand and ready to go





    4) Use the heck out of the baby swing!





    5) Relax and enjoy your new baby! It's a wonderful, exhausting, emotional, and rewarding experience, to say the least!





    Congrats %26amp; good luck!
    Best advice out there...don't take anyone elses word as fact without first doing your OWN research oN EVERY subject. You obviously have access to the internet, use it. Use the library, get second opinions when teh problem is medical...








    **ETA**I'm sorry, I did not mean to sound like I think that came across. I just mean that SO many moms take everything said to them by their own doctors, their childrens doctors, the WIC office, their mothers, mother in laws etc as rules when in fact if you are given 5 pieces of advice for the same issue obviously SOMEone is wrong LOL I just meant that my advice IS to do your own research as apparently so many don't do. Find what works best for you and your family and stick with it :)
    Okay the best advice ever. Sleep when the baby sleeps. I shrugged this off like whatever, I dont have time for that, but months down the line I regratted it.





    If breastfeeding, buy a pump. Sometimes you just need a break and its best to have milk ready. And sometimes you are away from your baby.


    Dont be scared to breastfeed in public--use a hooter hider if more comfortable. I was so embarassed to do this, but it really messed with my supply.


    Never use formula. If you are tired, pump it and save it for the baby. You will get in this nasty habit and ruin your supply. If you have to run an errand, pump before you go.


    Even though dont be scared to BF in public, always pump a bottle b4 you go cuz sometimes you cant sit down and feed.





    Swings are great!





    Dont buy too many baby toys, they never use them too much. They prefer to play with your stuff. I let my baby pay with calculators, an empty wallet, etc he loves it.





    Read as much as you can about newborns while you are pregnant.





    Take it easy, housework can wait!





    People will tell you you are doing things wrong, dont listen, you know best usually
    First enjoy your baby as much as you can because they grow so fast. Sleep when your baby is sleeping. Don't worry too much about the house work. When someone offers you help take them up on it. Don't hesitate to ask for help. Make sure you have a swing and a bouncy seat that vibrates. You will probably need one of them to help calm the baby down. Always remember don't hesitate to call the doctor when you are worried about something with your baby that is what they are there for. There is never a dumb question when it comes to your baby. Stay calm when they are crying because if you get stressed out they will feel it and cry more. As long as you stay calm your baby will calm down. Most importantly though is enjoy your baby because you will miss it iwhen they are older. I do. Mine are almost 4 years old and a 14 month old I really miss the newborn days. But I enjoy these days as well. They do more and you can play with them more. You just have to be on your toes a lot more then when they are newborns.





    Congratulations on your pregnancy and your upcoming arrival of your little one.
    1) Realize that you will sleep again, eventually


    2) If you choose not to breastfeed; keep a baby bottle


    filled with water next to your bed at night and just add powered formula for night feeding; but Breast is Best


    3) Don't rock the baby to sleep; teach him or her to self-comfort or you will have baby's sleep problems to deal with.


    4) You will have many well-meaning friends, family and strangers giving you unsolicited advice about how to care for your baby; but remember IT IS YOUR BABY
    1. In the beginning, nap when your baby naps or you will end up exhausted!


    2. Don't worry about cleaning the house every week. No one cares how clean the house is...except YOU!


    3. Try generic diapers, you'll save a bundle.


    4. Set a schedule (I read Babywise by Gary Ezzo)


    5. No pacifiers


    6. Do not put baby in your bed


    7. Put baby to bed while awake and let him/her learn to fall asleep on his/her own


    8. Start a college fund


    9. Don't worry about weight loss, the weight will eventually come off!


    10. ****Let your husband change diapers, feed the baby, put the baby to bed, etc.**** Otherwise, you will end up doing everything all by yourself!!!!
    Do whatever feelws right for baby. Listen to your own natural instints. And enjoy that new baby smell, and the way they curl their legs up when you lift them. Good luck
    when the baby sleeps u should sleep as well!!!! also if family offers help dont be afraid to take i!!! good luck
    When he or she grows up, don't use the camera too much.

    Will anybody help Asian men? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    If you are a Romantic Asian Man or have known some Asian men who is romantic. Please defense the argument that Asian men are not romantic. lol :)Will anybody help Asian men? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    Hmm, I'm currently with an Asian man and he's super romantic and a gentleman.Will anybody help Asian men? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    hey i thought only french men are romantic? ;)


    i don't know this guy but this girl was my classmate from high school. her bf proposed to her by getting the Hilton hotel to hang a banner that says ';C-Sze, marry me';. But that day, she actually never use that route that passed the hotel to go to work and never see it but others did. It was plastered all over the newspaper the next day and that's how I got to know about it.
    My brothers wife is heavily pregnant. on his hour lunch break from work he will drive home to give her a foot massage and make sure she is comfortable.


    Thats just one of the sweet beautiful things he does for her.
    I know of asian men that do romantic things for their ladies. Just withold your attention until they learn! Evolution is the fastest teacher. no romance no action... leads to plenty of romance!
    I got your romantic Asian man right here. I've taken my girl all over the world (France, England, Italy, Prague, Germany, etc). We have pictures of us kissing next to virtually every iconic monument imaginable. It's pathetic, but we like to laugh at all of our sappy pictures!





    For Valentine's day I take her to a french bistro and then a carriage ride and then back to my place for champagne/ strawberries and a sensual massage (been doing this for 14 years). LOL





    On lazy Saturdays I bust out my guitar for her and sing to her love ballads.





    Today I took off from work so that I can take my girl on a nice lunch date.





    I speak 3 languages and my girl loves it when I talk to her in different languages!





