Just look at how helpful she is:
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What's the best way to get my virgin friend, Freaky an advice column?
Where was this goddess of advice when I was ruining my whole life? And is it too late to fix it?What's the best way to get my virgin friend, Freaky an advice column?
lol
Please answer EVERYBODY.
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First she's going to have to stop her other jobs as Clay Aiken's hairdresser and Lindsay Lohan's dietician. Second, she'll need to forcibly take over the offices of Ann Landers, Dear Abby and Dear Margo.
Set her up with a TOLLROAD CONFESSION BOOTH.
Charge $10 per question. CHA-CHING!!!!
also
Have a tampon machine that takes quarters only!!!
WTF Piggle.
Sigh...call up Abby...she may have some advice. You know, your friend should also call the Seattle Stranger...she'd fit right in.
';When blood start spewing from your vagina';
wright an official proposal letter to Yahoo.. explaining the '; TALENTS';
Ann Landers predecessor is getting whacked as we speak.
I have taken her advice...is this why I'm so fcking miserable?
she needs to sleep around..start there, and she may have to start at the mailroom and work her way up like everyone else..
HAHA her first answer was great.
I've been giggling at her answers this morning.
I think that she should stay in women's health today and keep giving her good advice. I mean..if she doesn't help these misled souls..who will?
Wow, she's just so blunt. Oh well, what she says is the truth and nothing but. She rocks!!!
I'd give her a diamond every time she spoke!
could she tell me how to break up with my girlfriend who happens to be a Llama? oly out.
She tells it like it is.......LMFAO!
go to your local mall and make people tell her their problems.
Friday, January 8, 2010
I want to start golfing. somebody give me the best advice for starting this activity?
By asking on the golf board, not the baseball one.
Mistakes happen.I want to start golfing. somebody give me the best advice for starting this activity?
Go to the driving range and work on your swing.I want to start golfing. somebody give me the best advice for starting this activity?
Not trying to be mean or anything, but this is the baseball section
Here is a golf school that has some great golf tips. They have video, animation and other types of golf tips.
http://www.sdgagolf.com/golf_tips.php
Hope this helps
Mistakes happen.I want to start golfing. somebody give me the best advice for starting this activity?
Go to the driving range and work on your swing.I want to start golfing. somebody give me the best advice for starting this activity?
Not trying to be mean or anything, but this is the baseball section
Here is a golf school that has some great golf tips. They have video, animation and other types of golf tips.
http://www.sdgagolf.com/golf_tips.php
Hope this helps
Any advice on what is the best perfume for us girls to use?
MY favourites are:
With love by hilary duff
Vera Wang's Princess
Fantasy by Britney Spears
and Clinique Happy for womenAny advice on what is the best perfume for us girls to use?
My Ex GF wore OP - Vanilla scent...made me go crazy.
J.Lo's first one isn't bad either, dunno what its called though.
The vanilla one though...mmm, can't forget it..
everytime i smell somthing like it , i'm reminded of that girl and its been like 4 years.Any advice on what is the best perfume for us girls to use?
I Love: So de la Renta by Oscar de la Renta
and Juicy Couture
Hollister perfume ROXXX!!!
Princess - Vera Wang
any of the Britney Sprears perfumes, they smell soo good
Ralph- Ralph Lauren
With love by hilary duff
Vera Wang's Princess
Fantasy by Britney Spears
and Clinique Happy for womenAny advice on what is the best perfume for us girls to use?
My Ex GF wore OP - Vanilla scent...made me go crazy.
J.Lo's first one isn't bad either, dunno what its called though.
The vanilla one though...mmm, can't forget it..
everytime i smell somthing like it , i'm reminded of that girl and its been like 4 years.Any advice on what is the best perfume for us girls to use?
I Love: So de la Renta by Oscar de la Renta
and Juicy Couture
Hollister perfume ROXXX!!!
Princess - Vera Wang
any of the Britney Sprears perfumes, they smell soo good
Ralph- Ralph Lauren
Give me any makeup tips/advice you have, Best one gets best answer?
Keep it NATURAL. Stray from lipliners, being decked out in makeup and unnatural colours (ie: green, purple, magenta, blue. They're fun to play with, but unless you shop at Libby Liu FORGET IT). For a natural look I give this advice to everyone:
Good colours: Silver (makes your eyes pop! Especially when you put a dab of it near your tear ducts with matching colours), black, gold and brown eyeshadow.
If you want to make your eyes look bigger, keep your top eyelids lined or brushed with something dark and the bottom lids lined with something light (or not at all). For smaller eyes, just do the opposite. Liquid eyeliner is best for meticulous looks, and pencil liner best for smudged, sultry looks (although I find pencil runs more than liquid).
Make sure to curl your lashes, to give yourself an awake look to make your eyes even bigger. As for mascara, keep it natural and only include your lower lashes if you want a flirty look. An eyelash brush is a MUST HAVE for clumps!!
If your eye makeup stays subtle, go for a red lip if you dare, but otherwise choose a glossy, light-coloured lip (colours bring attention to smaller mouths, but keep them subtle if you've decked yourself out in eyemakeup!).
And pinch your cheeks if you want a natural flush ;]Give me any makeup tips/advice you have, Best one gets best answer?
Pencil eyeliner sucks. Liquid is the best because it actually stays on. Get a color that matches your complexion and your eye color the best. For hazel/green brown or black is the best. Black looks terrible on blue eyes. I'd try a more subtle grey. For mascara if you have small eyelashes, use covergirl lash exact. It's kinda got this plastic brush that seperates your lashes really nicely. For big lashes try Rimmel London's LashMAXXX mascara. It really intensifies your eyes and makes your lashes gorgeous. I always carry around a stick of coverup; one that matches my skin color to apply on my undereyes. If i'm not wearing it on my undereyes I look tired. For foundation never use liquid, you'll break out in zits. ALWAYS use powder. Get one that is a little bit darker than your skin color so you don't look like barbie and brush it on your face AND your shoulders so you don't just have a darker face. Btw- for mascara, get a color that works best. Black or brown; you decide. Whatever suits your personality is the best.Give me any makeup tips/advice you have, Best one gets best answer?
does make up look write when i put top eyeliner and mascara but not bottom eyeliner......
To define cheek bones:
Suck in your cheeks so you can see where they are
apply bronzer (not really really dark just a light 1) under the cheekbone to the hairline apply a highligher powder above the bronzer again to the hairline then smile and apply the cream blush to the apples of your cheeks and blend the blush in
for a sexy but subtle look, use eyeshadow instead of eyeliner. use the side of the shadow brush and use it as though it were eyeliner.
avoid applying mascara to the bottom lashes- it makes your eyes look smaller.
don't use lip liner, it looks harsh to start with, and when the lipstick fades you're left with a bizarre line around your mouth.
highlight your eyes by putting silver or white eyeshadow on your brow bone from the center of your eye to the outside.
getting a highlighter powder can work wonders.
if you don't have a curling mascara, use an eyelash curler.
1) If you have decent to great skin, don't use foundation. use at least moisturizer and at most either one of the mineral sheer powders or a tinted moisturizer with SPF - Clinique makes a good one.
2) eyeliner and mascara are must haves. If you put on nothing else, this'll make you look dressed up. Use greys, browns, and purples are great for green, hazel and blue eyes. black eyeliner only looks really good on people with really dark eyelashes. gel or cream eyeliners are my personal favorite, esp. Smashbox, as they cost a bit more, but last forever.
3) very few people need lipliner. use a good lipgloss or stain for a natural look.
- Make up should make you look like a better version of you, but still very natural. don't overdo it. In this, as in many things, less is more!
Katrina
if you have small eyes dont wear eye liner. and if you use dark eye shadows put it on the outer corners and maybe a lighter shade on the other corner. if you have blue eyes use blue eye liner eye shadows can be blue black green white pink brown eyes use red brown black green green eyes use green silver blue if you have full lips dont use lip liner but if you have thin use it dont put mascara on the bottom eye lashes
Good colours: Silver (makes your eyes pop! Especially when you put a dab of it near your tear ducts with matching colours), black, gold and brown eyeshadow.
If you want to make your eyes look bigger, keep your top eyelids lined or brushed with something dark and the bottom lids lined with something light (or not at all). For smaller eyes, just do the opposite. Liquid eyeliner is best for meticulous looks, and pencil liner best for smudged, sultry looks (although I find pencil runs more than liquid).
Make sure to curl your lashes, to give yourself an awake look to make your eyes even bigger. As for mascara, keep it natural and only include your lower lashes if you want a flirty look. An eyelash brush is a MUST HAVE for clumps!!
If your eye makeup stays subtle, go for a red lip if you dare, but otherwise choose a glossy, light-coloured lip (colours bring attention to smaller mouths, but keep them subtle if you've decked yourself out in eyemakeup!).
And pinch your cheeks if you want a natural flush ;]Give me any makeup tips/advice you have, Best one gets best answer?
Pencil eyeliner sucks. Liquid is the best because it actually stays on. Get a color that matches your complexion and your eye color the best. For hazel/green brown or black is the best. Black looks terrible on blue eyes. I'd try a more subtle grey. For mascara if you have small eyelashes, use covergirl lash exact. It's kinda got this plastic brush that seperates your lashes really nicely. For big lashes try Rimmel London's LashMAXXX mascara. It really intensifies your eyes and makes your lashes gorgeous. I always carry around a stick of coverup; one that matches my skin color to apply on my undereyes. If i'm not wearing it on my undereyes I look tired. For foundation never use liquid, you'll break out in zits. ALWAYS use powder. Get one that is a little bit darker than your skin color so you don't look like barbie and brush it on your face AND your shoulders so you don't just have a darker face. Btw- for mascara, get a color that works best. Black or brown; you decide. Whatever suits your personality is the best.Give me any makeup tips/advice you have, Best one gets best answer?
does make up look write when i put top eyeliner and mascara but not bottom eyeliner......
To define cheek bones:
Suck in your cheeks so you can see where they are
apply bronzer (not really really dark just a light 1) under the cheekbone to the hairline apply a highligher powder above the bronzer again to the hairline then smile and apply the cream blush to the apples of your cheeks and blend the blush in
for a sexy but subtle look, use eyeshadow instead of eyeliner. use the side of the shadow brush and use it as though it were eyeliner.
avoid applying mascara to the bottom lashes- it makes your eyes look smaller.
don't use lip liner, it looks harsh to start with, and when the lipstick fades you're left with a bizarre line around your mouth.
highlight your eyes by putting silver or white eyeshadow on your brow bone from the center of your eye to the outside.
getting a highlighter powder can work wonders.
if you don't have a curling mascara, use an eyelash curler.
1) If you have decent to great skin, don't use foundation. use at least moisturizer and at most either one of the mineral sheer powders or a tinted moisturizer with SPF - Clinique makes a good one.
2) eyeliner and mascara are must haves. If you put on nothing else, this'll make you look dressed up. Use greys, browns, and purples are great for green, hazel and blue eyes. black eyeliner only looks really good on people with really dark eyelashes. gel or cream eyeliners are my personal favorite, esp. Smashbox, as they cost a bit more, but last forever.
3) very few people need lipliner. use a good lipgloss or stain for a natural look.
- Make up should make you look like a better version of you, but still very natural. don't overdo it. In this, as in many things, less is more!
Katrina
if you have small eyes dont wear eye liner. and if you use dark eye shadows put it on the outer corners and maybe a lighter shade on the other corner. if you have blue eyes use blue eye liner eye shadows can be blue black green white pink brown eyes use red brown black green green eyes use green silver blue if you have full lips dont use lip liner but if you have thin use it dont put mascara on the bottom eye lashes
If you could give someone advice what would be the best advice you would give and why?
just curiousIf you could give someone advice what would be the best advice you would give and why?
Communicate honestly and freely with everyone. Communication is the way to love, power,knowledge, kindness- the list goes on. If you never lie, you don't have to clutter your mind with trying to keep things straight when that lie comes up again years later.If you could give someone advice what would be the best advice you would give and why?
This has always helped me out in times of uncertainty.
--Whenever stuck with a fork in the road, all you have to do is say to yourself ';no regrets';, and your way will always be shown
You just gotta keep on keepin' on
Life's a garden Dig It
Follow your dream.ink cartridge oily skin
Communicate honestly and freely with everyone. Communication is the way to love, power,knowledge, kindness- the list goes on. If you never lie, you don't have to clutter your mind with trying to keep things straight when that lie comes up again years later.If you could give someone advice what would be the best advice you would give and why?
This has always helped me out in times of uncertainty.
--Whenever stuck with a fork in the road, all you have to do is say to yourself ';no regrets';, and your way will always be shown
You just gotta keep on keepin' on
Life's a garden Dig It
Follow your dream.
Career Advice? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
For a 22 years old with a MPA in Human Resources Management.
No experiences in Human Resources
2 years office experiences
5 years work expericencesCareer Advice? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Talk to a recruitment firm. they know the jobs that big companies have available and they can help get you In the door. Don't expect to get a job from an on-line website, etc. Otherwise figure out an industry that seems interesting to you and find companies in your area who work in that field. Then just go to their office and apply for an hr job. Your skills seem perfect for a career in HR.Career Advice? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
be a lawyer
No experiences in Human Resources
2 years office experiences
5 years work expericencesCareer Advice? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Talk to a recruitment firm. they know the jobs that big companies have available and they can help get you In the door. Don't expect to get a job from an on-line website, etc. Otherwise figure out an industry that seems interesting to you and find companies in your area who work in that field. Then just go to their office and apply for an hr job. Your skills seem perfect for a career in HR.Career Advice? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
be a lawyer
I need some advice for my best friend?
My best friend and her husband are having big problems in their marriage. He lies to her all the time about talking to other girls. He keeps saying they are getting divorced and then she does nothing about it. How can I help her see she's to good for him?I need some advice for my best friend?
you cant change her thoughts or feelings. just be a good friend,I need some advice for my best friend?
Unfortunately you really can't...which sucks. Just be there for her, if they have a fight and she's upset, take her for a drink (coffee, alcoholic) and just be a friend. It sucks so bad when you see someone you care about getting hurt and there's nothing you can do. She'll realize it on her own, and that's the only thing that will get her to change it. Good luck, you're a good friend :)
you cant change her thoughts or feelings. just be a good friend,I need some advice for my best friend?
Unfortunately you really can't...which sucks. Just be there for her, if they have a fight and she's upset, take her for a drink (coffee, alcoholic) and just be a friend. It sucks so bad when you see someone you care about getting hurt and there's nothing you can do. She'll realize it on her own, and that's the only thing that will get her to change it. Good luck, you're a good friend :)
What is the BEST acne advice?
My skin is becoming worse and worse..I've had great skin up until recently, I'm 16 by the way. My skin is only bad in my T-zone, my cheeks are perfectly fine. My skin is dry, sensitive, and now has pretty bad acne. What is the best acne stuff from drug stores?? or even home remedies?? I need help asap..i can hardly take my skin being so bad. help!!What is the BEST acne advice?
I know it sounds crazy, but Ivory soap works really well for me. I am actually surprised at how well it works because it's just soap. If you're going to try it, buy the plain white kind without any scents or anything and wash your face with it when you wake up and before you go to bed. I tried another kind of soap once and it didn't work.What is the BEST acne advice?
i don't know any meds from drug stores or home remedies but what works for me is Proactive. i also have bad skin. its very oilly and whatnot and i got Proactive and about 3 days later i was clear. i don't have the number or anything but they always have commercials on tv and ads on the internet.
You need to listen to me.
Buy the acne treatment from acne.org or danielkern.com. It really works!
Use a gentle skin cleanser, like cetaphil. Pat dry. Wait 5 min. and ten apply a small amount of the acne gel (increase the amount as time goes on). Wait 15 min. then apply an oil free moisturizer.
Also, never EVER touch your face.
Use proactive, ive been using it for about a year and i dont know if you have seen the commercials on tv, but there sooo true. Id deffinetly reccomend it !! Goodluck
Aloe vera pulp is an effective acne treatment it can be applied on the acne as well as taken internally to clear the system. Check out http://totalskincare-s.blogspot.com/ for more useful info.
I know it sounds crazy, but Ivory soap works really well for me. I am actually surprised at how well it works because it's just soap. If you're going to try it, buy the plain white kind without any scents or anything and wash your face with it when you wake up and before you go to bed. I tried another kind of soap once and it didn't work.What is the BEST acne advice?
i don't know any meds from drug stores or home remedies but what works for me is Proactive. i also have bad skin. its very oilly and whatnot and i got Proactive and about 3 days later i was clear. i don't have the number or anything but they always have commercials on tv and ads on the internet.
You need to listen to me.
Buy the acne treatment from acne.org or danielkern.com. It really works!
Use a gentle skin cleanser, like cetaphil. Pat dry. Wait 5 min. and ten apply a small amount of the acne gel (increase the amount as time goes on). Wait 15 min. then apply an oil free moisturizer.
Also, never EVER touch your face.
Use proactive, ive been using it for about a year and i dont know if you have seen the commercials on tv, but there sooo true. Id deffinetly reccomend it !! Goodluck
Aloe vera pulp is an effective acne treatment it can be applied on the acne as well as taken internally to clear the system. Check out http://totalskincare-s.blogspot.com/ for more useful info.
What would you say is the best part of being pregnant, and what advice would you give to me about conceiving?
I am so excited my boyfriend and i are finally going to try to have a baby. What would you say is the best part of being pregnant, I hope that we will get it on our first try but if you have any advice that would be wonderful thanks so much!What would you say is the best part of being pregnant, and what advice would you give to me about conceiving?
My advice? Get married first. The best part about being pregnant is knowing that the father of your child cared enough to make a legal, lifetime commitment to you. I'm not talking about morals or religious values, I'm talking about the courage and to take that step and really commit.
I know you won't like this answer, but doesn't it bother you just a little that he won't marry you?What would you say is the best part of being pregnant, and what advice would you give to me about conceiving?
The best part is the whole thing!!!! It's very exciting!!!!! If I had to pick one thing it would be the first time you feel the baby move, and there is no mistake that, that is what you felt!!! First sonogram ranks right up there too along with telling people that you are pregnant!!!! You lucky thing. Good luck trying!!!!! (That's fun too)
my favorite thing was when i was first pregnant and not showing i felt like i had an intimate very special secret that i could share with the world if i felt like it and if i didnt it was my secret to keep :)
my conception advise 15 days after your period have some fun :) and start taking folic acid now !
ignore the ignorant comment posted from lovemyangel
if everything goes well, pregnancy will be great! its so cool when the baby moves and stuff, plus, sex is amazing when ur preggo! FYI
The best part about being pregnant is feeling your baby move for the first time and even after the first time!
As far as advice on concieving, mine was not planned! Kudos for planning your pregnancy! Go ahead and start taking prenatal vitamins.
Well for me it's between feeling he or she moving, hearing the heartbeat or having an ultrasound done ad bringing pictures, really its the excitment of knowing in a few months youll have a little baby, and being able to buy things and start a family, congrats on your decision =)
Sharing it with your husband.. NOT boyfriend
Google ';Trying to Conceive'; and you'll get some really good advice on the best times to have sex and how to tell if you are ovulating...without buying expensiv kits...you can tell by checking out...down there and what its doing...youll see what I mean. I did this and got it the first time....the best part is buying all the stuff and getting a lot of attention!
The best part about being pregnant is knowing that you are growing this amazing little person inside you and it feels like no-one can possibly have done this before you, it makes you feel so special :)
With concieving, just remember that it takes the average couple about 6-12 months to concieve, so do not get upset when it doesnt happen straight away, enjoy trying ;) and also you ovulate 14 days after the start of your period (if you have a standard 28 day cycle) so start having regular sex about 10-12 days after you start your period until the 16th day
Good luck and enjoy
i really cant stand being pregnant. Ive been sick the entire time with the exception of like 2 weeks, week 21 and 22....only thing that keeps me going is the thought of my baby.
The only thing good so far is all the attention. People will go out of their way and do anything for you when youre pregnant. And everyone is so nice. and you can call out of work no problem and never explain why!
the best part is feeling your baby move in you
The best part of being pregnant is that you have an excuse not to have sex
or at least my wife does =(
o congratulations!!! I loved being preggers..here's what
when you start to bloom and your hair and skin look fab
people want you to have their seat and not bump into you
i loved him wriggling when i had my bath water to hot
buying those teeny weeny baby clothes
the smell of 'happy' by clinique. it smelt sooo good!
good luck! im broody again!
My advice? Get married first. The best part about being pregnant is knowing that the father of your child cared enough to make a legal, lifetime commitment to you. I'm not talking about morals or religious values, I'm talking about the courage and to take that step and really commit.
I know you won't like this answer, but doesn't it bother you just a little that he won't marry you?What would you say is the best part of being pregnant, and what advice would you give to me about conceiving?
The best part is the whole thing!!!! It's very exciting!!!!! If I had to pick one thing it would be the first time you feel the baby move, and there is no mistake that, that is what you felt!!! First sonogram ranks right up there too along with telling people that you are pregnant!!!! You lucky thing. Good luck trying!!!!! (That's fun too)
my favorite thing was when i was first pregnant and not showing i felt like i had an intimate very special secret that i could share with the world if i felt like it and if i didnt it was my secret to keep :)
my conception advise 15 days after your period have some fun :) and start taking folic acid now !
ignore the ignorant comment posted from lovemyangel
if everything goes well, pregnancy will be great! its so cool when the baby moves and stuff, plus, sex is amazing when ur preggo! FYI
The best part about being pregnant is feeling your baby move for the first time and even after the first time!
As far as advice on concieving, mine was not planned! Kudos for planning your pregnancy! Go ahead and start taking prenatal vitamins.
Well for me it's between feeling he or she moving, hearing the heartbeat or having an ultrasound done ad bringing pictures, really its the excitment of knowing in a few months youll have a little baby, and being able to buy things and start a family, congrats on your decision =)
Sharing it with your husband.. NOT boyfriend
Google ';Trying to Conceive'; and you'll get some really good advice on the best times to have sex and how to tell if you are ovulating...without buying expensiv kits...you can tell by checking out...down there and what its doing...youll see what I mean. I did this and got it the first time....the best part is buying all the stuff and getting a lot of attention!
The best part about being pregnant is knowing that you are growing this amazing little person inside you and it feels like no-one can possibly have done this before you, it makes you feel so special :)
With concieving, just remember that it takes the average couple about 6-12 months to concieve, so do not get upset when it doesnt happen straight away, enjoy trying ;) and also you ovulate 14 days after the start of your period (if you have a standard 28 day cycle) so start having regular sex about 10-12 days after you start your period until the 16th day
Good luck and enjoy
i really cant stand being pregnant. Ive been sick the entire time with the exception of like 2 weeks, week 21 and 22....only thing that keeps me going is the thought of my baby.
The only thing good so far is all the attention. People will go out of their way and do anything for you when youre pregnant. And everyone is so nice. and you can call out of work no problem and never explain why!
the best part is feeling your baby move in you
The best part of being pregnant is that you have an excuse not to have sex
or at least my wife does =(
o congratulations!!! I loved being preggers..here's what
when you start to bloom and your hair and skin look fab
people want you to have their seat and not bump into you
i loved him wriggling when i had my bath water to hot
buying those teeny weeny baby clothes
the smell of 'happy' by clinique. it smelt sooo good!
good luck! im broody again!
Guys: what will you do if all your friends are in a relationship. 10 points for the best advice.?
Thank you very much :)Guys: what will you do if all your friends are in a relationship. 10 points for the best advice.?
sad..LOl
listen to some R%26amp;B.
put my self in sports that i play (JV B-ball).
and TRY to get a girl.. LOL
its basically pear pressure. in a good way. pushes me to ask some one out i guese. or i will be very sad and depressed. but try not to bring down the guys as well.Guys: what will you do if all your friends are in a relationship. 10 points for the best advice.?
It good for them suxs for you because then you start to feel lonely cause your friends are doing something with their girl or boyfriends I try to find a new hobby or a new group of friends to hangout with or I will start trying to find a girlfriend for myself or just someone to hangout with and watch a movie.
I think this would depend on the age range of these guys in question. I am in my late 20's so it's natural for most of my buds to be in a committed relationship. However if I was single and in my early 20's, perhaps I may have to find a new set of friends, lol.
sad..LOl
listen to some R%26amp;B.
put my self in sports that i play (JV B-ball).
and TRY to get a girl.. LOL
its basically pear pressure. in a good way. pushes me to ask some one out i guese. or i will be very sad and depressed. but try not to bring down the guys as well.Guys: what will you do if all your friends are in a relationship. 10 points for the best advice.?
It good for them suxs for you because then you start to feel lonely cause your friends are doing something with their girl or boyfriends I try to find a new hobby or a new group of friends to hangout with or I will start trying to find a girlfriend for myself or just someone to hangout with and watch a movie.
I think this would depend on the age range of these guys in question. I am in my late 20's so it's natural for most of my buds to be in a committed relationship. However if I was single and in my early 20's, perhaps I may have to find a new set of friends, lol.
Best acne face wash and advice for first time-ers?
To by honest, i never washed my face with cleanser or anyting.
yeah, i know it's bad.
and now im paying for it by getting these pimples and i really don't know what to do.
I have NO idea what all these products do and what i need and if there's an order in washing my face.
so please help me here.
1] what is really the best when it comes to cleaning your face
2] what do i need?
3] is there suppose to be an order to what product i use first when i wash my face?
4] any tips for better, healthy looking skin?
I know that these are alot of questions, but I hope someone knows the answers because Iam really lost and I don't want pimples/acne and oil skin/dry skin.
Any little bit of advice helps!Best acne face wash and advice for first time-ers?
You poor thing. Are you tied to drugstore brands, or can you use something from a department store? Sometimes there is a difference.
If you can afford it, try the Murad acne system. It comes with a nice gentle cleanser, an oil-free moisturizer (which will keep your skin pH balanced and healthy), and a spot treatment (along with a few other goodies). I think a month's supply for everything is $30 at Sephora, so you can try it.
The order to do things is:
1- remove eye makeup
2- cleans skin
3- toner (IF you choose to use one... it's not necessary)
4- moisturize
The last step is very important. You might think that using a moisturizer will break you out, but that's not true. You break out because your skin does not have enough natural moisture, so it over-produces oil to make up for the lack of moisture.... this is when you break out! Does this make sense?
Don't use Stridex or Oxy. There is alcohol in them which will dry your skin out and produce MORE oil, leading you to more pimples, and causing you to continue using their products.
If you have a Sephora near you, go in there an ask for their skincare expert. He or she will help you and give you samples of things to try, if you want.
If you don't have a Sephora near you, you can always call their 800# and talk to a skincare expert over the phone.
Tips for healthy skin:
- Don't smoke
- Drink plenty of water
- Wash your face every night before bed %26amp; follow w/ moisturizer
- Find products that work for you. Different things work for different people, so it may require some experimenting on your end.
Best of luck!Best acne face wash and advice for first time-ers?
lots of good products out there, I personally like the clinique bar for washing my face, and I regularly use st Ives apricot scrub, it really cleans out the pores and for moisturizer, I have been using clinique dramatically different moisturizing cream for years. my daughter uses the same products and likes them too. Biore strips are good to clean out the pores around your nose.
-wash your face with DOVE.
-Then use STRIDEX maximum.
-your face will have tingly feeling.
-but it will shine.
-%26amp; it feels like it's breathing. Also you feel like you have botox, wich i never had LOL.
GOOOODLUCK! and it clears my pimples less than a week but you have to do it daily i say,
Acne is horrible we all hate having all of those bumps.
Check out this book on how to cure acne it might help you get rid of your acne problem.http://www.usfreeads.com/849239-cls.html
Hi
This easy, effective method uses one kitchen-cupboard herbal ingredient, and calls upon the power of a warm compress to open pores and allow the healing benefits of the herb to work on blemished skin. The compress method is more comforting and quicker to use than a facial steam, but is every bit as effective.
SIMPLE SOLUTION: Here are the simple how-to instructions to help clear troubled skin:
INGREDIENTS
1 quart water
1/2 to 1 cup dried thyme leaves (for a VERY strong infusion)
1. Bring the water to a boil in a saucepan. Remove it from the heat and add the thyme. Cover the pan and steep the mixture for 20 minutes, then strain out the herbs and discard them. Let the infusion cool to warm. (You should be able to put your hand in the infusion and keep it there for several minutes without discomfort.)
2. Soak a clean washcloth with the infusion and wring the excess from it. With your eyes closed, place the washcloth on your face for 15 minutes. Remove the washcloth from your face and apply an astringent.
go to the web site below and do a search for acne articles..theres a great one about acne and diet etc.
good luck
peace
GG
Acne
This factsheet is for people who have acne.
Acne is a skin condition that causes spots. Most people affected by acne are aged between 12 and 25.1 However, men and women in their 30s and 40s can also suffer. There are many treatments available to help deal with the condition.
What is acne?
Acne is a skin condition that typically causes one or more of the following:
blackheads (comedones) 2,3
whiteheads2,3
red or yellow spots2,3
greasy skin2,3
scars2,3
Acne typically affects the skin of the face, back, neck, chest and arms and the severity of the condition can vary.1,4
Acne affects people of all skin colours. The processes that cause acne are exactly the same in people with black or brown skin but the impact is altered by the skin pigmentation.
Acne is very common and affects about 80 in 100 people aged 11-30 at some time.4
The skin
The surface of the skin has lots of small sebaceous glands just below the surface. These glands make an oily substance called sebum that keeps the skin smooth and supple.
Tiny pores (holes in the skin) allow the sebum to come to the skin surface. Hairs also grow through these pores.
Illustration showing the structure of skin
What causes acne?
Acne is caused by the overactivity of the sebaceous glands that secrete oily substances onto the skin.
The sebaceous glands of people with acne are especially sensitive to normal blood levels of a hormone called testosterone, found naturally in both men and women.
Testosterone in people prone to acne triggers the sebaceous glands to produce an excess of sebum. At the same time, the dead skin cells lining the openings of the hair follicles (the tubes that hold the hair) are not shed properly and clog up the follicles.
These two effects combined cause a build-up of oil in the hair follicles. This causes blackheads and whiteheads to form.
For some people, their acne does not progress beyond this stage.
However in other people, the build-up of oil in the hair follicles creates an ideal environment for a bacterium called Propionibacterium acnes to grow.
These bacteria normally live harmlessly on your skin but when this ideal environment is created, they grow. They feed off the sebum and produce substances that cause a response from your body's immune system. This inflames the skin and creates the redness associated with spots.
In more severe 'inflammatory acne', cysts develop beneath the skin's surface. These acne cysts can rupture, spreading the infection into nearby skin tissue. This can result in scarring.
Acne myths
Contrary to popular belief acne is not caused by:
eating fatty food or chocolate1
dirt - blackheads get their dark colour through excess skin pigment - not dirt so washing more does not help, although if you do not wash your skin at all, bacteria will be able to multiply1,5
Acne is not contagious, so you cannot catch it.1
What makes acne worse?
There are a number of things that can make your acne worse. These include the following:
picking and squeezing the spots may cause further inflammation and scarring1
stress can make acne worse in some people, although it is not clear why1,5
in women, outbreaks may be affected by the hormonal changes that occur during the menstrual cycle1,5
excessive production of male hormones such as testosterone from conditions such as polycystic ovary syndrome may be another cause.5 For more information, please see the separate BUPA factsheet Polycystic ovary syndrome
some contraceptive pills may make acne worse. This is due to the type of progestogen hormone in some pills whereas some other types of contraceptive pills can improve acne - see Treatments section below. Your GP will advise you which contraceptive pill to take1,5
some medicines can make acne worse. For example, some medicines taken for epilepsy, and steroid creams and ointments that are used for eczema. Do not stop a prescribed medicine if you suspect it is making your acne worse, but tell your GP. An alternative may be an option1,5
steroids can cause acne as a side-effect1,5
Diagnosing acne
Acne is easily recognised by the appearance of the spots, and by their distribution on the body.
There are several varieties of acne and your doctor will be able to tell you which type you have after examining your skin.
Treatment
Acne may cause you considerable emotional distress but there is a range of treatment options to help you tackle the problem. No treatment will completely 'cure' your acne. The aims of treatment are to prevent new spots forming, to improve those already present, and to prevent scarring.3
Home treatment
It is important to keep spot-prone areas clean, so wash the affected area twice a day with an unperfumed cleanser.1,6 The skin needs a certain amount of oil to maintain its natural condition, so avoid aggressive washing with strong soaps.