    This September I'm taking her to St. Lucia cause she's never been to a tropical island before.





    So you see, Asian men can be quite romantic!
    Hope is hopeless in her stalking obsession with Asians be it positive or negative. Will anybody help Hope with her ignorance? she/he/it/troll needs it the most lol :)
    The asian men I have been with are not romantic... Im not sure if i would ever find one who is!
    The only people that think Asian men are not romantic are racists or ignorant people. They are also people that have never been around many types of different Asians enough to know that they are not all QUIET, GEEKY, SKINNY, SHORT, PALE, and UGLY. I'm sick of these stereotypes. I don't think A LOT of men know how to be ROMANTIC LOL. I have encountered different kinds of men of different ethnicities that gots the suaveness! LOL





    Oh, and my sister has been with her boyfriend (Laotian) for 3 years and he was probably one of the most romantic guys she had ever met. He would always do something special for her, write poetry, draw, sculpt, or make a dance video (he can dance like Chris Brown LOL)! He's full of surprises, but she let that go. haha
    dang , people need to stop pushing asian men down, they are humans, of course they are romantic too
    It sounds like your finding fault. Try using acceptance. Go with the flow but keep your boundaries

    Feel like I'm losing my best friend to a guy I dont approve of at all.Can someone help with good advice?

    She is a little sneaky nowadays and I dont like the guy for a number of reasons + my friend has a fiance who is far away but is not living up to her expectations at the moment. What do I do? I dont want to lose our friendship over a stranger!Feel like I'm losing my best friend to a guy I dont approve of at all.Can someone help with good advice?
    my friend went through and is going through this ';Stage'; if u will right now. if he's that bad im sure something will come up sooner or later and they will break up. usually i live with it and if i have a problem i would tell her. don't sweat it. if she has any sense at all she'll handle it right.Feel like I'm losing my best friend to a guy I dont approve of at all.Can someone help with good advice?
    tell her exactly what you feel.
    Whatever her situation is with the fiance, she needs to fix. Does this guy no she has a fiance? Either way, you cannot pick your friends boyfriends but since she now has two, I would back off and let her know you are backing off because she is hurting two people not just one. Let her go and do your own thing. Tell her exactly what you think and tell her to call you when she has her head straight. What she is doing is deceitful and wrong for all involved. Whatever it is she wants out of men, she needs to look at herself. How can somebody far away not live up to your standards if they aren't around. I hope he is not away at war, fighting for her freedom. That is plain low. Trust me, your friendship will be stronger when you stand up to her, tell her how you feel and you disappear for a while. If she doesn't come back to you, she wasn't that good of a friend. Trust me.
    There's nothing u can do to stop the friendship from ending trust me I went through almost the same thing like a couple of days ago.

    Your Best Advice To Be Happy And Dont Think About Problems?

    Plaease Answer, I Pick The Best Advice For Best Answer;-)Your Best Advice To Be Happy And Dont Think About Problems?
    Why would you not think about problems? If you can't handle reality, you should seriously consider checking into a place that deals with people like that.





    I'm happy Because I think about my problems. I resolve my problems. No problems -- more time for happiness. Why avoid reality?Your Best Advice To Be Happy And Dont Think About Problems?
    i say go out and let your hair down it works for me.
    Face your fears head on and know that you are in control. Confidence rules.
    support urself get a good partner in life...no bad habits.take vacations
    Mine is when i go see a really good movie, a funny one.





    I will tell my problems to my friends and boyfriend.


    I try not to bottle up my feelings and try to work things out fast.


    Otherwise, i will go running or go walk at the beach and sit at the seaside and wath the sun go down.





    Or i will just go out with friends and talk .
    Surround yourself with friends and stay busy. The busier you are the less time you have to dwell on issues. Thinking about the problems is a healthy way to deal with them, but you need to get past the initial painful point first. Hang out with friends that can make you smile and when you do go home stop off for some ice cream first!
    Use a lot of marijuana?
    Occupy yourself doing something that YOU enjoy...FOR YOU.
    Alcohol has worked for me. I used to worry and get upset all the time at little things. Now I drink Wine very frequently and I find I don't get as upset even when bad things happen. I just do what I have to do to get things back to normal and don't sweat it.





    PS: I take taxi's whenever I plan on going out and drink more than a couple of drinks. Don't need a DUI.

    My son, 18, will be going off to college, out of state, so what would be the best advice as far as finances?

    cash, as in a monthly allowance check card, credit card with a small limit?My son, 18, will be going off to college, out of state, so what would be the best advice as far as finances?
    Have him open a checking account in his college town. He can decide if he wants to get an ATM card linked to that account for convenience in obtaining cash. Deposit his ';allowance'; to his checking account monthly in a pre-agreed amount. If he wants more than you give him, tell him to get a job.





    If he hasn't had a checking account before, give a brief lesson in account maintenance. You can be the judge here because you know him but don't assume anything.