There are a number of over-the-counter remedies available from pharmacies to treat mild acne. These usually contain antibacterial agents such as benzoyl peroxide (eg Oxy and Clearasil Max).
As well as its antibacterial effects, benzoyl peroxide can dry out the skin and encourage it to shed the surface layer of dead skin. Together, these effects make it harder for pores to become blocked and for infection to develop.
Benzoyl peroxide can cause redness and peeling, especially to start with. This tends to settle down if you reduce the number of times you use it. You can then build up your use gradually.7
No home treatments for acne will work immediately. It can take weeks, if not months, for significant effects to be noticeable. If home treatments have not worked after two months, or you have severe acne, you should visit your GP.7
Prescription medicines
Your GP may start your treatment by prescribing a preparation containing benzoyl peroxide. If this does not work, or if you have more severe acne, there are a range of other treatment options that you can either rub onto your skin (topical) or take in tablet form (oral).
Topical treatments
There are several topical treatments you may be prescribed including those listed below:
azelaic acid (Skinoren) is an alternative to benzoyl peroxide and may not make your skin as sore as benzoyl peroxide7
topical retinoids (eg Adapalene) are medicines based on vitamin A, which are rubbed into the skin once or twice a day.7 They work by encouraging the outer layer of skin to flake off
a topical antibiotic lotion applied to the skin can be used to control the P. acnes bacteria (eg Dalacin T). Treatment needs to continue for at least six months. Preparations that combine an antibiotic with other acne medication are available (eg Benzamycin which combines an antibiotic with benzoyl peroxide)7
Oral treatments
There are several oral treatments you may be prescribed including those listed below:
oral antibiotics (tablets), such as tetracycline, can be prescribed for inflammatory acne. They should be taken daily for around three months, although it might take four to six months for the benefits to be seen.7 The success of this treatment can be limited because the strains of bacteria are often resistant to the common antibiotics. Antibiotics do not prevent pores from becoming blocked so treatment to prevent blackheads, such as benzoyl peroxide, is often also prescribed at the same time
some types of oral contraceptive tablets help women who have acne. A combination of the usual pill hormone called ethinylestradiol with cyproterone acetate (eg Dianette) suppresses male hormone activity so is often used in women with acne4,7
isotretinoin (eg Roaccutane) is a medicine known as an oral retinoid, which also exists in a topical form (see above). Isotretinoin works by drying up oily secretions. It tends to be prescribed to people with severe forms of acne that have proved resistant to other treatments. There a number of serious side-effects of this drug, such as liver disorders and depresssion.3,7 You should not take isotretinoin if you are pregnant, as it is very dangerous to an unborn baby.7 For safety reasons, isotretinoin is only prescribed under the supervision of dermatology specialists
This is what I use.
Aloe vera gel mixed with 2 drops of tea tree essential oil works really well and has been shown in studys to improve acne. Doing scrubs is not good for acne at all because it irritates acne so I use warm oatmeal with a little bit of honey to exfoliate which is more gently. A french ';green'; clay mask works very well also. It removes impurities from deep within and your acne may get worse before it gets better using the french clay. You should try an organic cleanser. (You can get them at a health food store.) I use a herbal astringent recipe from ';The herbal body book'; by Stephanie Tourles which you can get cheap on half.com. Works really good and is so soothing. Use a oil free moisturizer at might on your face, neck and chest. Try taking vitamins A, E, D, C, B5 vitamin %26amp; Zinc. Also eat healthy lean meats, fresh fruits and vegtables. Boxed foods and fast food will make it so much worse!
Hope this helps!!!
Acne and pimples is one of the most distressing and depressing problem. Soak cotton wool in mint juice, and apply every day. Mix cinnamon powder with lime juice to make a fine paste, Apply on the spots and wash when dry .Check out http://useinfo-acne.blogspot.com/ for more useful info.ink cartridge oily skin
yeah, i know it's bad.
and now im paying for it by getting these pimples and i really don't know what to do.
I have NO idea what all these products do and what i need and if there's an order in washing my face.
so please help me here.
1] what is really the best when it comes to cleaning your face
2] what do i need?
3] is there suppose to be an order to what product i use first when i wash my face?
4] any tips for better, healthy looking skin?
I know that these are alot of questions, but I hope someone knows the answers because Iam really lost and I don't want pimples/acne and oil skin/dry skin.
Any little bit of advice helps!Best acne face wash and advice for first time-ers?
You poor thing. Are you tied to drugstore brands, or can you use something from a department store? Sometimes there is a difference.
If you can afford it, try the Murad acne system. It comes with a nice gentle cleanser, an oil-free moisturizer (which will keep your skin pH balanced and healthy), and a spot treatment (along with a few other goodies). I think a month's supply for everything is $30 at Sephora, so you can try it.
The order to do things is:
1- remove eye makeup
2- cleans skin
3- toner (IF you choose to use one... it's not necessary)
4- moisturize
The last step is very important. You might think that using a moisturizer will break you out, but that's not true. You break out because your skin does not have enough natural moisture, so it over-produces oil to make up for the lack of moisture.... this is when you break out! Does this make sense?
Don't use Stridex or Oxy. There is alcohol in them which will dry your skin out and produce MORE oil, leading you to more pimples, and causing you to continue using their products.
If you have a Sephora near you, go in there an ask for their skincare expert. He or she will help you and give you samples of things to try, if you want.
If you don't have a Sephora near you, you can always call their 800# and talk to a skincare expert over the phone.
Tips for healthy skin:
- Don't smoke
- Drink plenty of water
- Wash your face every night before bed %26amp; follow w/ moisturizer
- Find products that work for you. Different things work for different people, so it may require some experimenting on your end.
Best of luck!Best acne face wash and advice for first time-ers?
lots of good products out there, I personally like the clinique bar for washing my face, and I regularly use st Ives apricot scrub, it really cleans out the pores and for moisturizer, I have been using clinique dramatically different moisturizing cream for years. my daughter uses the same products and likes them too. Biore strips are good to clean out the pores around your nose.
-wash your face with DOVE.
-Then use STRIDEX maximum.
-your face will have tingly feeling.
-but it will shine.
-%26amp; it feels like it's breathing. Also you feel like you have botox, wich i never had LOL.
GOOOODLUCK! and it clears my pimples less than a week but you have to do it daily i say,
Acne is horrible we all hate having all of those bumps.
Check out this book on how to cure acne it might help you get rid of your acne problem.http://www.usfreeads.com/849239-cls.html
Hi
This easy, effective method uses one kitchen-cupboard herbal ingredient, and calls upon the power of a warm compress to open pores and allow the healing benefits of the herb to work on blemished skin. The compress method is more comforting and quicker to use than a facial steam, but is every bit as effective.
SIMPLE SOLUTION: Here are the simple how-to instructions to help clear troubled skin:
INGREDIENTS
1 quart water
1/2 to 1 cup dried thyme leaves (for a VERY strong infusion)
1. Bring the water to a boil in a saucepan. Remove it from the heat and add the thyme. Cover the pan and steep the mixture for 20 minutes, then strain out the herbs and discard them. Let the infusion cool to warm. (You should be able to put your hand in the infusion and keep it there for several minutes without discomfort.)
2. Soak a clean washcloth with the infusion and wring the excess from it. With your eyes closed, place the washcloth on your face for 15 minutes. Remove the washcloth from your face and apply an astringent.
go to the web site below and do a search for acne articles..theres a great one about acne and diet etc.
good luck
peace
GG
Acne
This factsheet is for people who have acne.
Acne is a skin condition that causes spots. Most people affected by acne are aged between 12 and 25.1 However, men and women in their 30s and 40s can also suffer. There are many treatments available to help deal with the condition.
What is acne?
Acne is a skin condition that typically causes one or more of the following:
blackheads (comedones) 2,3
whiteheads2,3
red or yellow spots2,3
greasy skin2,3
scars2,3
Acne typically affects the skin of the face, back, neck, chest and arms and the severity of the condition can vary.1,4
Acne affects people of all skin colours. The processes that cause acne are exactly the same in people with black or brown skin but the impact is altered by the skin pigmentation.
Acne is very common and affects about 80 in 100 people aged 11-30 at some time.4
The skin
The surface of the skin has lots of small sebaceous glands just below the surface. These glands make an oily substance called sebum that keeps the skin smooth and supple.
Tiny pores (holes in the skin) allow the sebum to come to the skin surface. Hairs also grow through these pores.
Illustration showing the structure of skin
What causes acne?
Acne is caused by the overactivity of the sebaceous glands that secrete oily substances onto the skin.
The sebaceous glands of people with acne are especially sensitive to normal blood levels of a hormone called testosterone, found naturally in both men and women.
Testosterone in people prone to acne triggers the sebaceous glands to produce an excess of sebum. At the same time, the dead skin cells lining the openings of the hair follicles (the tubes that hold the hair) are not shed properly and clog up the follicles.
These two effects combined cause a build-up of oil in the hair follicles. This causes blackheads and whiteheads to form.
For some people, their acne does not progress beyond this stage.
However in other people, the build-up of oil in the hair follicles creates an ideal environment for a bacterium called Propionibacterium acnes to grow.
These bacteria normally live harmlessly on your skin but when this ideal environment is created, they grow. They feed off the sebum and produce substances that cause a response from your body's immune system. This inflames the skin and creates the redness associated with spots.
In more severe 'inflammatory acne', cysts develop beneath the skin's surface. These acne cysts can rupture, spreading the infection into nearby skin tissue. This can result in scarring.
Acne myths
Contrary to popular belief acne is not caused by:
eating fatty food or chocolate1
dirt - blackheads get their dark colour through excess skin pigment - not dirt so washing more does not help, although if you do not wash your skin at all, bacteria will be able to multiply1,5
Acne is not contagious, so you cannot catch it.1
What makes acne worse?
There are a number of things that can make your acne worse. These include the following:
picking and squeezing the spots may cause further inflammation and scarring1
stress can make acne worse in some people, although it is not clear why1,5
in women, outbreaks may be affected by the hormonal changes that occur during the menstrual cycle1,5
excessive production of male hormones such as testosterone from conditions such as polycystic ovary syndrome may be another cause.5 For more information, please see the separate BUPA factsheet Polycystic ovary syndrome
some contraceptive pills may make acne worse. This is due to the type of progestogen hormone in some pills whereas some other types of contraceptive pills can improve acne - see Treatments section below. Your GP will advise you which contraceptive pill to take1,5
some medicines can make acne worse. For example, some medicines taken for epilepsy, and steroid creams and ointments that are used for eczema. Do not stop a prescribed medicine if you suspect it is making your acne worse, but tell your GP. An alternative may be an option1,5
steroids can cause acne as a side-effect1,5
Diagnosing acne
Acne is easily recognised by the appearance of the spots, and by their distribution on the body.
There are several varieties of acne and your doctor will be able to tell you which type you have after examining your skin.
Treatment
Acne may cause you considerable emotional distress but there is a range of treatment options to help you tackle the problem. No treatment will completely 'cure' your acne. The aims of treatment are to prevent new spots forming, to improve those already present, and to prevent scarring.3
Home treatment
It is important to keep spot-prone areas clean, so wash the affected area twice a day with an unperfumed cleanser.1,6 The skin needs a certain amount of oil to maintain its natural condition, so avoid aggressive washing with strong soaps.
There are a number of over-the-counter remedies available from pharmacies to treat mild acne. These usually contain antibacterial agents such as benzoyl peroxide (eg Oxy and Clearasil Max).
As well as its antibacterial effects, benzoyl peroxide can dry out the skin and encourage it to shed the surface layer of dead skin. Together, these effects make it harder for pores to become blocked and for infection to develop.
Benzoyl peroxide can cause redness and peeling, especially to start with. This tends to settle down if you reduce the number of times you use it. You can then build up your use gradually.7
No home treatments for acne will work immediately. It can take weeks, if not months, for significant effects to be noticeable. If home treatments have not worked after two months, or you have severe acne, you should visit your GP.7
Prescription medicines
Your GP may start your treatment by prescribing a preparation containing benzoyl peroxide. If this does not work, or if you have more severe acne, there are a range of other treatment options that you can either rub onto your skin (topical) or take in tablet form (oral).
Topical treatments
There are several topical treatments you may be prescribed including those listed below:
azelaic acid (Skinoren) is an alternative to benzoyl peroxide and may not make your skin as sore as benzoyl peroxide7
topical retinoids (eg Adapalene) are medicines based on vitamin A, which are rubbed into the skin once or twice a day.7 They work by encouraging the outer layer of skin to flake off
a topical antibiotic lotion applied to the skin can be used to control the P. acnes bacteria (eg Dalacin T). Treatment needs to continue for at least six months. Preparations that combine an antibiotic with other acne medication are available (eg Benzamycin which combines an antibiotic with benzoyl peroxide)7
Oral treatments
There are several oral treatments you may be prescribed including those listed below:
oral antibiotics (tablets), such as tetracycline, can be prescribed for inflammatory acne. They should be taken daily for around three months, although it might take four to six months for the benefits to be seen.7 The success of this treatment can be limited because the strains of bacteria are often resistant to the common antibiotics. Antibiotics do not prevent pores from becoming blocked so treatment to prevent blackheads, such as benzoyl peroxide, is often also prescribed at the same time
some types of oral contraceptive tablets help women who have acne. A combination of the usual pill hormone called ethinylestradiol with cyproterone acetate (eg Dianette) suppresses male hormone activity so is often used in women with acne4,7
isotretinoin (eg Roaccutane) is a medicine known as an oral retinoid, which also exists in a topical form (see above). Isotretinoin works by drying up oily secretions. It tends to be prescribed to people with severe forms of acne that have proved resistant to other treatments. There a number of serious side-effects of this drug, such as liver disorders and depresssion.3,7 You should not take isotretinoin if you are pregnant, as it is very dangerous to an unborn baby.7 For safety reasons, isotretinoin is only prescribed under the supervision of dermatology specialists
This is what I use.
Aloe vera gel mixed with 2 drops of tea tree essential oil works really well and has been shown in studys to improve acne. Doing scrubs is not good for acne at all because it irritates acne so I use warm oatmeal with a little bit of honey to exfoliate which is more gently. A french ';green'; clay mask works very well also. It removes impurities from deep within and your acne may get worse before it gets better using the french clay. You should try an organic cleanser. (You can get them at a health food store.) I use a herbal astringent recipe from ';The herbal body book'; by Stephanie Tourles which you can get cheap on half.com. Works really good and is so soothing. Use a oil free moisturizer at might on your face, neck and chest. Try taking vitamins A, E, D, C, B5 vitamin %26amp; Zinc. Also eat healthy lean meats, fresh fruits and vegtables. Boxed foods and fast food will make it so much worse!
Hope this helps!!!
Acne and pimples is one of the most distressing and depressing problem. Soak cotton wool in mint juice, and apply every day. Mix cinnamon powder with lime juice to make a fine paste, Apply on the spots and wash when dry .Check out http://useinfo-acne.blogspot.com/ for more useful info.
Who truly gives the best advice in this section?
i think dr. love has great incite. i dont think im too bad, lol. you have good answers also.Who truly gives the best advice in this section?
the one that gives you the right answer.Who truly gives the best advice in this section?
thats me babe
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i dunno but can they answer my question???
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the one that gives you the right answer.Who truly gives the best advice in this section?
thats me babe
:';%26gt;
i dunno but can they answer my question???
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
10 points for the best advice?
i din take drugs,,notin illegal...
but i feel i ruin my life...
i talk behind ppls back...
i always feel scared
im 16
i donno wat to do10 points for the best advice?
Teens have it really rough. There is this whole thing about fitting in. I used to be scared about lots of things too. I never did anything illegal, always played by the rules and I still felt as if something was wrong with me. You need to find something that makes you happy. What are the things you like to do? When you find that then you'll be a little happier with yourself and those around you. You're 16 , you don't have to be scared of anything. Maybe you could get some counseling too. It's always good to talk things out with someone. Hope you find what you need. :)10 points for the best advice?
What you need to do is try to make friends. Even though you are popular, sit with someone who doesn't have many friends. They are usually the nicest. Or get guy friends. They won't treat you any different. They'll treat you just like you're one of the guys. Not in a bad way though. I feel this way everyday, but when I talk to my guy friends, I forget about everything. They'll make you feel happy and laughable. Good luck!
Everyone talks behinds peoples back even if people say they dont then there lying.
i think you need a girl or boyfriend as you say you always feel scared if you had a girl/boy friend they would be there for you.
Your 16 your lifes just about to begin like getting a job and getting a house So your bound to feel scaredJust relax and remeber you have people around you who love you and will be there for you.
Everyone talks about people, its a way of life, most of us cant help but to share anothers mis-fortunes. But your only 16 years old, and your still growing and learning. Life is about making mistakes, and then taking those mistakes and teaching urself from them. We all go through a stage in our life where we are a bully, or mean, or too nice and get walked all over. Its hard to find an even balance.
One thing you have to try and keep in mind everytime you do something is ';Treat others the way you would like to be treated'; I know we dont always think before we act.. but next time take a moment before you do something and say that phrase...
but i feel i ruin my life...
i talk behind ppls back...
i always feel scared
im 16
i donno wat to do10 points for the best advice?
Teens have it really rough. There is this whole thing about fitting in. I used to be scared about lots of things too. I never did anything illegal, always played by the rules and I still felt as if something was wrong with me. You need to find something that makes you happy. What are the things you like to do? When you find that then you'll be a little happier with yourself and those around you. You're 16 , you don't have to be scared of anything. Maybe you could get some counseling too. It's always good to talk things out with someone. Hope you find what you need. :)10 points for the best advice?
What you need to do is try to make friends. Even though you are popular, sit with someone who doesn't have many friends. They are usually the nicest. Or get guy friends. They won't treat you any different. They'll treat you just like you're one of the guys. Not in a bad way though. I feel this way everyday, but when I talk to my guy friends, I forget about everything. They'll make you feel happy and laughable. Good luck!
Everyone talks behinds peoples back even if people say they dont then there lying.
i think you need a girl or boyfriend as you say you always feel scared if you had a girl/boy friend they would be there for you.
Your 16 your lifes just about to begin like getting a job and getting a house So your bound to feel scaredJust relax and remeber you have people around you who love you and will be there for you.
Everyone talks about people, its a way of life, most of us cant help but to share anothers mis-fortunes. But your only 16 years old, and your still growing and learning. Life is about making mistakes, and then taking those mistakes and teaching urself from them. We all go through a stage in our life where we are a bully, or mean, or too nice and get walked all over. Its hard to find an even balance.
One thing you have to try and keep in mind everytime you do something is ';Treat others the way you would like to be treated'; I know we dont always think before we act.. but next time take a moment before you do something and say that phrase...
Best advice for divorcing women?
my husband says he wants an amicable divorce and so do I. He makes alot more money than I do, but he wants a 50/50 splitBest advice for divorcing women?
Well most states require you to split your assets, debts, etc. 50/50, so him wanting it really has nothing to do with it. Why he wants an amicable split is so that you don't go after more money, or alimony. Since he makes more money, you are technically eligible for alimony. He is hoping the 50/50 split, whatever that means to him, will stop you from asking for it.
If you truly need alimony to get back on your feet after this divorce, then ask for it. But if you can do without, then I suggest you avoid it. It will make things difficult especially if he fights it... he cannot fight court ordered alimony but it will no longer be an amicable split, that's for sure.Best advice for divorcing women?
I did a 50/50 with mine and he made more than me. I got the child though, primary custody. If you want it amicable and can live without some of the stuff, then just do it that way. It is so much easier than fighting it out in court. But..just beware, it really never is as amicable as you want it to be...but doing it yourself and leaving the lawyers out of it will make it a whole lot closer! Good luck.
Whatever you both agree on...
But i can see how you may not want it.
In this case you will just have to explain him that you dont believe this is yours, and you dot feel comfortable taking it.
My soon to be ex and I are going through an amicable divorce, and both of us have lawyers. Wouldn't do it without someone to look over all the legal papers.
Sounds like you already have it figured out then.
50/50 is fair and amicable...
sounds like you are already at peace with this. You can't be any fairer that 50/50.
That will happen here in Michigan and most states no matter what. If kids are involved they judge gives you SUPPORT.
If you are willing so be it. If not, get an attorney.
Well most states require you to split your assets, debts, etc. 50/50, so him wanting it really has nothing to do with it. Why he wants an amicable split is so that you don't go after more money, or alimony. Since he makes more money, you are technically eligible for alimony. He is hoping the 50/50 split, whatever that means to him, will stop you from asking for it.
If you truly need alimony to get back on your feet after this divorce, then ask for it. But if you can do without, then I suggest you avoid it. It will make things difficult especially if he fights it... he cannot fight court ordered alimony but it will no longer be an amicable split, that's for sure.Best advice for divorcing women?
I did a 50/50 with mine and he made more than me. I got the child though, primary custody. If you want it amicable and can live without some of the stuff, then just do it that way. It is so much easier than fighting it out in court. But..just beware, it really never is as amicable as you want it to be...but doing it yourself and leaving the lawyers out of it will make it a whole lot closer! Good luck.
Whatever you both agree on...
But i can see how you may not want it.
In this case you will just have to explain him that you dont believe this is yours, and you dot feel comfortable taking it.
My soon to be ex and I are going through an amicable divorce, and both of us have lawyers. Wouldn't do it without someone to look over all the legal papers.
Sounds like you already have it figured out then.
50/50 is fair and amicable...
sounds like you are already at peace with this. You can't be any fairer that 50/50.
That will happen here in Michigan and most states no matter what. If kids are involved they judge gives you SUPPORT.
If you are willing so be it. If not, get an attorney.
What's the best piece of advice that you've ever gotten/given?
My Grandfather: He said ';You can accomplish anything, if you put your mind to it.';
Or my father: He said, ';Material things can come and go, but the only thing you can always keep is what you learn.';What's the best piece of advice that you've ever gotten/given?
It's been so long that I can't remember any.What's the best piece of advice that you've ever gotten/given?
Learn to cut your losses.
Or my father: He said, ';Material things can come and go, but the only thing you can always keep is what you learn.';What's the best piece of advice that you've ever gotten/given?
It's been so long that I can't remember any.What's the best piece of advice that you've ever gotten/given?
Learn to cut your losses.
What is the best piece of advice you have ever received?
never wipe your nose with a brick.
and ';Neighbors are like dead fish, after a couple of days, they start to stink';. oopps, is that considered a quote?What is the best piece of advice you have ever received?
No matter how prosperous and successful you are in life, people will always search for mistakes.
-Patricia A. Gooch (my grandmother)
and ';Neighbors are like dead fish, after a couple of days, they start to stink';. oopps, is that considered a quote?What is the best piece of advice you have ever received?
No matter how prosperous and successful you are in life, people will always search for mistakes.
-Patricia A. Gooch (my grandmother)
F-1 Visa?!? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am holding F-1 visa. I will graduate in May. I am applying for OPT. I want to work for a year to save money. Then, I plan to pursue a higher education. If I can go to school next year (after the OPT), Can I applied for CPT to work full-times (off-campus) while I am in school full-time?
How likely is it that my current employment or college will help me do the CPT?
Thank youF-1 Visa?!? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
An F-1 student may be authorized by the DSO to participate in a curricular practical training program that is an integral part of an established curriculum. Curricular practical training is defined to be alternative work/study, internship, cooperative education, or any other type of required internship or practicum that is offered by sponsoring employers through cooperative agreements with the school.
No-one can answer you actual question as to ';how likely'; since we do not know your school, we do not know your course of study nor can we read the minds of the people who will make this decision - the only person(s) who can answer this question is the international student advisor or the appropitate department at your university.F-1 Visa?!? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It some times depends. I think they will pretty often.ink cartridge heavy makeup
How likely is it that my current employment or college will help me do the CPT?
Thank youF-1 Visa?!? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
An F-1 student may be authorized by the DSO to participate in a curricular practical training program that is an integral part of an established curriculum. Curricular practical training is defined to be alternative work/study, internship, cooperative education, or any other type of required internship or practicum that is offered by sponsoring employers through cooperative agreements with the school.
No-one can answer you actual question as to ';how likely'; since we do not know your school, we do not know your course of study nor can we read the minds of the people who will make this decision - the only person(s) who can answer this question is the international student advisor or the appropitate department at your university.F-1 Visa?!? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It some times depends. I think they will pretty often.
Without giving a name; what is the best advice you've got from a Y/A contact ?
These are excerpts from actual emails he sent to me:
There's an old adage ';Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.'; The point being it's your choice whether or not to listen to negative opinions of others.
I know it's not an easy process, and feels contrary to how you've been most of your life, but you can start feeling better about yourself. Start by taking pride in the little things you do.
Breaking a life-long habit is indeed difficult, but it can be done. You're letting the negative comments affect you because they feed directly into how you feel about yourself inside. You are basically saying to yourself, ';See, I am right, they don't like me so I must be worthless.'; It's a vicious, circular reasoning, self-feeding cycle, but you can break it. Again, give yourself a break.
YOU ARE A GOOD, CARING PERSON WHO DESERVES THE BEST LIFE HAS TO OFFER!!! BELIEVE IT!!!
I must say that he always gives great advice.Without giving a name; what is the best advice you've got from a Y/A contact ?
just that family is everything.....and i already knew thatWithout giving a name; what is the best advice you've got from a Y/A contact ?
i would tell a certain nerd to stop being so uptight
The best advice was not to get a cat/kitten since my two dogs (chihuahua and terrier) would probably end up chasing it night and day.
There's an old adage ';Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.'; The point being it's your choice whether or not to listen to negative opinions of others.
I know it's not an easy process, and feels contrary to how you've been most of your life, but you can start feeling better about yourself. Start by taking pride in the little things you do.
Breaking a life-long habit is indeed difficult, but it can be done. You're letting the negative comments affect you because they feed directly into how you feel about yourself inside. You are basically saying to yourself, ';See, I am right, they don't like me so I must be worthless.'; It's a vicious, circular reasoning, self-feeding cycle, but you can break it. Again, give yourself a break.
YOU ARE A GOOD, CARING PERSON WHO DESERVES THE BEST LIFE HAS TO OFFER!!! BELIEVE IT!!!
I must say that he always gives great advice.Without giving a name; what is the best advice you've got from a Y/A contact ?
just that family is everything.....and i already knew thatWithout giving a name; what is the best advice you've got from a Y/A contact ?
i would tell a certain nerd to stop being so uptight
The best advice was not to get a cat/kitten since my two dogs (chihuahua and terrier) would probably end up chasing it night and day.
Any advice on best way to recover from knee surgery to repair ligaments, tendon, cartilage and cruciate.?
Follow exactly the physical therapy that is given after surgery. If they tell you to do specific things - do them. The success of most joint type surgery is dependent on the patient doing the required things post surgicial.
What is the best way to advice a guy with various problems??
Tell him to take it easy! Time will solve!!What is the best way to advice a guy with various problems??
To just sit down and talk to him about it...take him to church..buy him a bible..pray for him...What is the best way to advice a guy with various problems??
Tell him!
To just sit down and talk to him about it...take him to church..buy him a bible..pray for him...What is the best way to advice a guy with various problems??
Tell him!
Since when are the conservatives the best people to be giving advice on marriage and divorce?
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think tank?Since when are the conservatives the best people to be giving advice on marriage and divorce?
Is there anything they won't try and interfere in?
It took me over 2 years,and a very aggressive solicitor to get my ex husband to agree to me divorcing him...
Even tho he was a woman beating w*nker.
Some things just can't be fixed by a 'cooling off' period.Since when are the conservatives the best people to be giving advice on marriage and divorce?
Well, on the average, conservatives tend to take the marital commitment more seriously. I said on average, not in all cases, obviously.
If you do not feel that preserving a marriage could be a worthwhile goal, then of course you would not favor any methods that would slow down the divorce process and maybe give the marriage a second chance.
What's odd, though, is that conservatives are usually reluctant to use compulsion in matters of private life, such as marriage and divorce. They think it is not the government's job.
So this would sound more like an answer that liberals would come up with, if they wanted to give troubled marriages a chance to survive.
Since they are able to spin it anyway they like. Quite a few conservatives have admitted to extra marital affairs lately but only because their spouse caught them. What a dishonest group they are turning out to be. Such hypocrites. Tories, the original Federalist in America, became the Republicans in America and yet are loyal to the whims of the Tories in Britain.
They're not of course, but nor are politicians of any party. They have all voted for legislation that makes divorce so easy, without regard to the children, and none of them seem to have opposed the benefits given to single parents at the expense of married couples. A plague on all their houses!
Conservatives are better than liberals when it comes to marriage, family unity, and harmony. I would trust them more on this issue. But if you ask me about politics, I am moderate.
Never take advice from hyprocrites but then arent we all?
They want a three-month ';cooling off'; period before they can start divorce proceedings, hmmm it's a start nothing wrong with that.
The Conservative party in Britain is quite liberal compared to the Conservative party in America.
they not good at anything even in politics. sell this, sell that, take milk off kids, ';let the rich get richer and the poor get poorer';.
Since when should any questions come from a horse's mouth?
think tank?Since when are the conservatives the best people to be giving advice on marriage and divorce?
Is there anything they won't try and interfere in?
It took me over 2 years,and a very aggressive solicitor to get my ex husband to agree to me divorcing him...
Even tho he was a woman beating w*nker.
Some things just can't be fixed by a 'cooling off' period.Since when are the conservatives the best people to be giving advice on marriage and divorce?
Well, on the average, conservatives tend to take the marital commitment more seriously. I said on average, not in all cases, obviously.
If you do not feel that preserving a marriage could be a worthwhile goal, then of course you would not favor any methods that would slow down the divorce process and maybe give the marriage a second chance.
What's odd, though, is that conservatives are usually reluctant to use compulsion in matters of private life, such as marriage and divorce. They think it is not the government's job.
So this would sound more like an answer that liberals would come up with, if they wanted to give troubled marriages a chance to survive.
Since they are able to spin it anyway they like. Quite a few conservatives have admitted to extra marital affairs lately but only because their spouse caught them. What a dishonest group they are turning out to be. Such hypocrites. Tories, the original Federalist in America, became the Republicans in America and yet are loyal to the whims of the Tories in Britain.
They're not of course, but nor are politicians of any party. They have all voted for legislation that makes divorce so easy, without regard to the children, and none of them seem to have opposed the benefits given to single parents at the expense of married couples. A plague on all their houses!
Conservatives are better than liberals when it comes to marriage, family unity, and harmony. I would trust them more on this issue. But if you ask me about politics, I am moderate.
Never take advice from hyprocrites but then arent we all?
They want a three-month ';cooling off'; period before they can start divorce proceedings, hmmm it's a start nothing wrong with that.
The Conservative party in Britain is quite liberal compared to the Conservative party in America.
they not good at anything even in politics. sell this, sell that, take milk off kids, ';let the rich get richer and the poor get poorer';.
Since when should any questions come from a horse's mouth?
Best advice to give to another person?(can be more than one)?
my best advice is,
Never allow people to tell you how you can be happy only you have that in your heart, that knows what it takes to be happy for yourself.
Remember everyone is different and if you compair yourself to everyone nobody will notice you.
True genuis comes from real problem solving(creativity). Anyone can remember Something but it takes an intelligent person to figure it out.Best advice to give to another person?(can be more than one)?
1.Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.2.God's delay is never God's denial.3.The purpose of life is a life of purpose.4. It is your attitude,not your aptitude that that determines your altitude.5.Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom.6.Fear less,hope more,eat less,chew more,whine less,breathe more,talk less,say more,love more and all good things will be yours.Best advice to give to another person?(can be more than one)?
be the best u can be
true love is always right under ur nose
be yourself. ALWAYS!!!
Never allow people to tell you how you can be happy only you have that in your heart, that knows what it takes to be happy for yourself.
Remember everyone is different and if you compair yourself to everyone nobody will notice you.
True genuis comes from real problem solving(creativity). Anyone can remember Something but it takes an intelligent person to figure it out.Best advice to give to another person?(can be more than one)?
1.Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.2.God's delay is never God's denial.3.The purpose of life is a life of purpose.4. It is your attitude,not your aptitude that that determines your altitude.5.Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom.6.Fear less,hope more,eat less,chew more,whine less,breathe more,talk less,say more,love more and all good things will be yours.Best advice to give to another person?(can be more than one)?
be the best u can be
true love is always right under ur nose
be yourself. ALWAYS!!!
Best Advice for Handling a Break-up with Dignity?
It's finally ended...after months of bliss...boiled down to he just wasn't in love and didn't want to hurt me...sincerely...I know that to be true. Now, I need to move on because I'm not sure he'll realize he cared more for me than he thought. Any success stories you can share will be greatly appreciated.Best Advice for Handling a Break-up with Dignity?