    Forget the credit card idea - it's a real trap and too tempting for many kids that young. He doesn't need to graduate with that kind of debt.My son, 18, will be going off to college, out of state, so what would be the best advice as far as finances?
    i HAVE 3 IN COLLEGE, MY ADVISE IS TO GET A SECOND JOB AND HAVE IT DIRECTLY DEPOSITED TO HIS ACCOUNT, THAT WAY YOU DONT HAVE TO DEAL WITH DOING IT YOURSELF!! BEST OF LUCK- THEY DO GRADUATE-HOLD ON!!
    Get him a bank account with the same bank you use, and have him get a debit card. assuming you have online access with the bank, you can transfer him money with a mouse click, and also monitor his spending (youll have to get his account password). Limit the ATM use, as you wont know what he's spending it on otherwise. I'd recommend doling out money not as an allowance, but on a case-by-case basis. you're already extending yourself enough by paying out of state tuition for your son... ther's more to college than academics... i know lots of people that have money management problems up into their 30s because they never had to fend for themselves financially.
    i would never recommend credit cards. and limit to each week how much money will be used, i tried to do a monthly limit but it never worked for me, when i divided it to weeks it was much better. at least then if its all spent too soon he will only have till the following week to wait for more cash.
    Don't do cash. Crime on campus for cash is high and there is no record of the spending so you don't know what it is being spent on.


    I suggest opening a checking account for him and put money in there to start him out. Have the bank statements sent to your home address so you can monitor it. He should ALSO keep a check register updated.


    A credit card would be OK, but make sure it is a debt card so he doesn't tap into the insanely high credit limits they issue. You could also ask the credit card company to limit the credit limit on the card so he can't go over.


    Between the credit card statement and/or bank statements you can monitor how the funds are being spent and how much so you can do your own budgeting. Hope this helps!
    ask him to concetrate in hhis study and spend his spare time at the ceapest places or with no coast
    Get an on-campus job and open a checking account with an on-campus branch. Do NOT fall into the trap of getting a credit card no matter how tempting. Checking accounts are best for students because they have to track debits and credits. Kids are much less likely to carefully manage if all they have to do is swipe a card.

    What is the best relationship advice you have ever given/been given?

    A very good friend of mine once told me ';When it is no longer fun, get out'; He is so right, who wants to be in a relationship that is'nt fun anymore?What is the best relationship advice you have ever given/been given?
    Being insecure wastes too much energyWhat is the best relationship advice you have ever given/been given?
    I just was married last month and a friend said to me ';Both partners need to always give 65% in a relationship. That way there is always 35% leftover for love when things get tough.'; I really liked these words of wisdom and will remember them always.
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    I am 22 years old woman. I have been in love with his man for 4 years, but we never have sex and I am still a virgin.





    Last year, we separated and kept in touch as friends. We actually hope to get back together one day. Recently, he decided to move on by giving me some hints. He does not even want to tell me the truth. When I asked him for the truth, he ignored me.





    My heart is broken. I thought he is my true love. I have never dated any other guys.





    I want to think that he is giving up because he does not wait for me anymore. I want to be a virgin bride. What should I do?. Thank you so much for your kindness.Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you so much for your kindness.?
    Never compromise your beliefs, they are who shapes you....if you give in on this you will have very little self respect and he still might leave you and then not only will you not be a virgin bride, you wont' be with the man you changed your values and morals for. If he really respected you and loved you this would be something he would be willing to wait for too.....keep your chin up and stick to your standards....wish all women were strong enough to stick to them!Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you so much for your kindness.?
    You only give that gift away once, and it is wonderful to give it to your husband on the night you promise your life to him. Hold on and wait for your prince to come...he's out there, and he will not mind the wait. In fact, he will appreciate it.
    If he has moved on then you two are not meant to be. I know it hurts now but in the future you'll meet your true love and be thankful.
    I think he isn't worth it if he won't wait for you! Not many people stay a virgin these days or care to for that matter. There are other men who will give you the respect you deserve and will appreciate having a virgin for their mate. Good for you.
    forget the loser, be happy, and move on.
    Stay a virgin the right man will come along your young yet. It's never too late! If he really wanted a relationship he would love you and respect your wishes and wouldn't move on. (9% of men would love to have a virgin bride. They are hard to find. Let go of the old and start anew. You won't be sorry you did this. Good luck.
    I think it is absolutely wonderful that you want to be a virgin bride. The man who marries you will be getting a precious gift.


    Do not give up your dream of waiting until marriage because of this man of four years. If he wants to move on, then he isn't the man for you. Do not waste your tears over a man who wasn't right for you. It is not meant to be.


    There is someone even better out there for you, you just haven't met him yet. Your time will come when the time is right, and when the right man comes along he will treasure you for waiting just for him.
    well if you are saying the reason he is moving on is because you will not have sex with him before marriage then you will be better off now than later. if he can not wait for you then that means he don't love you.true love is hard to find and if two people truly love each other then they will respect each others feelings and wishes.im sure your true love will come when it is ment to be please don't rush things because you will regret it later so be patient good luck
    If he truly love you he wouldn't ignore your questioning. If he moved on so should you.
    Here is your solution. Marry him and then once he feels secure, play the field. It's OK.
    if you hoped to get back together why didn't you, or was it just you and not him? why does he have to wait your 22 get married- or are you saving that until your 30. i understand saving yourself for marriage- so get married
    I know this is probably what you dont want to hear , but you have it all still , you are like a fresh dish at the shop , with everything still on offer , this loss will be a blessing to you , try and chase it , but if it doesnt comply , think of what you still have , and keep moving. sad situation , but you have still got all the goodies , minus the baggage
    Sweet Pea it seems like he is just tired of waiting to be with you intimately. I mean don't give up your standards just because someone can't wait. If he truly loved you he would wait and wouldn't pressure you at all. It really seems like he only wants that one thing. You keep yourself for Mr. Right not Mr. Right now. This is very sacred and you would want only your husband to handle you with care. God Bless!
    How sad for you, but wonderful at the same time.





    I'm sorry you're heart broken over this.





    We always fall in love with the first person we date for a period of time. The sad fact is, it's rarely our TRUE love even though it may feel that way at the time.