Just make sure he knows that you understand why he couldn't be with you anymore. Don't try to ';seek revenge'; in any way because that would just make you appear obsessed and desperate for attention. It sounds like you are already handling this maturely, and even if he doesn't come back to you, you'll find someone new to love who will never stop loving you.ink cartridge heavy makeup
Just make sure he knows that you understand why he couldn't be with you anymore. Don't try to ';seek revenge'; in any way because that would just make you appear obsessed and desperate for attention. It sounds like you are already handling this maturely, and even if he doesn't come back to you, you'll find someone new to love who will never stop loving you.
Is it okay to give dating advice to a girl that's older then you and likes your best friend?
I know a girl that's older then me and likes my best friend is it okay to give dating advice?Is it okay to give dating advice to a girl that's older then you and likes your best friend?
Depends on the age and the advice. If you're telling her things about your best friend that will help her start a convo with him(?) then that makes sense.
Personally...in the example of one of the people above if a 13 year old had a lot of boyfriends she would definitely not be a person I was taking relationship advice from.Is it okay to give dating advice to a girl that's older then you and likes your best friend?
Yah. Age doesn't matter. I know a 13 year old that has had more boyfriends then i have. (needless to say, i am older then that. Just FYI). If you are okay with her liking your best friend, then its all good.
yeah
yeahhhh,of course
and you would know your best friend the best,so your helping her out heaps
no
Depends on the age and the advice. If you're telling her things about your best friend that will help her start a convo with him(?) then that makes sense.
Personally...in the example of one of the people above if a 13 year old had a lot of boyfriends she would definitely not be a person I was taking relationship advice from.Is it okay to give dating advice to a girl that's older then you and likes your best friend?
Yah. Age doesn't matter. I know a 13 year old that has had more boyfriends then i have. (needless to say, i am older then that. Just FYI). If you are okay with her liking your best friend, then its all good.
yeah
yeahhhh,of course
and you would know your best friend the best,so your helping her out heaps
no
10 points for best advice. PLEASE HELP ME?
I was thinking about getting a masters degree, most likely in history. Than I want to go to law school and earn a dual degree jd/mba. Do you think this is an unnecessary amount of school.
P.S. the masters degree would be more personal, but the jd/mba would be to further my future career as a corporate lawyer.10 points for best advice. PLEASE HELP ME?
I'm probably a little biased, because I have an MBA, a Ph.D., and a J.D., but while it may not be ';necessary';, in the strictest sense of the word, if you can afford it and this would satisfy both who you want to be and what you want to do in life, go for it. It sounds like your reasons for this are good - I know that I had to question both whether I was trying to avoid something else in life and whether I was trying to compete with my sister as I got my later degrees. If this is what will satisfy you, why not?10 points for best advice. PLEASE HELP ME?
My cousin had the same problem.
I would say that getting the masters degree would be a lot of school. But it opens your world to a new level of great jobs. Being a corporate lawyer would be an awesome opportunity for you.
About the money problem, a lot of people have the same problem. I think that the best thing to do before you go to get a masters agree, is save some money in a bank account.
I'm sure other people will think that, but if you enjoy learning or this amount of schooling is necessary to your future career, then it's not. If it's something you want to do, it's not unnecessary.
I think you should go cause you'd be learning more and it would help you futher in life in what you want to be right. And if you have the chance then go.
Yes you can never get enough preparation and the higher the degree, the better. it show your dedication and commitment...
P.S. the masters degree would be more personal, but the jd/mba would be to further my future career as a corporate lawyer.10 points for best advice. PLEASE HELP ME?
I'm probably a little biased, because I have an MBA, a Ph.D., and a J.D., but while it may not be ';necessary';, in the strictest sense of the word, if you can afford it and this would satisfy both who you want to be and what you want to do in life, go for it. It sounds like your reasons for this are good - I know that I had to question both whether I was trying to avoid something else in life and whether I was trying to compete with my sister as I got my later degrees. If this is what will satisfy you, why not?10 points for best advice. PLEASE HELP ME?
My cousin had the same problem.
I would say that getting the masters degree would be a lot of school. But it opens your world to a new level of great jobs. Being a corporate lawyer would be an awesome opportunity for you.
About the money problem, a lot of people have the same problem. I think that the best thing to do before you go to get a masters agree, is save some money in a bank account.
I'm sure other people will think that, but if you enjoy learning or this amount of schooling is necessary to your future career, then it's not. If it's something you want to do, it's not unnecessary.
I think you should go cause you'd be learning more and it would help you futher in life in what you want to be right. And if you have the chance then go.
Yes you can never get enough preparation and the higher the degree, the better. it show your dedication and commitment...
What is the best advice?
WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE SOMEONE HAS EVER GIVEN TO YOU? AND WHO GAVE YOU THIS ADVICE?What is the best advice?
Best advice i ever got was
'; i dont know man. . . seems like a pretty big drop. . . and its not even may yet the waters gonna be pretty cold.';
one of my friends about 10 seconds before i pulled him off the cliff into the lake.
He was right it was pretty cold by the time we got him home he was purple and couldnt move his jaw. and purple is a hard color for a black man to turn.What is the best advice?
';A lesson must be lived in order to be learned';...Ani Difranco
Remember that you are not living in a vacuum. What you do has an affect on many people, especially those who love you the most. Always consider others before you act. -- My father
The best advice I ever recieved was, how to be saved. Thank God for My mom. She never gave up. She always Prayed for me. She was the first one to tell me how to be saved. It was years later, until I accepted Jesus. It was the Preacher at church that led me to Christ.
A gypsy once told me that no matter what i had done whether it was wrong or right, that i could not turn back the clocks and undo the past.
Yesterday is history, Tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift.
I read it somewhere.
Never say never.
Don't mistake heat for love.
My dad told me that, as did my best friend's dad.
if everyday was a good day there would be no good days
the best advice was given to me by my uncle...ans that's ';Never give advice unless u have been asked to or if its a Life threatening situation';
Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of
fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than
it鈥檚 worth. ... Baz Luhrmann
common sense is not so common, so use it wisely when needed.........my professor.
the only thing that comes back to lick up its mess,IS A DOG!!!
I got this advice straight from the Bible. It told me to leave yesterday in the past because I can never change it. Don't worry about tomorrow because today has worries enough for now. And live today like it was your last day because tomorrow may never come.
';Discipline is my sword, faith is my shield, do not leap blindly into uncertainty and you may live to reap it's rewards.'; -Criminal Overseer
';Treat man like animal and that is what he will become'; -Jean Valjean, ';Les Miserables';
~*~The Martyr~*~
';Friends will help you move. Good friends will help you move a body'; -My Dad
-SD-
In order to be heard you must first listen. -The Buddha-
Live life to the fullest. I can't remember exactly who said it, a bunch of different people told me that.
Never pass up a chance to go to the bathroom.
My mom.
She told me that when I ask God to take care of a problem/situation; then I need to not take it back and keep worrying about it.
';Let Go, and Let God';
Best advice i ever got was
'; i dont know man. . . seems like a pretty big drop. . . and its not even may yet the waters gonna be pretty cold.';
one of my friends about 10 seconds before i pulled him off the cliff into the lake.
He was right it was pretty cold by the time we got him home he was purple and couldnt move his jaw. and purple is a hard color for a black man to turn.What is the best advice?
';A lesson must be lived in order to be learned';...Ani Difranco
Remember that you are not living in a vacuum. What you do has an affect on many people, especially those who love you the most. Always consider others before you act. -- My father
The best advice I ever recieved was, how to be saved. Thank God for My mom. She never gave up. She always Prayed for me. She was the first one to tell me how to be saved. It was years later, until I accepted Jesus. It was the Preacher at church that led me to Christ.
A gypsy once told me that no matter what i had done whether it was wrong or right, that i could not turn back the clocks and undo the past.
Yesterday is history, Tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift.
I read it somewhere.
Never say never.
Don't mistake heat for love.
My dad told me that, as did my best friend's dad.
if everyday was a good day there would be no good days
the best advice was given to me by my uncle...ans that's ';Never give advice unless u have been asked to or if its a Life threatening situation';
Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of
fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than
it鈥檚 worth. ... Baz Luhrmann
common sense is not so common, so use it wisely when needed.........my professor.
the only thing that comes back to lick up its mess,IS A DOG!!!
I got this advice straight from the Bible. It told me to leave yesterday in the past because I can never change it. Don't worry about tomorrow because today has worries enough for now. And live today like it was your last day because tomorrow may never come.
';Discipline is my sword, faith is my shield, do not leap blindly into uncertainty and you may live to reap it's rewards.'; -Criminal Overseer
';Treat man like animal and that is what he will become'; -Jean Valjean, ';Les Miserables';
~*~The Martyr~*~
';Friends will help you move. Good friends will help you move a body'; -My Dad
-SD-
In order to be heard you must first listen. -The Buddha-
Live life to the fullest. I can't remember exactly who said it, a bunch of different people told me that.
Never pass up a chance to go to the bathroom.
My mom.
She told me that when I ask God to take care of a problem/situation; then I need to not take it back and keep worrying about it.
';Let Go, and Let God';
Why can we give the best advice but its so hard to take advice?
I want to thank all of you who took the time or taking the time to lend me some advice after leaving my H four days ago. Isnt it funny that I know what I have to do %26amp; you all told me the same but it isnt that easy. Should I give up? Walk away find someone better, more sensitive,etc. Are there really sensitive men out there? Are we all better off living for ourselves %26amp; hooking up now %26amp; again. My H %26amp; I spent endless nights discussing ';our'; marriage %26amp; what we wouldnt do, we wont become them, its going to be awesome, nothing will change? Well,as we were told, marriage does change even the better than worse relationships. Look, we are all on the pc at 1:50am looking for the ';answer'; or ';why'; Sorry everyone, I just get so mad how the hell did this happen? This is just too hard for me to even comprehend. 5 mths!It's almost a joke %26amp; thats all I can do is laugh. Do I really just move on? Isnt the 1st yr the hardest? Are we really hopeless? Sorry,dont want to play victim but this does SUCK!Why can we give the best advice but its so hard to take advice?
Before you take advice from people you don't know. You need to first listen to you. If you love him and think you can make this marriage work, then try to work things out.
You are right, the 1st year (and a few more) are hard, but that doesn't mean give up! I read your other question, and I don't think you got the ';best'; advice. Consider the sources... (and here I'm talking and you don't know me from the rest of them!)
But I will say, go to someone who knows the two of you, someone who can be a voice of reason. And have that person mediate the issues you are having with your husband. A good councilor will be able to help you there. Find one.
My marriage ended over stupid stuff. Things that could have easily been handled in an adult way, and fixed. If you love your husband, go the hard road and try to forgive and get to the bottom of your issues.
For the fourth time tonight, I will suggest a few books that I believe could have saved my marriage if I had them before it was over...
1. The Five Love Languages- Probably my favorite... it talks about the different ';languages'; of love we can offer to each other. Everyone has one or two that are their main love language, and if you are not communication to you spouse in THEIR love language, then they probably won't feel loved... great book.
2. Love and Respect- it talks about the different needs of a husband and a wife. It relates to each of you. It's split in certain areas to directly talk to you and to your husband. It talks about how women see things thru ';pink glasses'; and men see things thru ';blue glasses';. It's eye opening...It's wonderful.
3. Friendship Factor- This one is SO basic. It was like a light going off in my head each time I turned a page. It helps you realte to others better as WELL as your husband.
I would read them in that order...together with your husband. You can find them in the Christian/ Religious section of most bookstores. And don't worry, they aren't overly ';holy'; if you are weirded out by Christian books. It's just that God designed man and woman for each other, and boy oh boy does HE have some good principles to build on. The books are very relatable and easy to read quickly.
Go get advice from a source that you can trust. Know that my heart is with you as you are suffering. And I hope that you can see past this incident, and try to make some sort of sense of the issues you are having.Why can we give the best advice but its so hard to take advice?
Advice is available at free of cost n very easy.
Practical implementation is very hard. B/c 1. choose d best advice wisely. 2.Implemetentation by thyself only(not by advicers)3.Face d challengs also in same way.4.Gain n loss 4 thyself only.Advicers hav no hand. Again they r redy 2 give more advice.
Conclusion: Wen u need advice there are lot of ppl, wen u implement n face it u r alone.
The first two years of marriage are the hardest. It's a huge adjustment, but it's worth it. I remember hearing a psychologist telling a couple ';just love each other';. It's simple...but hard to do. But moving from marriage to marriage is just as difficult. Just know that you will go through rough times.
Good luck.
actually when we are given advice, it is easy. but when we are applying it, this is hard.your problem is solved by the herself not another persons.
we see others more clearly than we see ourselves. (which should not be the case)
How doe,s one ever get over loving a H? as far as being better off living alone..i am and its realy freakin tuff.but i am doing it. me myself..another guy is the farthest from my mind right now. and probably for the next year. and your question..how the hell did this happen..if you figure it out let me know...please. hang in there. open a bx of puffs.go ahead cry, scream, wonder why.i am. shyloh.
Before you take advice from people you don't know. You need to first listen to you. If you love him and think you can make this marriage work, then try to work things out.
You are right, the 1st year (and a few more) are hard, but that doesn't mean give up! I read your other question, and I don't think you got the ';best'; advice. Consider the sources... (and here I'm talking and you don't know me from the rest of them!)
But I will say, go to someone who knows the two of you, someone who can be a voice of reason. And have that person mediate the issues you are having with your husband. A good councilor will be able to help you there. Find one.
My marriage ended over stupid stuff. Things that could have easily been handled in an adult way, and fixed. If you love your husband, go the hard road and try to forgive and get to the bottom of your issues.
For the fourth time tonight, I will suggest a few books that I believe could have saved my marriage if I had them before it was over...
1. The Five Love Languages- Probably my favorite... it talks about the different ';languages'; of love we can offer to each other. Everyone has one or two that are their main love language, and if you are not communication to you spouse in THEIR love language, then they probably won't feel loved... great book.
2. Love and Respect- it talks about the different needs of a husband and a wife. It relates to each of you. It's split in certain areas to directly talk to you and to your husband. It talks about how women see things thru ';pink glasses'; and men see things thru ';blue glasses';. It's eye opening...It's wonderful.
3. Friendship Factor- This one is SO basic. It was like a light going off in my head each time I turned a page. It helps you realte to others better as WELL as your husband.
I would read them in that order...together with your husband. You can find them in the Christian/ Religious section of most bookstores. And don't worry, they aren't overly ';holy'; if you are weirded out by Christian books. It's just that God designed man and woman for each other, and boy oh boy does HE have some good principles to build on. The books are very relatable and easy to read quickly.
Go get advice from a source that you can trust. Know that my heart is with you as you are suffering. And I hope that you can see past this incident, and try to make some sort of sense of the issues you are having.Why can we give the best advice but its so hard to take advice?
Advice is available at free of cost n very easy.
Practical implementation is very hard. B/c 1. choose d best advice wisely. 2.Implemetentation by thyself only(not by advicers)3.Face d challengs also in same way.4.Gain n loss 4 thyself only.Advicers hav no hand. Again they r redy 2 give more advice.
Conclusion: Wen u need advice there are lot of ppl, wen u implement n face it u r alone.
The first two years of marriage are the hardest. It's a huge adjustment, but it's worth it. I remember hearing a psychologist telling a couple ';just love each other';. It's simple...but hard to do. But moving from marriage to marriage is just as difficult. Just know that you will go through rough times.
Good luck.
actually when we are given advice, it is easy. but when we are applying it, this is hard.your problem is solved by the herself not another persons.
we see others more clearly than we see ourselves. (which should not be the case)
How doe,s one ever get over loving a H? as far as being better off living alone..i am and its realy freakin tuff.but i am doing it. me myself..another guy is the farthest from my mind right now. and probably for the next year. and your question..how the hell did this happen..if you figure it out let me know...please. hang in there. open a bx of puffs.go ahead cry, scream, wonder why.i am. shyloh.
What is the best advice you've ever recieved? Who'd you recieve it from?
My grandma used to tell me when I'd whine or complain about something that it'll all be better by the time I got married. I know it sounds cheesy, but that advice has gotten me through some rough times, maybe it wasn't so much the advice but who told it to me.What is the best advice you've ever recieved? Who'd you recieve it from?
When I was a teen-ager an adult friend told me this concerning pre-marital sex....Her husband and her were high school sweethearts and planned on getting married....and naturally he wanted to go ahead and be intimate...she agreed but told him this....'; If I get pregnant I will not marry you because I would always wonder if you actually married me because of the baby or because you loved me';. That really hit home to me....it made me rethink my actions and be more 'careful ' with the decisions I made because I did not want to spend my life wondering why my partner was with me. Needless to say my husband and I were married 5 years before we had children.What is the best advice you've ever recieved? Who'd you recieve it from?
i have no idea, ive gotten a lot of advice from teachers and coaches, but i remember humor more than anything- ';when you assume, you look like a jackass';- mr. steffy
My mom told me ';Do never give up from your dreams';. That was definitely the best advice that I received.
';If it looks bad, get out!'; Everytime I ignored this profound relationship advice it has cost me dearly...
It came from an older policeman when I was a young policeman. He was wise even beyond his years.
From my dad, ';If we were all the same the world would be boring';.
From my dad, ';If we all liked the same thing there would not be enough to go around';.
Two tidbits that have proved to be valuable in my life.
on the night before my first day at 1st grade, i was really super scared... my brother said ';don't worry, after about 2 weeks, you'll be so used to it you'll forget about right now';...
best advice ever...
If it ain't broke - don't fix it
can't remember who told me that though
My dad told me ';A man is only as good as his word.'; One of the few things he told me in my early teen years I actually listened to.
My Father - God helps those who help themselves
Do try to grow up so fast....guess what I did and I should have listened to my mom.
when an ex %26amp; I were arguing in the weight room %26amp; he stormed out....
a complete stranger who had witnessed this came over %26amp; told me that I would be completely over him, when I fell in love with someone else....
it was true....
Another cheesy saying ';Don't count your chickens before they hatch';. My mother would say this time and again when I was younger during times that I would count of something that may or may not come to pass. It taught me to think ahead concerning outcomes of certain situations. I had to stop and think about the pros and cons of my actioins. One example was I got my first job and borrowed money from a friend for a frivolous item. I was counting on my first paycheck to cover the amount of the loan. I ended up totally hating the job and quit 3 days later. NO big paycheck, had to face my friend and tell her I couldn't pay the money back right away, and ended up with an item that ended up not being so great after all.
Those who get ahead in life do so not b/c they're the smartest, but b/c they worked the hardest. My dad.
';Don't masturbate with a cheese grater'; - great advice that Uncle Pappy gave us all.....
Well not exactly advice, but interpretations. Her name is Chloe and she helps me out with my dreams. She is on my contacts. She is very nice, I love her for what she does.
from my boss...he said..';think quickly but talk slowly,, you should listen first and let the others finish what they are saying before you say your words...';
When I was a teen-ager an adult friend told me this concerning pre-marital sex....Her husband and her were high school sweethearts and planned on getting married....and naturally he wanted to go ahead and be intimate...she agreed but told him this....'; If I get pregnant I will not marry you because I would always wonder if you actually married me because of the baby or because you loved me';. That really hit home to me....it made me rethink my actions and be more 'careful ' with the decisions I made because I did not want to spend my life wondering why my partner was with me. Needless to say my husband and I were married 5 years before we had children.What is the best advice you've ever recieved? Who'd you recieve it from?
i have no idea, ive gotten a lot of advice from teachers and coaches, but i remember humor more than anything- ';when you assume, you look like a jackass';- mr. steffy
My mom told me ';Do never give up from your dreams';. That was definitely the best advice that I received.
';If it looks bad, get out!'; Everytime I ignored this profound relationship advice it has cost me dearly...
It came from an older policeman when I was a young policeman. He was wise even beyond his years.
From my dad, ';If we were all the same the world would be boring';.
From my dad, ';If we all liked the same thing there would not be enough to go around';.
Two tidbits that have proved to be valuable in my life.
on the night before my first day at 1st grade, i was really super scared... my brother said ';don't worry, after about 2 weeks, you'll be so used to it you'll forget about right now';...
best advice ever...
If it ain't broke - don't fix it
can't remember who told me that though
My dad told me ';A man is only as good as his word.'; One of the few things he told me in my early teen years I actually listened to.
My Father - God helps those who help themselves
Do try to grow up so fast....guess what I did and I should have listened to my mom.
when an ex %26amp; I were arguing in the weight room %26amp; he stormed out....
a complete stranger who had witnessed this came over %26amp; told me that I would be completely over him, when I fell in love with someone else....
it was true....
Another cheesy saying ';Don't count your chickens before they hatch';. My mother would say this time and again when I was younger during times that I would count of something that may or may not come to pass. It taught me to think ahead concerning outcomes of certain situations. I had to stop and think about the pros and cons of my actioins. One example was I got my first job and borrowed money from a friend for a frivolous item. I was counting on my first paycheck to cover the amount of the loan. I ended up totally hating the job and quit 3 days later. NO big paycheck, had to face my friend and tell her I couldn't pay the money back right away, and ended up with an item that ended up not being so great after all.
Those who get ahead in life do so not b/c they're the smartest, but b/c they worked the hardest. My dad.
';Don't masturbate with a cheese grater'; - great advice that Uncle Pappy gave us all.....
Well not exactly advice, but interpretations. Her name is Chloe and she helps me out with my dreams. She is on my contacts. She is very nice, I love her for what she does.
from my boss...he said..';think quickly but talk slowly,, you should listen first and let the others finish what they are saying before you say your words...';
I am not sure how to buy gold. Any advice on the best ways to do this?
check with the local pawn shops they may have a selection to look at and chose from most of the the time they are quite knowlegeable on gold and silverI am not sure how to buy gold. Any advice on the best ways to do this?
you can buy gold mining stocks, commodity futures or take physical possession of the metal itself. also index funds that track metals are available. i would go with the index funds as it is easy to get in and out.ink cartridge heavy makeup
you can buy gold mining stocks, commodity futures or take physical possession of the metal itself. also index funds that track metals are available. i would go with the index funds as it is easy to get in and out.
What's the best advice you've ever given?
What's the best advice you've ever recieved?What's the best advice you've ever given?
• Don't believe anything the recruiter tells you that he won't put in writing.
• Never lay down with a woman who's got more problems than you do.What's the best advice you've ever given?
Buy low, sell high. Plant your corn early.
Given
Just because you can doesn't mean you should
Got
You can always say no
listen to me!
jk
i dont know
but i remember giving a good advise before!
so far... i never have
why did you but the question twices but different??
Givin-Just hang in there
Recieved- Pain will go away, so dont be stupid.
recieved-(in the snow) just because your car drives better dosen't mean you stop faster.
dont eat yellow snow
You're too good for him.
dont know....... i'v herd a lot.....and still more to come
Don't share a bathroom.... just trust me on this one (:
Received would be... don't get drunk and get on Y!A lol!
I really don't know but a close friend of mine said she always listen to whatever ever advice I give her. Like one time she was going through a tough time so i told her not to let her temper get the best of her after a tiring week at work, she did just that and said she enjoyed the weekend.
Given- Know what it IS that youre putting in your mouth!
Received-If it has anything to do with money, put it in writing!
Just thought!- If it involves putting something in your mouth for money- dont do it!
NEVER SAY NEVER!
To my daughters, marry someone that is your best friend.
Best advise I have ever received, don't burn your bridges with people, they will come back in you life at some point.
received-your stronger than you know
given-prayer does help
1. Don't believe you can't just believe you can!!!
2. Don't give up now go all the way!!!
3. Try your best and you will reach all the highest heights you wanted to!!!
Given: What goes around comes around.
Received: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
to treat someone the same way u want 2 b treated
received....';dont smoke'; given....';dont smoke';
given.. chase to much a*se and you wont end up with class (refering to his ways with woman!) and have yet to recieve
My grandfather,Always pay yourself first,put it in avings,and you will have a nest egg in your old age. He lived by this and saved 10 to 20 percent of his paychecks.
GIVEN- don't sneeze when you're getting a haircut
RECEIVED- Don't p!ss on a hotwire (j/k)
Do as I say, not as I do.
Do as I say, not as I do.
Don't listen to me.
shut the hell up
Told my 20 yr old son...who was contemplating moving in with his girlfriend's family.....a family in which ';work'; is a ';four-letter word';. I said ';son....while you are down there....there will come this moment. You will take a good hard look around at these folks. And you will know that I am saying is true. Slowly but surely......the longer you stay with them..the more you will adopt their views, and become just like them. ';
He was back in a week WITH girlfriend.....I reckon she had the same ';moment';.....smiling
best advice was from a detective dog he said ';SAY UGH TO DRUGS AND NOPE TO DOPE'; and advice i had given was ';LOOK BOTH WAYS BEFORE CROSSING THE STREET';
Given:
You can't cremate him, he's scared of fire.
Received:
Learn your alphabet backwards
don't beleave nuthing you see,and only half of what you hear
wait there's time , time heals all wounds ,.
• Don't believe anything the recruiter tells you that he won't put in writing.
• Never lay down with a woman who's got more problems than you do.What's the best advice you've ever given?
Buy low, sell high. Plant your corn early.
Given
Just because you can doesn't mean you should
Got
You can always say no
listen to me!
jk
i dont know
but i remember giving a good advise before!
so far... i never have
why did you but the question twices but different??
Givin-Just hang in there
Recieved- Pain will go away, so dont be stupid.
recieved-(in the snow) just because your car drives better dosen't mean you stop faster.
dont eat yellow snow
You're too good for him.
dont know....... i'v herd a lot.....and still more to come
Don't share a bathroom.... just trust me on this one (:
Received would be... don't get drunk and get on Y!A lol!
I really don't know but a close friend of mine said she always listen to whatever ever advice I give her. Like one time she was going through a tough time so i told her not to let her temper get the best of her after a tiring week at work, she did just that and said she enjoyed the weekend.
Given- Know what it IS that youre putting in your mouth!
Received-If it has anything to do with money, put it in writing!
Just thought!- If it involves putting something in your mouth for money- dont do it!
NEVER SAY NEVER!
To my daughters, marry someone that is your best friend.
Best advise I have ever received, don't burn your bridges with people, they will come back in you life at some point.
received-your stronger than you know
given-prayer does help
1. Don't believe you can't just believe you can!!!
2. Don't give up now go all the way!!!
3. Try your best and you will reach all the highest heights you wanted to!!!
Given: What goes around comes around.
Received: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
to treat someone the same way u want 2 b treated
received....';dont smoke'; given....';dont smoke';
given.. chase to much a*se and you wont end up with class (refering to his ways with woman!) and have yet to recieve
My grandfather,Always pay yourself first,put it in avings,and you will have a nest egg in your old age. He lived by this and saved 10 to 20 percent of his paychecks.
GIVEN- don't sneeze when you're getting a haircut
RECEIVED- Don't p!ss on a hotwire (j/k)
Do as I say, not as I do.
Do as I say, not as I do.
Don't listen to me.
shut the hell up
Told my 20 yr old son...who was contemplating moving in with his girlfriend's family.....a family in which ';work'; is a ';four-letter word';. I said ';son....while you are down there....there will come this moment. You will take a good hard look around at these folks. And you will know that I am saying is true. Slowly but surely......the longer you stay with them..the more you will adopt their views, and become just like them. ';
He was back in a week WITH girlfriend.....I reckon she had the same ';moment';.....smiling
best advice was from a detective dog he said ';SAY UGH TO DRUGS AND NOPE TO DOPE'; and advice i had given was ';LOOK BOTH WAYS BEFORE CROSSING THE STREET';
Given:
You can't cremate him, he's scared of fire.
Received:
Learn your alphabet backwards
don't beleave nuthing you see,and only half of what you hear
wait there's time , time heals all wounds ,.
What is the best advice you can give me?
You don't know me, I don't know you. Give me the best advice you have for me!What is the best advice you can give me?
If you want to catch a rabbit, lie in the grass and make noises like a carrot.What is the best advice you can give me?
whatever you do, do it right
Grab the future by the face.
HI!
Be true to yourself and then to others. Treat people like you would like them to treat you. Be honest and follow your heart. Live..Laugh...Love, life is just a ';Rush'; enjoy it to the fullest!
Don't date me. I'm a disaster.
Life is too short,nothing is worth it
enjoy it and be happy
don`t cut the blue wire.
huh?
life is the pursuit of happiness, go get happy!
If you want to catch a rabbit, lie in the grass and make noises like a carrot.What is the best advice you can give me?
whatever you do, do it right
Grab the future by the face.
HI!
Be true to yourself and then to others. Treat people like you would like them to treat you. Be honest and follow your heart. Live..Laugh...Love, life is just a ';Rush'; enjoy it to the fullest!
Don't date me. I'm a disaster.
Life is too short,nothing is worth it
enjoy it and be happy
don`t cut the blue wire.
huh?
life is the pursuit of happiness, go get happy!
What's the best advice you've ever gotten?
Eat all my vegetables...What's the best advice you've ever gotten?
try, because without that you can't test yourself.What's the best advice you've ever gotten?
Go to college/
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst and accept anything between the extremes.
be yourself
try, because without that you can't test yourself.What's the best advice you've ever gotten?
Go to college/
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst and accept anything between the extremes.
be yourself
Can anyone give me an advice which glutathione products is most effective and the best???
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What's the best advice ever given to you?
live in the solution not the problemWhat's the best advice ever given to you?
Nolite te bastardes carborandorum
(Don't let the b**tards grind you down)
or
Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see.What's the best advice ever given to you?
Buffet once told me ';Invest for the long term.';.
Suck it up, life goes on.
Men want sex and a hamburger, and in that order too.
...from my grandma (:
After a heartbreak, my mom said, '; cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it!';
bite only what you can chew and chew only what you can swallow.
Don't pee into the wind and stay away from red headed women and tie an onion to your belt.
it only u against the world and f@#k every body else
Give it to god :)
';this too ...will pass...';she wasnt wrong too...
There are only 3 things important in life.
-Be true to yourself.
-Be kind to others.
-And learn everything there is to know.
My mom always tells me that.
Never compare yourself to someone else.
Never believe anything you did was a waste in your life; you did what you had to do at the time you did it.
We all have different ways of giving to others.
Stick to your guns.
practice dosnt always make perfect, but it makes pretty good.
Carpe Diem.
';If it don't apply, let it fly.';
-flavor flav. (:
Don't fret what goes around comes around, sometimes it may take awhile but it does
Love many, trust few, but always paddle your own canoe. From my Grandmopther.
Don't eat yellow snow.
and
It is what it is.
playing 3 women at a time, when 2 of them are psycho, sometimes not work out so well
Grow up and be responsible
My uncle told me '; Don't take advice from anyone';
';if you fall...put your hands in front of you';
it's worked well so far
DO NOT GIVE A DAMN
';if you can't make everyone happy, go for the ones that will hold it against you for the rest of your life.';~turns out that was a joke, though, but it works.
Life is what u make it!
';Perfection is the greatest bore in life.'; It's not really advice, but more like inspiration, or a message that it's okay to be different.
Son, rule #1 if you jeopardize my military career life as you know it will come to a screeching halt.... YES SIR!
Nolite te bastardes carborandorum
(Don't let the b**tards grind you down)
or
Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see.What's the best advice ever given to you?
Buffet once told me ';Invest for the long term.';.
Suck it up, life goes on.
Men want sex and a hamburger, and in that order too.
...from my grandma (:
After a heartbreak, my mom said, '; cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it!';
bite only what you can chew and chew only what you can swallow.
Don't pee into the wind and stay away from red headed women and tie an onion to your belt.
it only u against the world and f@#k every body else
Give it to god :)
';this too ...will pass...';she wasnt wrong too...
There are only 3 things important in life.
-Be true to yourself.
-Be kind to others.
-And learn everything there is to know.
My mom always tells me that.
Never compare yourself to someone else.
Never believe anything you did was a waste in your life; you did what you had to do at the time you did it.
We all have different ways of giving to others.
Stick to your guns.
practice dosnt always make perfect, but it makes pretty good.
Carpe Diem.
';If it don't apply, let it fly.';
-flavor flav. (:
Don't fret what goes around comes around, sometimes it may take awhile but it does
Love many, trust few, but always paddle your own canoe. From my Grandmopther.