    He very well may not want to tell you his reasons for fear of hurting you even more. You seem like a very unique lady and one to be held in the highest regards.





    While there is little anyone may be able to say that will ease your pain, you have to remember that his loss will only be someone else's gain.





    It's a bad idea to marry the first and only person we ever dated. As time goes by, your pain will ease. Give yourself that time, then move on with your life.





    You'll meet some very interesting people along the way, both good and bad. It's important that you take your time and make the right decision as to who you give your virginity to and marry. The only way to do that is through experience. Right now you lack that in the dating arena and it's OK.... we've all been there.





    When you finally meet the man you truly love, this relationship and the feelings you have won't even come CLOSE to what you'll feel then.





    My heart goes out to you, but understand this and take my word for it.....you'll be just fine...you really will.
    He should respect your wish to remain a virgin until you are married. Why has he not married you yet? Does he have another woman in his life now? He is crazy not to wait for you. I think you should give up on him and wait for a true man who will respect you and treat you as you deserve.
    Time to move on ... start with your home your friends .your job ....and a new bo ... you will be glad you did b/c he will care for you ...not just play with you.....
    He's not the one for you. It doesn't seem like it now, but you will find someone else. If he really wants you, he would wait and respect your wishes to remain a virgin until married.





    Let go of the past and think to the future. Most all of us have had someone early in our lives who we thought was our one true love, only to find out he or she didn't think so.





    It will hurt for a while, but time heals all. Good luck to you.
    I'm sorry you are hearbroken. I know it's tough. The only way to know for sure why he's moving on is for him to tell you that himself. There is no way any of us here are going to be able to give you that answer. My advice is to immerse yourself in your hobbies, go out with friends with family, etc. to take your mind off of it as much as possible. There is someone out there for you, and time does heal all wounds. Big hug. Best of luck.
    I read your line about ';never dated any guys'; and thinking that he is your ';true love';. Then I had to look at your avatar. Your thought pattern seems very Asian.





    However, back to your question...





    If he wants to move on because he can't wait any longer, so be it. You want to be a virgin bride and he wants to move on (whether he can't wait or not). You would expect your boyfriend to respect your wishes. Why would you not expect the same of yourself for his wishes?





    Giving yourself thinking that it would save a relationship won't work. Think of all the marriages (not just boyfriends) that have failed and they (usually) have had sex.





    Stick to your values and find a wonderful boyfriend.
    Stand your ground. Any man who can love you for who you are and respect you and your standards is truly a man worth waiting for. Don't give in - you won't regret it.





    One thing though - if you are dating for that long, the pressure increases. If you find another guy and nothing seems to be in the direction of marriage after 6 months, move on.
    I am sorry he broke your heart.





    The thing to do is to move on with your life. Don't dwell on this man. He can't even talk to you and tell you he has moved on? He's not worth another moment of your time.
    Don't balm your self. If he wanted to marry you he would of done it buy now. I am trying to be kind. Had you ever thought that he might be gay. If he is he didn't want to tell you. He should of been honest with you about how he feels. Try and go on with your life. There is a lot of men that would be lucky to have you. Good Luck. Patches.

    What's the best parenting advice you have ever received?

    that you actually used, What's the best parenting advice you have ever received?
    My kids need me today, the dishes will wait.What's the best parenting advice you have ever received?
    Life is a ride.





    You will not be a perfect parent and more than likely your child will have issues from something you did or did not to so just enjoy it and save up for therapy.





    Also your kids will have plenty of friends but they really need a parent but there will be times their friends will turn on them so you need to know how to be a friend as well. Know when to be what your child needs.





    Find the humor in the things they do when they are young because as they get older the crap they do becomes less funny.





    Your children are a reflection of you, so make sure to put your best foot forward.
    ';You are the parent and it is your responsibility to make the decisions. Anyone can have an opinion, but remember that it is your ultimate responsibility.';





    I pass this one on to all of my friends who have been overwhelmed by advice from other people on how to raise their kids.



    ';Stop worrying about everything and every little detail in life. You're making yourself a mess.'; Spoken by my daughters 3rd grade teacher a couple years ago.
    Enjoy these days now before they are gone. You can always have a prefectly clean house or career later but you can't redo this day with your child.
    If no one else is paying your bills and supporting your kids then it does not matter what they say. Live your life how you want.
    You must pick your battles to fight and the ones you pick you must win. Has worked this far, though my kids are still all young. :)

    If you think me as your brother what best advice would you give?

    ';Be true to thine self.'; William Shakespeare





    You know yourself better than anyone else, no one has a better insight.If you think me as your brother what best advice would you give?
    wear a condom

    POLL: What is the best advice you can share with everyone right now?

    Don't ever go to bed angry at your spouse,


    (They may not be there in the morning, My aunt's husband died in bed after an argument they had. She was a widow at 25, he was only 40.)





    Never drive down the wrong side of the road.





    Always wear your panties before you leave the house, if you are wearing a very short dress.





    Always give your spouse a kiss before they leave the house, you don't know if they will be coming back.





    Never trust a Guy if he says, to trust him, (there is always something to not trust him when he says these words)





    Always give your spouse at least one compliment a day





    If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with





    Never lend a friend money, you will soon come to regret it, if they don't pay it back, and then the friendship is never the same again afterwardsPOLL: What is the best advice you can share with everyone right now?
    when one sees no limits, they have no limits.POLL: What is the best advice you can share with everyone right now?
    Life is Short. Live Life to It's Fullest. Find something enjoyable to do everyday.
    smile bigger, laugh harder, and dream bigger
    Marriage does not necessary need to be a part of one's life





    Justin
    Do what you love, and success will follow.
    i cant give out advice, when im the one needing it...


    -peace
    Live life like today is the last one you will ever have.
    always look forward to something
    vote for JOHN EDWARDS!!
    well all i can say is its up to you if you want to follow my advice or not but i hope everyone still their fingers on after the nights banging experience
    slow down and take time to appreciate the little things


    (best advice anybody has ever given me)
    When one door closes%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;another one opens. Never, I repeat never give up hope!!!
    one day at a time
    IGNORE ADVICE!!!
    Never be envious of others, they're more screwed up than you think.
    Take chances..


    The results may be good...may be bad..but at least you can know that you tried..


    The worst thing is never trying..
    Don't overdraft on your debit cards.
    watch your back in case some one tries to do something


    funny. .
    Good things come for those who wait.
    Stay in school
    Don't stress the small stuff. It isn't worth it.
    forget it... life is too short
    keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer. ;-)
    Keep it real... Be you're self...
    Be true to self and dont be something your not. Live to your own expectations.
    ';Just keep on living!';
    Be your self in everything, do what DO you want.
    don't be a perv and don't ask people rate you online it will get you hated by many

    Makeup advice for looking my best on stage for vocal recital?

    I am fair without being extremely pale, have dark blonde/light brown hair and hazel eyes. I don't want to appear washed out but don't really want to look heavily made up for when I'm off stage either. For instance what colors tend to look best under the stage lights, do I go heavier than usual on the blush...etc. Makeup advice for looking my best on stage for vocal recital?
    you go heavier on everything. although it may seem like too much to you if your stage has typical lighting like any theatre should then it will completely wash you out, especially if you're already fair. you need to go heavy on the blush and foundation and you also need to go heavier than normal on your eyeliner and mascara. you don't have to do anything extreme because your audience won't be able to tell minute details. just stick with the basics and you'll look great.Makeup advice for looking my best on stage for vocal recital?
    wear a foundation a little darker than your skin color or use some bronzer because the stage lights are going to make you skin look washed out and bronzer will just give you a glow

    Why he does that? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    This guy has a crush on me for over a year. We go to the same college. Every single days he always comes to where I work and check me out for 1-2 hours. He have tried to talk to me, but I am kind of shy and want to see what he is all about first.





    His crazy behavior are:





    He looks at my waist, hips, and butts. (Always)


    He closed his eyes and smile.


    He stare at me for minutes like he lost it for a moment.


    He always talk to his buddies and they all look at me.


    One time, I wore clothes that fit my body and kind of sexy. He was so horny and shake the table---you know what I meant (I was so scared)





    He is nice looking. He is a college football player. He gets good grade in school. His friends told me that he likes me alot and wants my phone number, but he was just afraid I will turn him down. I want to give him a chance, but he acts so weird ...





    What do you think? Why he acts like that...?





    Thank you for much for your kindness.Why he does that? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    He's no stalker. He's just bashful and shy about being near a beautiful girl. At this point he can't think of anything intelligent to talk with you about so he's just admiring your physical attributes. He will eventually grow out of it and learn to carry on a real conversation with you. You can shorten the time by carrying on with 'small talk'.





    Good luck if you really like him.Why he does that? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    You are more than welcome. I hope it works out for you!

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    Maybe I'm wrong, but if he's staring at your body and then talking to his friends about you, he sounds like he's just interested in sex with you. I wouldn't look for anything long-term or serious with this guy if I were you.
    He might have a disorder like anxiety or maybe he is really shy and isnt that good at talking to women, thats why his friends told you. Think about it, football players spend more time in the weight-room than on the field practicing (unless hes a qb) so his day probably consists of weight-lifting, football practice, and you said he gets good grades so thats a lot of man time in practice and weightlifting with him and his boys, schoolwork alot of alone time for him so maybe he is shy, 1-2 hours of staring and walking around. OCD, anxiety nerves, scared to get rejected, not much experience with the ladies???? I dont know, he is weird, but probably nice and just needs a sweet thang in his life :)
    it means he really likes you.
    It seems to me he's just really nervous. You know there's no rule that says the girl can't make the first rule. I don't mean you have to ask him out but you can be the one to start a conversation.





    ';One time, I wore clothes that fit my body and kind of sexy. He was so horny and shake the table---you know what I meant';


    No, I have no idea what you meant. I've never heard of someone being horny causing a table to shake. Please add details to clarify what you mean. If being horny causes some sort of trimmers I'd like to know because I'm missing out.
    Stay away. Stay far away. It sounds more like an obsession and possible future stalking than a romance to me.
    This guy follows you to work, sits and stares at you for hours and you want to give him a chance? He sounds like a stalker to me. Be very wary of him. Keep your distacne, and if you feel threatened in any way, call campus security or the cops.
    that's just some guys' ways of telling girls there really into you


    maybe u need to take the first step instead of him


    he thinks you don't like him so he is confused on if u like him or not


    ps. the crusader girl could be right but i dont think so
    Well im only 14 but i can usually tell when someone likes someone and odviously he likes you maybe your soo pretty that he rather just stare at you everyday and enjoy your body features then go up to you and ask you out when you say no


    he prolly would never come see you again





    Try talkin to him tell him you noticed him lookin at you and you thought he was cute ask him why he never comes talks to you





    or just pass him and smile and say hey then walk away then he will think you like him and try to talk to you lol








    but that is a lil weird
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  • Should my little sister pick her own school? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    My little sister is 15 years old. She wants to go to technical school instead of highschool. On the other hand, my parents want her to go to high school and college.