Don't eat yellow snow.
and
It is what it is.
playing 3 women at a time, when 2 of them are psycho, sometimes not work out so well
Grow up and be responsible
My uncle told me '; Don't take advice from anyone';
';if you fall...put your hands in front of you';
it's worked well so far
DO NOT GIVE A DAMN
';if you can't make everyone happy, go for the ones that will hold it against you for the rest of your life.';~turns out that was a joke, though, but it works.
Life is what u make it!
';Perfection is the greatest bore in life.'; It's not really advice, but more like inspiration, or a message that it's okay to be different.
Son, rule #1 if you jeopardize my military career life as you know it will come to a screeching halt.... YES SIR!
Asking for a best advice: i want to have a girl friend since i'm graduating already but i'm still very busy.
find someone who can understand your situation and someone who will serve as your inspiration while finishing your studies not someone who destructs you with what your doing right now.... so it's not a problem being busy, infact having a girlfriend now might help you lessen the stress....Asking for a best advice: i want to have a girl friend since i'm graduating already but i'm still very busy.
u have to take out time for it . this is no excuse that you didnot have time for making a girl friend .Asking for a best advice: i want to have a girl friend since i'm graduating already but i'm still very busy.
wHAT ARE U MEANING OF BZ ? 24 HOURS BZ? ARE U ?
ANYHOW PLEASE SYSTEMIZE UR TIME FIRST BEFORE U WANT ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH GIRLS. LOOKING A GIRLS WHICH IS VERY AGGRESSIVE AND ALSO WORKHARD IN HER JOB MAY HELP U TO SOLVE UR PROBLEM
It may be difficult to do both at the same time then. Unless you find a woman who is very understanding, and knows that your studies come first and she will come second. Best of luck !!
I suggest you find a girlfriend who is at university, school, or college as well, maybe even at the same one you are at. Join groups or clubs so you can be social even while you're studying, and this may open up doors to meet girls. This way, your future girlfriend will understand the pressures of study and time management because she will be in the same position as you. Good luck!
Having a gf is not a toy or a possesion you know, you make it sound like you havent got time to nip to the chops to pick up your dry cleaning or summin???
find time for your lovelife......................if it is not possible then maybe it is still not the right time...............
time comes for somethings............
i think that is no easy to find in this time all i can give you please take your time to find her and she will come in the suitabl time when god wish you will find her in your life but make an effort to find herink cartridge heavy makeup
u have to take out time for it . this is no excuse that you didnot have time for making a girl friend .Asking for a best advice: i want to have a girl friend since i'm graduating already but i'm still very busy.
wHAT ARE U MEANING OF BZ ? 24 HOURS BZ? ARE U ?
ANYHOW PLEASE SYSTEMIZE UR TIME FIRST BEFORE U WANT ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH GIRLS. LOOKING A GIRLS WHICH IS VERY AGGRESSIVE AND ALSO WORKHARD IN HER JOB MAY HELP U TO SOLVE UR PROBLEM
It may be difficult to do both at the same time then. Unless you find a woman who is very understanding, and knows that your studies come first and she will come second. Best of luck !!
I suggest you find a girlfriend who is at university, school, or college as well, maybe even at the same one you are at. Join groups or clubs so you can be social even while you're studying, and this may open up doors to meet girls. This way, your future girlfriend will understand the pressures of study and time management because she will be in the same position as you. Good luck!
Having a gf is not a toy or a possesion you know, you make it sound like you havent got time to nip to the chops to pick up your dry cleaning or summin???
find time for your lovelife......................if it is not possible then maybe it is still not the right time...............
time comes for somethings............
i think that is no easy to find in this time all i can give you please take your time to find her and she will come in the suitabl time when god wish you will find her in your life but make an effort to find her
What's the best advice your mama ever gave you?
before my mom died she taught me to be strong to be dependable since im handicap ppl think i cant do things on my own hey maybe now i need a little help but im a very dependable girl upon myselfWhat's the best advice your mama ever gave you?
I should have told you to do it that way !!!What's the best advice your mama ever gave you?
It is not what you are given in life, but how you use it.
This too shall pass
Stop hitting my little brother or she would get out the wooden spoon.
I never took the advice so my bottom became a target for the spoon, many times.
Be nice to everyone.
Cooking: You can always put more in, but you can't take it out! (salt, etc)
dont follow strange men ,or weird women
mind ya own damn business
Treat people the way you want them to treat you.
I can't remember a specific advice but i guess it's to study hard and finish school coz I ended up finishing college and pursued a dream once. She passed away when I was 11.
don't concentrate on girls till your out of college...wish I would've listened....
Never cry in public. Only in the confides of your bedroom.
Don't follow the crowd.
My Mom died when I was 14 so my sister raised me it those really hard years.
We didn't have much for a few years but she always told me, ';You can have everything you want,just not always at the same time.'; I've found that to be very true so far. (So far meaning i'm 21 now) You can have whatever you're willing to work for. Pluse my Mom used to say men aren't ';ripe'; thill they're in their 30s....
Don't ever change yourself or who you are for the satisfaction of another.
be yourself
I don't have a mama, so the answer is none...
I should have told you to do it that way !!!What's the best advice your mama ever gave you?
It is not what you are given in life, but how you use it.
This too shall pass
Stop hitting my little brother or she would get out the wooden spoon.
I never took the advice so my bottom became a target for the spoon, many times.
Be nice to everyone.
Cooking: You can always put more in, but you can't take it out! (salt, etc)
dont follow strange men ,or weird women
mind ya own damn business
Treat people the way you want them to treat you.
I can't remember a specific advice but i guess it's to study hard and finish school coz I ended up finishing college and pursued a dream once. She passed away when I was 11.
don't concentrate on girls till your out of college...wish I would've listened....
Never cry in public. Only in the confides of your bedroom.
Don't follow the crowd.
My Mom died when I was 14 so my sister raised me it those really hard years.
We didn't have much for a few years but she always told me, ';You can have everything you want,just not always at the same time.'; I've found that to be very true so far. (So far meaning i'm 21 now) You can have whatever you're willing to work for. Pluse my Mom used to say men aren't ';ripe'; thill they're in their 30s....
Don't ever change yourself or who you are for the satisfaction of another.
be yourself
I don't have a mama, so the answer is none...
Is this the best advice to give, under the circumstances?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zu3-iotee鈥?/a>Is this the best advice to give, under the circumstances?
if its not working :(Is this the best advice to give, under the circumstances?
that is a beautiful song, never heard it b4.
yes it is excellent advice
If it's P%26amp;S you're talking about, well we do have the alternative now :-D
I thought about walking away ..But then thought again and stayed here..If the wee shites get me I will just start again...
I'd say forget Matt Munro and put on some Meatloaf.
Paradise by the dashboard light Gilly baby?
I'm not the sort to just walk away when things get hard. That's me! xx
Sorry Hilts...i've gotta go with Morrissey on this one!
Depends which circumstances and from what . Here well ... you know my view on that
that's the best way.
mind you when my son is being bullied at school, i suggest fight back and kick them where it hurts
if its not working :(Is this the best advice to give, under the circumstances?
that is a beautiful song, never heard it b4.
yes it is excellent advice
If it's P%26amp;S you're talking about, well we do have the alternative now :-D
I thought about walking away ..But then thought again and stayed here..If the wee shites get me I will just start again...
I'd say forget Matt Munro and put on some Meatloaf.
Paradise by the dashboard light Gilly baby?
I'm not the sort to just walk away when things get hard. That's me! xx
Sorry Hilts...i've gotta go with Morrissey on this one!
Depends which circumstances and from what . Here well ... you know my view on that
that's the best way.
mind you when my son is being bullied at school, i suggest fight back and kick them where it hurts
What is the BEST advice your mommy taught you?
There are many women out there who will try to take advantage of your good looks, charm and intelligence.. so jusrt remember to only go out with an *angel*
well I have to say... its the best advice she gave me.. theres nothing better than being with an *angelic girl*What is the BEST advice your mommy taught you?
My momma told me, ';you'd better shop around.';What is the BEST advice your mommy taught you?
To be happy with myself before I attempt to be happy with anyone else.
My mother never taught me anything worth a damn... sorry couldn't help
This life we live is unexpected,
you make your own luck in life!!
this is the best advise because, to me, its got some truth to it.
';Whatever you say about others, is what you see in yourself';
she told that life is like a box of chocolate. you never know what you re gonna get..... but if I see you stealing chocolate from the fridge, i will go soldier on you.
Be the best at everything that you do no matter if its a slut or a bussiness woman, always top the others.
If I would fight with a boyfriend she would tell me to go take a shower and ';Wash that man right out of your hair';. If I would break up with a boyfriend she told me to go get a new haircut/hairstyle.
It gives you a new, fresh perspective...change without anything too dramatic. I know it sounds silly but you should try it.
Never kiss and tell!
well I have to say... its the best advice she gave me.. theres nothing better than being with an *angelic girl*What is the BEST advice your mommy taught you?
My momma told me, ';you'd better shop around.';What is the BEST advice your mommy taught you?
To be happy with myself before I attempt to be happy with anyone else.
My mother never taught me anything worth a damn... sorry couldn't help
This life we live is unexpected,
you make your own luck in life!!
this is the best advise because, to me, its got some truth to it.
';Whatever you say about others, is what you see in yourself';
she told that life is like a box of chocolate. you never know what you re gonna get..... but if I see you stealing chocolate from the fridge, i will go soldier on you.
Be the best at everything that you do no matter if its a slut or a bussiness woman, always top the others.
If I would fight with a boyfriend she would tell me to go take a shower and ';Wash that man right out of your hair';. If I would break up with a boyfriend she told me to go get a new haircut/hairstyle.
It gives you a new, fresh perspective...change without anything too dramatic. I know it sounds silly but you should try it.
Never kiss and tell!
What is the best advice that you can give?
any advice that you have on your mind .What is the best advice that you can give?
I keep this on my refrigerator.It is good to study every day. The principles of positive thinking. 1) Our thoughts have power over our feelings and attitudes. 2) You can change yourself by changing your thoughts 3) Positive thinkers use faith to gain control of their problems 4) Fear and worry are conquered by practical spiritual methods; meditation and prayer increase vitality and peace of mind 5) A positive mind leads to improved health and well being 6) positive thinkers overcome mistakes forgiving themselves and others 7) The practice of positive imaging instills the courage and confidence to achieve your goals. 8)enthusiasm leads to action 9) Positive attitudes create more enduring and fulfilling relationships. 10) Positive thinking is achievable by all people.What is the best advice that you can give?
when life gives you lemons, give it the finger.
Don't let Greed get to you.
If you wish your lips to conceal from slips five things observe with care.
Off whom you speak
To whom you speak and how and when and where.
Be your own best friend. From that true friends will follow.
Life is short so make everyday a great one. Never take for granted that you have your health and can take care of yourself. When you get down, and we all do, remember there are people who can't walk or are dieing of cancer or somethng else equally as bad. Don't wait until you lose something precious in your life to realize how good most of us actually have it. When it comes to making a living choose something that you enjoy and makes you happy. We all want to pay our bills but it is not always about money. Enjoy your profession and you will see that the money will come. In turn you will live a longer and happier life!
Keep your concience clear because it will haunt you.
How about this: No one's past ever dictates what there future can be, if you want to do something find a way to do it, it doesn't matter what happen to you then.
I keep this on my refrigerator.It is good to study every day. The principles of positive thinking. 1) Our thoughts have power over our feelings and attitudes. 2) You can change yourself by changing your thoughts 3) Positive thinkers use faith to gain control of their problems 4) Fear and worry are conquered by practical spiritual methods; meditation and prayer increase vitality and peace of mind 5) A positive mind leads to improved health and well being 6) positive thinkers overcome mistakes forgiving themselves and others 7) The practice of positive imaging instills the courage and confidence to achieve your goals. 8)enthusiasm leads to action 9) Positive attitudes create more enduring and fulfilling relationships. 10) Positive thinking is achievable by all people.What is the best advice that you can give?
when life gives you lemons, give it the finger.
Don't let Greed get to you.
If you wish your lips to conceal from slips five things observe with care.
Off whom you speak
To whom you speak and how and when and where.
Be your own best friend. From that true friends will follow.
Life is short so make everyday a great one. Never take for granted that you have your health and can take care of yourself. When you get down, and we all do, remember there are people who can't walk or are dieing of cancer or somethng else equally as bad. Don't wait until you lose something precious in your life to realize how good most of us actually have it. When it comes to making a living choose something that you enjoy and makes you happy. We all want to pay our bills but it is not always about money. Enjoy your profession and you will see that the money will come. In turn you will live a longer and happier life!
Keep your concience clear because it will haunt you.
How about this: No one's past ever dictates what there future can be, if you want to do something find a way to do it, it doesn't matter what happen to you then.
What's the best advice you've ever gotten?
';Talent is God-given. Be humble.
Fame is man-given. Be grateful.
Conceit is self-given. Be careful.';
-John Wooden (UCLA basketball coach)
And from my late Dad:
*no regrets
*live life joyfullyWhat's the best advice you've ever gotten?
Never talk about a friend behind a friends back....
Another is don't let you dog eat your homework.... that happened to me twice
That all the advice that are good to meWhat's the best advice you've ever gotten?
be a real friend with ur friend,but don't let her/him ask u too much of you.[IMAM ALI]
keep my zipper up!!!
Fame is man-given. Be grateful.
Conceit is self-given. Be careful.';
-John Wooden (UCLA basketball coach)
And from my late Dad:
*no regrets
*live life joyfullyWhat's the best advice you've ever gotten?
Never talk about a friend behind a friends back....
Another is don't let you dog eat your homework.... that happened to me twice
That all the advice that are good to meWhat's the best advice you've ever gotten?
be a real friend with ur friend,but don't let her/him ask u too much of you.[IMAM ALI]
keep my zipper up!!!
What is the best advice u can give?
pretend a journalist came up to you and asked, ';what is the best advice you can give?'; it can be on life, friends, anything! just... what is it?What is the best advice u can give?
Listen to that little voice inside your head. Most of the time it's right and will steer you in the right direction in life.What is the best advice u can give?
If you eat an apple a day you'll keep the doctor away... but you'll be into the god dam* dentist every couple of weeks so take your pick... who do you like more...ink cartridge heavy makeup
Listen to that little voice inside your head. Most of the time it's right and will steer you in the right direction in life.What is the best advice u can give?
If you eat an apple a day you'll keep the doctor away... but you'll be into the god dam* dentist every couple of weeks so take your pick... who do you like more...
Would anyone have an advice for what is best for emailing when comparing the instinct vs blackberry curve?
Just want some info on what is faster...thanksWould anyone have an advice for what is best for emailing when comparing the instinct vs blackberry curve?
I'm gonna have to say blackberry because its basically made to be an email type of phone and business like, so I would say go with the blackberry.Would anyone have an advice for what is best for emailing when comparing the instinct vs blackberry curve?
All I can say is that Instinct is probably better than blackberry by far.
;)
I'm gonna have to say blackberry because its basically made to be an email type of phone and business like, so I would say go with the blackberry.Would anyone have an advice for what is best for emailing when comparing the instinct vs blackberry curve?
All I can say is that Instinct is probably better than blackberry by far.
;)
Dog experts, I need your help! Best advice please?
My husband and I have two children. The youngest, who is 6, is autistic and for the most part non-verbal. We recently adopted a 1 year old dog, who is 1/2 Lab, 1/2 German Shepherd. He's a beautiful dog, seemed so sweet and intelligent, but we have a big problem. In the past few days, he has tried to bite my youngest son. My son is a very sweet child who is gentle with animals, and did nothing to provoke the behavior. The dog is an angel with me, my husband, and my older son, but singles out my youngest when he gets too close. I'm frankly scared, and right now the dog is outside and I'm not bringing him back in except during the day while the kids are at school. Should I try to find him a good home where there are no small children? I love the dog, but he is VERY strong, and if he were to attack my child or a neighbor's child, I'm not sure I would be able to get him pulled off in time. So far it's only been growling and snapping, next time I'm afraid it could be an all-out attack.Dog experts, I need your help! Best advice please?
Autistic children have a hard time with pets. Dogs are social animals, they have a ';pack order'; and everyone behaves with-in that order, or they are disicplened. Autism is a lack of social skills. Your son doesn't understand the dogs non-verbal communication, and, he is giving off all the wrong ';signals'; to the dog. Autism shouldn't keep your son from having a pet, even a dog, but I would contact someone who really understands dog behavior, and explain your situation. (a good breeder, some shelter workers, or,your best bet, a behaviorist) Some breeds are going to be better suited to your son than others. German Shepherds are a dominate breed, that is why they excell at protection work. Rotts should be avoided, along with terriers, chows and shar pies. Some breeds that should be good are collies(smooth or rough), golden retrievers, pugs, Australian Shepherds, %26amp; Keeshond.