    Today my father asked me to talk and convince my little sister to go to high school and college. I feel weird, but somehow I did. I believe she need college education to get a good job.





    Are we doing the right thing? Should we allow a 15-years old pick her own paths?





    Thank youShould my little sister pick her own school? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    You need to let teens pick their own path, but you also have to be sure they really understand the options. (And if they tell you 'I know' for the tenth time, it can really make discussing it difficult.)





    The big question: Why does she want to go to technical school? If she struggles with her classwork but seems smart when you see her doing chores, working on hobbies, and so on, it is possible that book learning isn't for her. (My guess is that she has a friend going to the school and wants to go too--keep her in high school.)





    The advantage high school has over tech school is freedom and flexibility. The diploma shows that you know enough and can work hard enough to finish, but doesn't prepare you for working. It gives you a base of knowledge to use to learn whatever career you'll go into, but when you finish high school, you are still unskilled labor.





    The advantage to trade school is that it does prepare you for a job. The disadvantage is that it only prepares you for a job. If you start working in that field and have no diploma, you are locked in. You won't find a skilled job in another field, so you'd have to go back to trade school or get an unskilled job if you decide that what you studied in school isn't what you want to do with your life. A college diploma doesn't straightjacket you as much--it would help you in a variety of jobs, even ones outside your major.





    Trade school is good for some people, though I think most people would be best served by finishing high school first and then going to trade school rather than college--especially if they think they are the type that won't finish college.





    Now if she's really smart and the technical school was for advanced computer science, I'd say she should definitely finish high school and then go to trade school. She can start trade school classes while she is still in high school to get a head start. But college degrees in programming/networking/etc. aren't better than trade school degrees. Often computer consultants find certifications (tests they take on specific topics) more important than a degree. With how fast computer science changes, a guy who gets a masters degree without going to work will find that information he learned freshman year is already outdated. The traditional educational paths may not be best for that particular field.Should my little sister pick her own school? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    Yes, depending on how mature she is and is she doing this based on what her friends are doing.


    My husband and I let our 14 year old son make the decision to attend an all boys Catholic boarding school or public school. Granted he's would only be an hour away but he would have to stay there during the week and closed weekends. He thought about it for a couple of months and wrote a pro/con list and when it came for the decision he chose the boarding school. He loves it and is very happy. He has to make decisions on his own and he's become a more out going person.
    Yes. If she is unhappy in a strict academic environment she will resent anyone who tries to keep her there. Let's face it not everyone needs to go to college. If she learns a trade that she is happy doing then she'll be fine. Even if she finds out that tech school is not what she wants she can always transfer back to the academic high school or go on to college from the tech school. Help her find her own way.
    Check it:Ask yourself Is there a reason why she wants to go to techical school?if there is lopok at it like this she can go to her school part time and to the high school partime[giving the option of seeing both worlds.Now it could be that she is really smart and that all she need is just some things pulled from high school,so..why not let her get that trade she needs from tech school,its not like its gonna hurt or hinder her.We need to support our young people in there decisions,at the same time while not to go over board and monitoring them.You can get a GOOD JOB as well goin to tech school,don`t ever think that you can`t. open your mind and hear her reasons for why she wants to go to this school. Let me know whats up.
    no. she is too young. i think you are only old enough to make real decisions when you are old enough to vote. you should put her through normal high school, and if she still wants to go to technical school, let her go to a technical college of some sort, like ITT Tech.
    She has to go to high school first.


    Once she graduates she can go to any school she wants to.
    let her do what she wants... when kids do what their parents want them to do, they can end up totally unhappy and LOSE THEIR IDENTITY!!!





    your sister may go on to college from technical school, you never know... she has a brain, and i'm sure she will use it to think about the next step in her life, after tech school.





    no you're not doing the right thing... talking to her ONCE about her options is ok... she heard you guys the first time. harping on her is going to cause resentment and problems.





    it's her life, not your parents'
    No way she is way to young. I have a 15yr old and there is no way I would let him decide what school to go to. She is at that age that they think they know everything (we all were there). But they don't. That is why were here to help them along there way. I think she needs to finish high school then decide from there. Now that said. The high school my son goes to gives you the option of taking a class at the tech. school. They get a credit for high school and helps them if they decide to go to the tech school later. I don't know how it is where you live but maybe that could be a option. Kinda a compromise
    She is very young to no for sure what she wants. She may change her mind many time befor she is sure what she wants. I would lesson to her and try and understand what she wants. When the time comes it will be up to her.
    its her education and its HER future, not her parents, i think she has a right to choose what kind of school she wants to go to, if the parents just picks what THEY feel is best for her, it may leave her behind in what shes trying to look forward to. i wouldnt decide for her.
    I have a 15 yr. old son. I would not let him make the choice. While they are mature enough to make many of their own decisions, this one is too big and effects their future too much. I remember being 15 and thinking that adults didn't understand and I thought I knew what was best for me and my future. As it turns out, I wish that my parents had made more decisions for me. A 15 yr. old knows what they want right now but doesn't know how it will effect their futures. They may think they know but they have not had enough life experiences to truly know. I don't agree that your parents put you in the middle of this though. They have to put their foot down and decide whether they feel that the decision they choose is the best one or allow her to make her own choice. You shouldn't be involved. Although you are intitled to your opinion and expressing it to your little sister but your parents should not be asking you to be on their side and convince your sister of their ways.
    Why can't she do both? I did both when I was in high school. I had morning tech school and afternoon high school, same education and I learned a trade as well which looks good on a resume. Is there anyway she can do both??? Try to get yoru parents to compromise a little so she won't be misreable throughout her high school exprience b/c she would rather be somewhere else.

    Did you know the best advice you can get is your own?

    So the next time you try and give someone else some advice. Listen in! You might neeed to hear it yourself.Did you know the best advice you can get is your own?
    Not always,sometimes you need outside perspective.Did you know the best advice you can get is your own?
    Yes. However, asking others to answer our question forces us to focus on answers we may know but a) not want to deal with or b) want consensus on. Basically we know the answer, for the most part, but are not confident about it. We also are not experienced in all aspects of relationships, so learning about others' experiences gives us a framework from which to gauge our own problems. Sometimes we also just want someone to encourage us to go forward with a solution. I have found that answering others' questions has forced me to clarify the answers to my own life questions. I actually help myself by helping others. I also feel that I can help others by sharing similar experiences so people do not feel alone and have the confidence to take their own advice!
    I had a friend who wanted advice on whether to ROB a bank, kill himself, or just hold on for one more day to hope things got better. He took his own advice and killed himself. So much for your theory. Sometimes you do need someone else's opinion just to confirm your own opinion.
    THEY DO SAY YOU LEARN BY YOU MISTAKES SO YOU LEARN NEXT TIME OLAY
    So should we listen to you, or not?
    Yep, that's true. But most people don't practice what they preach. It's easier to give someone else advice than actually taking your own advice.
    you're soooooooooo right
    thanks for that
    You know I think you need to take your own advice on this one!
    this sound reasonable...most people give advice but don't really take it themselves..
    Thanks for the advise! Are you listening in as well!
    Did you advise yourself on that? :)
    Good advice xx

    I wanna know what is the best advice to with a childhood sweetheart and let him know your ready for something

    real but you get butterflies to tell him.I wanna know what is the best advice to with a childhood sweetheart and let him know your ready for something
    I am married to my High School sweetheart. The most simple answer is to just tell him. However, the old ';letter writing'; never goes out of style.





    Good luck.I wanna know what is the best advice to with a childhood sweetheart and let him know your ready for something
    well just let him no!!! if u don't want to say it then just make the first move!! he will get it after the first move!!

    Have you been to craiglist ';Sexual encounters'; section? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    I have used craiglist daily to apply for jobs. I randomly went to the dating section, sexual encounters. There are many men and women post pictures of themselves nude on the internet. How would that be possible? Ain't they scared thier family, friends, or bosses will find out?Have you been to craiglist ';Sexual encounters'; section? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    They have no shame. They have no self esteem. Think you don't need that stuff right now. Job now.Have you been to craiglist ';Sexual encounters'; section? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    I don't think any one that has a stable ffamily, job, and life would ever post pictures of themselves nude. They would risk everything they have just so others could see pictures of them nude. They are mostly people who have no life and are really desperate. Theyn probably feel lonely and think that they will feel less solitude if they are seen by other people. But that is really stupid, instead of that they could go outside and try to find themselves a good job and some friends,
    Well, what those people are doing is very unwise. By posting nude pictures of themselves, they're only going to attract sexual predators.Obviously those people haven't thought out what the possible consequences are for their childish actions, but it is their decision to make.
    Yes, and people don't put their names and a lot of times their faces, so it's a fat chance someone you know will find it. Also, it deletes after a week.
    I love reading those sections! So of those people are freakin crazy. I like missed connections and casual encounters but all of them can be entertaining.


    However, on a more series note. I did meet my current gf using craigslist.
    id never put myself naked on the internet. no way! once those pictures are up there all they have to do is right click and save your photo so youre on countless hard drives.
    HAHHA. I have no clue.


    People on craigslist [in those sections] are such creepers.





    But, I love reading 'Missed Connections' - so funny.
    People on there are kinda creepy..


    I don't trust it too much, I posted something there too without pics and people were like ready to meet me.


    Maybe they think its the last place anyone would look?
    No class. Clearly these are people worth staying away from.
    never been there, but going now!


    appreciate

    What are the best advices in using computer in order to refuse any harms?

    You want to keep your laptop off your testicles so you do not become sterile.

    Best advice for school?

    I know that this may be a common sense question but I want to hear others opinions and what keeps them motivated. Or tips that you may have. I just want to do greaaaaaaaaaaaaaat. I already am, but I want to do more......Best advice for school?
    i am motivated to study because i think it will help us to have a better life in the future. another is to know the answer of all our questions and another is to help us in socializing ourselves.
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  • My small company has bought shares in another small fast growing company, best place/site for tax advice?

    I'm a small venture capital company an want to know if I pay tax on the value of the shares or only on the value of the dividends that I get?My small company has bought shares in another small fast growing company, best place/site for tax advice?
    Your Accountant or tax advisor.





    marksaveshomes.comMy small company has bought shares in another small fast growing company, best place/site for tax advice?
    As a ventue capital company, you MUST have a CPA! Call them! If you don't, get one!

    What's the best piece of advice you could share with someone about life?

    that you have experienced?What's the best piece of advice you could share with someone about life?
    Complaining about the past will not help the future.What's the best piece of advice you could share with someone about life?
    To find true happiness love %26amp; accept yourself for who you are, love %26amp; accept others for who they are %26amp; never miss a chance to tell them you love them. Every day do the right thing, help others, forgive %26amp; forget because life it too short. Be very thankful %26amp; accept what you have because there are many people today that don't have as much. Thank God every day for people to love %26amp; enjoy, also for what you have been given life .Learn to live %26amp; enjoy every day to the fullest %26amp; appreciate it because that's what it's all about.
    If you need advice on something make sure that the person you are getting the advice from is where you want to be in that area of life.





    Ex. If you are getting spiritual advise, get if from someone who has the spiritual life you would like to have. Not someone who is not spiritual.





    If you want relationship advise, get if from someone who has a relationship you would like to have. Not from someone who has bad relationships.





    If you want financial advise, get it from someone who has a financial statement you would like to have. Not from someone who is broke.
    Happiness is a conscious decision to enjoy every moment of every day. Hardships are given to us as life lessons. So, learn as much as you can and become a stronger / braver individual with it. Try to enjoy everything you do in life, and you will inspire others to do the same. Learn to love unconditionally, because everything else is not love.
    Discover WHO and WHAT you really are. Discover God and YOU are ONE Being. Walk away from ideas, concepts, principles and theories that teach you to FEAR yourself, others or God. See God as the Process of LIFE and the Source of Love. Get rid of expectations, demands, requirements, limitations, barriers, walls, rules, which force you to not be who you really are. Cause OTHERS to discover who and what they really are, for in doing so, you cause YOURSELF to discover who and what YOU are. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, because THEY ARE YOU. See yourself as an eternal and never ending BEING of purity, goodness, truth, wholeness, acceptabile in every facet and detail of your BEING, perfect in the Sight of God. Open your mind to LIFE being a miracle, not an everyday common occurance. Know, Trust, Embrace, Love, Help and and Thank God at all times, forming a true relationship of love. Know yourself as God. Love yourself. Share your wisdom with others.
    Listen to your instincts-that ';gut feeling'; you have-a woman's intuition is never wrong.Forgive your parents for whatever wrongs they have done when you were a child-they did the best they could,let go of the grudge and the bitterness-when they are gone you will have wished you would have accepted them for who they were %26amp; not tried to change them.Live each day as if it were your last-for one day it will be.
    ';Keep yourself clean and bright; you are the window through which you must see the world.'; - George Bernard Shaw





    ';Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.'; - Maria Robinson





    ';If passion drives you, let reason hold the reigns.'; - Benjamin Franklin





    ';We do not act rightly because we have virtue or excellence, but we have those because we have acted rightly.'; - Plato





    ';The good life is inspired by love and guided by knowledge.'; - Bertrand Russell





    ';The purpose of morality is to teach you, not to suffer and die, but to enjoy yourself and live.'; - Ayn Rand





    ';Work isn't to make money; you work to justify life.'; - Marc Chagall
    The human form of life is meant for inquiring into the absolute truth.





    Sentimentalism can blind us from truth; mental speculation can waste precious time.





    Be a scholar to life. Qualify all of your teachers. Don't be cheated.





    The greatest knowledge leads to the greatest exchange of love.





    Know thyself.





    Please read books written and translated by His Divine Grace A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada.
    It ends.





    Yesterday is dead, leave it dead.


    Tomorrow hasn't happened yet, so don't worry.


    Today is what ya got, make the most of it.





    AND, don't hold back anything, you get experience points for what you do, not what you wish you'd done.
    don't let fear hold you back. you only get one shot at life. live it. do NOT end up at the end wondering to yourself, ';what if?';. the only thing that can happen is that you get knocked down...if that happens, get back up and try again.
    WORK...Like you don't need the money


    LOVE...Like you've never been hurt


    DANCE...Like nobody's watching





    Don't expect and you won't be disappointed. (I made that one up!) lol





    Best advice I can give? LOVE...Love all, Love everything and Love everyone...just LOVE!!





    PEACE
    Tell God how you really feel. He already knows. I didnt get anywhere with God till I told him how I really felt. He just wants the truth. He wants you to hear it from you. If you want to waste time go ahead and keep lying to yourself.
    my favorite quote would have to be:


    Be yourself, everyone else is taken.


    To me it means dont try to be like anyone else because your your own special person in your own way.





    I also like you cant get better if you dont ocasionally crash and burn.





    :)
    The seemingly trite rhyme below that contains invaluable truth...





    Yesterday is history.


    Tomorrow is a mystery.


    Today is a gift.


    That's why it's called the present.
    Life goes by a lot faster the older you get, and some stuff is unimportant.


    Love others. Your parents know a lot more than you think they do when you are young.


    Friends are important. Looks are not.
    Don't wizz on the electric fence.


    Don't eat yellow snow.





    This,above all,to thine own self be true.





    Love was bought up and trademarked by Hallmark and the Disney corporation,pfffft love.
    Don't let the bad things count. All that matters is that you do what you can to move humanity forward. Look beyond your life: it's brief, but its effects can live on.
    Yours would be my #1 also.





    My #2 would be that you can achieve anything in the world, so long as you don't care who gets the credit.
    Make every memory count because there might not be a chance to say goodbye.


    Also, don't be afraid to love.





    ((((Freeze))))
    Hope only serves to bring greater pain. Appreciate good things, do not expect them.
    1. Love


    2. Forgive


    3. Accept
    the choice is already ours,





    so my advice would be to simply consider advice.. and to make sure you don't confuse it with something else
    Forget the past....live for today....anticipate a bright future. Oh, and don't stick forks into electrical sockets.
    Live your life. Don't be afraid to take chances(legal things). Your parents want the best for you, but go for your passion.
    Whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.
    Failure is not an option. It just means you gave up before you reached your goal.
    Mine would be, don't squander your life. It's too precious.


    Love everyone.
    Do it now, you may never get a second chance :-)





    Cheers :-)
    That you can love someone even if they don't love you back.
    Live Each Day As If It Were Your Last,


    Some Day, It Will Be.
    Being yourself always works out better than trying to be something else