I hate to say this, but you need to rehome your dog. I think it is great that you turned to rescue to get a dog, and you still can, just be sure whoever you work with understands your son.Dog experts, I need your help! Best advice please?
I am sorry to hear that you are in theis situation, it is hard and painful for the whole family. Some dogs just do not do well with small children, I have had two ocassions where I have delt with this. One was a rotwieler/lab mix, it was my dog, she was great with my family but posed great risk to other children. I tried to put her into several homes, but they all returned her to me because of the reaction she had with their children. She was eventually put to sleep because I could not even get an animal shelter that could find suitable arrangements for her. The other involved a neighbors german shepard, the dog had been growling and snapping at children in the neighborhood, well, one day while my 6 year old son was out playing this dog came acroos the yard at him and bit his sweat shirt at the neck and kept hold and pulled him to the ground, my son balled himself up and was crying while dog shook him. It took 2 people to drag that dog away from my son. He was not injured, he was just very upset by the incident. The owners of that dog kept the dog, and it continues to growl at even their own child...It is a tragedy waiting to happen. My children are no longer allowed to play near that house, and it is sad because their child has less children to play with and none of the kids in the neighborhood are allowed over there. Keep in mind, besides the devestaion of the dog biting a child, you can lose your home if the dog bites someone. It would be in your familys and the dogs best intrest to find the dog a home with no children. Good Luck.
Please get rid of him. That mean I know but what if he bites your face and draws blood. He will never let up. Get a boxer or pup. best of luck.
I'd find a new home for the dog. I'm actually shocked that the dog is just doing this to one of the children though. Both breeds are very calm dogs, good with children.
If I was in your position I would find a new home for the dog. As much as you love it, I am sure you love your son more. It sounds like you already know that this is the right thing to do. I'm sorry that you have to make such a difficult decision.
This is a very tough situation! It could be the case that the dog sees your youngest son as an equal or even an inferior, and not as above him on the totem pole (the way he views the rest of the family). So your son could do nothing to provoke him and still bring on biting. I would say, if you have the time and money (and energy) to invest in training the dog, possibly with a behavioral specialist, there is hope. You must also involve your son -- perhaps (with supervision) get your son to be the one who doles out the food for your dog, who participates in the training sessions.
But, given the constraints you named and the youth of your son, this may not be possible. I'm a fervent dog lover and I believe in trying all avenues before giving up a dog, but the safety of your family, and your well-being, must come first. If you feel doubtful that you can safely keep this dog, then find another home for him. :(
yea i think jenn_a answered very well. there are alot of dogs that are kind of confused in a way by autistic children and adults. and that doesnt make the dog a bad dog, just a miscomunication. i have a terrier who is a wonderful sweet loyal dog and one time an autistic person came up to her and started talking alittle to loud to tori(my dog)and she growled at her. i was very dissapointed but i had to realize that even some people cant understand an autistic person much less some dogs. i hope your son doesnt think that he did anything wrong or the dog 'hates' him,that is a sad situation, i've seen it. but there are certain dogs out there that will know how to handle and confront your son. good luck :) but if you decide to find the dog another home, please be sure to find a very good home that will treat him as you guys would have been able too. and in my opinion, adoption and rescues are the best way to go.
I don't know if you knoe dog like to be the alhap some if they think someone or dog is weak they will pick them off. I am sorry to say if your don't feel comfortable with the dog you should give rid of him. The dog could become mean. Not because the dog wants to it is just what they do in the wild.
Find a new home for the dog. Let any potential owner know about the dog's behavior. The dog might not be good for small children, but make a great companion dog for an adult.
Place the dog in another home. For the dog's sake and your son's sake.
If the dog bit your son and did a lot of damage the dog would be villainized.
Just find him a good home.
Don't get rid of him...talk to your vet..a long time ago afriend of mine got this wonderful dog from a shelter..he was good for both of the adults that were in the home..plus he was good for the 10 yr old...but for some reason he was a little nasty to the 1 yr old...come to find out the smell of baby food that was inprinted on the baby made the dog act different..come to find out the owners before them use to throw baby food at the dog..it was a reminder of abuse..just talk to your vet first
you have an EXTREMELY problematic dog on your hands. It is important to look at the history of the dog when you adopt. Was the dog abused by a previous owner? If not, I am sorry to say it, but you have to get rid of the animal.
Autistic children have a hard time with pets. Dogs are social animals, they have a ';pack order'; and everyone behaves with-in that order, or they are disicplened. Autism is a lack of social skills. Your son doesn't understand the dogs non-verbal communication, and, he is giving off all the wrong ';signals'; to the dog. Autism shouldn't keep your son from having a pet, even a dog, but I would contact someone who really understands dog behavior, and explain your situation. (a good breeder, some shelter workers, or,your best bet, a behaviorist) Some breeds are going to be better suited to your son than others. German Shepherds are a dominate breed, that is why they excell at protection work. Rotts should be avoided, along with terriers, chows and shar pies. Some breeds that should be good are collies(smooth or rough), golden retrievers, pugs, Australian Shepherds, %26amp; Keeshond.
I hate to say this, but you need to rehome your dog. I think it is great that you turned to rescue to get a dog, and you still can, just be sure whoever you work with understands your son.Dog experts, I need your help! Best advice please?
I am sorry to hear that you are in theis situation, it is hard and painful for the whole family. Some dogs just do not do well with small children, I have had two ocassions where I have delt with this. One was a rotwieler/lab mix, it was my dog, she was great with my family but posed great risk to other children. I tried to put her into several homes, but they all returned her to me because of the reaction she had with their children. She was eventually put to sleep because I could not even get an animal shelter that could find suitable arrangements for her. The other involved a neighbors german shepard, the dog had been growling and snapping at children in the neighborhood, well, one day while my 6 year old son was out playing this dog came acroos the yard at him and bit his sweat shirt at the neck and kept hold and pulled him to the ground, my son balled himself up and was crying while dog shook him. It took 2 people to drag that dog away from my son. He was not injured, he was just very upset by the incident. The owners of that dog kept the dog, and it continues to growl at even their own child...It is a tragedy waiting to happen. My children are no longer allowed to play near that house, and it is sad because their child has less children to play with and none of the kids in the neighborhood are allowed over there. Keep in mind, besides the devestaion of the dog biting a child, you can lose your home if the dog bites someone. It would be in your familys and the dogs best intrest to find the dog a home with no children. Good Luck.
Please get rid of him. That mean I know but what if he bites your face and draws blood. He will never let up. Get a boxer or pup. best of luck.
I'd find a new home for the dog. I'm actually shocked that the dog is just doing this to one of the children though. Both breeds are very calm dogs, good with children.
If I was in your position I would find a new home for the dog. As much as you love it, I am sure you love your son more. It sounds like you already know that this is the right thing to do. I'm sorry that you have to make such a difficult decision.
This is a very tough situation! It could be the case that the dog sees your youngest son as an equal or even an inferior, and not as above him on the totem pole (the way he views the rest of the family). So your son could do nothing to provoke him and still bring on biting. I would say, if you have the time and money (and energy) to invest in training the dog, possibly with a behavioral specialist, there is hope. You must also involve your son -- perhaps (with supervision) get your son to be the one who doles out the food for your dog, who participates in the training sessions.
But, given the constraints you named and the youth of your son, this may not be possible. I'm a fervent dog lover and I believe in trying all avenues before giving up a dog, but the safety of your family, and your well-being, must come first. If you feel doubtful that you can safely keep this dog, then find another home for him. :(
yea i think jenn_a answered very well. there are alot of dogs that are kind of confused in a way by autistic children and adults. and that doesnt make the dog a bad dog, just a miscomunication. i have a terrier who is a wonderful sweet loyal dog and one time an autistic person came up to her and started talking alittle to loud to tori(my dog)and she growled at her. i was very dissapointed but i had to realize that even some people cant understand an autistic person much less some dogs. i hope your son doesnt think that he did anything wrong or the dog 'hates' him,that is a sad situation, i've seen it. but there are certain dogs out there that will know how to handle and confront your son. good luck :) but if you decide to find the dog another home, please be sure to find a very good home that will treat him as you guys would have been able too. and in my opinion, adoption and rescues are the best way to go.
I don't know if you knoe dog like to be the alhap some if they think someone or dog is weak they will pick them off. I am sorry to say if your don't feel comfortable with the dog you should give rid of him. The dog could become mean. Not because the dog wants to it is just what they do in the wild.
Find a new home for the dog. Let any potential owner know about the dog's behavior. The dog might not be good for small children, but make a great companion dog for an adult.
Place the dog in another home. For the dog's sake and your son's sake.
If the dog bit your son and did a lot of damage the dog would be villainized.
Just find him a good home.
Don't get rid of him...talk to your vet..a long time ago afriend of mine got this wonderful dog from a shelter..he was good for both of the adults that were in the home..plus he was good for the 10 yr old...but for some reason he was a little nasty to the 1 yr old...come to find out the smell of baby food that was inprinted on the baby made the dog act different..come to find out the owners before them use to throw baby food at the dog..it was a reminder of abuse..just talk to your vet first
you have an EXTREMELY problematic dog on your hands. It is important to look at the history of the dog when you adopt. Was the dog abused by a previous owner? If not, I am sorry to say it, but you have to get rid of the animal.
Am I too comfortable with myself?10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I always run away when guys flirt/like/or even in love with me. My only excuse is I am not ready. I think I am not ready for various reasons. Well, the most important one is I just don't want to change my life style. I am extremely comfortable being alone. Sometimes, I feel funny when I think I will have a boyfriend oneday. I am 22 for crying out loud :)Am I too comfortable with myself?10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Nothing wrong with that at all actually.
If it ain't broke, don't fix it, i think that saying would fit here.
As far as getting a boyfriend someday, it'll happen when it happens. No point overthinking the issue, go have fun enjoying your life as it is :-)Am I too comfortable with myself?10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It's your life.
Do what makes you happy.
oh wow sweetie you shouldn't
run away make them wanna chase youuu.
you might be too comfortable... but one day you'll take a risk and it'll be all worth it...
good luck
can u answer this plz: go to my profile questions to see it
If you're happy with your life, why try to change it? Do what pleases you. Too many people end up in relationships these days, simply because they can't stand to be alone.
Well done for standing up and being an independent woman! Keep doing what you're doing!
There's really no point in being with someone because you think you should be, it's not fair to either of you.
It's great that you are comfortable and independent, at 22 you are still just beginning your life. Enjoy your freedom, that way if/when you do meet someone that makes you re-evaluate your lifestyle, you wont have any regrets.
just you carry on girl,when i was younger all my friends were coupling up or getting married,it wasn;t for me i went down south working for a few year.i came back home when i got fed up but got pressured into settling down.i went along with it,i was 24 when i got married 2years later we had a little girl a crippling mortgage,we had no money to go out.in the end our marriage went stale,he went off with a bimbo,i lost my home and furniture ending up in a dingy rented house.i love my daughter very much but wish i had stood my ground,i was so carefree,i was gonna see the world .do what makes you happy girl cos you don,t get a second chance of living your life
not ready to change..comfortable being alone..I think you are my long lost sister.....
some people don't feel comfortable with someone.
its ok.
just hang out with your friends and do it if or when it feels comfortable to you.
no risk no gain get a cat and watch re runs of friends with a glass of wine for the rest of your life..
try to have a friendship with a guy, nothing serious though
At 22 that is the right idea. It is so important to be comfortable with yourself before entering into a serious relationship anyway. Have fun, You are in a great place in your life, enjoy every minute while you are single. Someday you will look back and be glad you did!
well, don't think of him as ur lover. just think of him as a really good friend who just wants to be really good friends with u 2!
just let urself have fun and have really good friends. that is the only problem! ^_^ good luck!
Nothing wrong with that at all actually.
If it ain't broke, don't fix it, i think that saying would fit here.
As far as getting a boyfriend someday, it'll happen when it happens. No point overthinking the issue, go have fun enjoying your life as it is :-)Am I too comfortable with myself?10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It's your life.
Do what makes you happy.
oh wow sweetie you shouldn't
run away make them wanna chase youuu.
you might be too comfortable... but one day you'll take a risk and it'll be all worth it...
good luck
can u answer this plz: go to my profile questions to see it
If you're happy with your life, why try to change it? Do what pleases you. Too many people end up in relationships these days, simply because they can't stand to be alone.
Well done for standing up and being an independent woman! Keep doing what you're doing!
There's really no point in being with someone because you think you should be, it's not fair to either of you.
It's great that you are comfortable and independent, at 22 you are still just beginning your life. Enjoy your freedom, that way if/when you do meet someone that makes you re-evaluate your lifestyle, you wont have any regrets.
just you carry on girl,when i was younger all my friends were coupling up or getting married,it wasn;t for me i went down south working for a few year.i came back home when i got fed up but got pressured into settling down.i went along with it,i was 24 when i got married 2years later we had a little girl a crippling mortgage,we had no money to go out.in the end our marriage went stale,he went off with a bimbo,i lost my home and furniture ending up in a dingy rented house.i love my daughter very much but wish i had stood my ground,i was so carefree,i was gonna see the world .do what makes you happy girl cos you don,t get a second chance of living your life
not ready to change..comfortable being alone..I think you are my long lost sister.....
some people don't feel comfortable with someone.
its ok.
just hang out with your friends and do it if or when it feels comfortable to you.
no risk no gain get a cat and watch re runs of friends with a glass of wine for the rest of your life..
try to have a friendship with a guy, nothing serious though
At 22 that is the right idea. It is so important to be comfortable with yourself before entering into a serious relationship anyway. Have fun, You are in a great place in your life, enjoy every minute while you are single. Someday you will look back and be glad you did!
well, don't think of him as ur lover. just think of him as a really good friend who just wants to be really good friends with u 2!
just let urself have fun and have really good friends. that is the only problem! ^_^ good luck!
Someone plz analyze his behavior for me, 10 points to best advice!!?
He was showing me signs that he liked me, like coming around %26amp; asked me out somewhere, flirting %26amp; then when I said I have a crush on you, he said he thought it was cute but felt drained by his last relationship %26amp; then seemed to backtrack a bit. Why did he do this?
What's up with this behavior?Someone plz analyze his behavior for me, 10 points to best advice!!?
just wait he will come to u wen his readySomeone plz analyze his behavior for me, 10 points to best advice!!?
He doesn't want a relationship with you right now, for whatever reason. I'd say leave it alone, at least for now.
i guess hez just not ready 2 b n a relationship yet %26amp; wantz 2 hangout w/ friendz 4 now.......just give em time
What's up with this behavior?Someone plz analyze his behavior for me, 10 points to best advice!!?
just wait he will come to u wen his readySomeone plz analyze his behavior for me, 10 points to best advice!!?
He doesn't want a relationship with you right now, for whatever reason. I'd say leave it alone, at least for now.
i guess hez just not ready 2 b n a relationship yet %26amp; wantz 2 hangout w/ friendz 4 now.......just give em time
I really need advice with my weigh issue...10 points for best answer. ?
I am neither a heavy person nor a skinny one. I am over weigh who is trying to lose some pounds but every time i try to go on a diet i end up over eating. I am sick of this and don't know how to control my cravings anymore. I seriously need some advice. 10 points for best answers.I really need advice with my weigh issue...10 points for best answer. ?
Everyone has their base weight due to their genetics, build, metabolism, diet, etc. For you to lose weight permanently, you have to work out almost every day and eat a little less (not much) than what you already do. Diet's are useless because you gain all of the weight back. Start running on a treadmill every other day for about 30 minutes and increase the speed and time gradually. You will lose weight over time and will be in the best shape of your life. However, you have to be committed to this as you will gain the weight back if you stop doing the cardio work. Also, don't get frustrated if it doesn't work immediately because your body has its base weight and you won't lose the pounds in one week. Stay committed and it will all work out.
Everyone has their base weight due to their genetics, build, metabolism, diet, etc. For you to lose weight permanently, you have to work out almost every day and eat a little less (not much) than what you already do. Diet's are useless because you gain all of the weight back. Start running on a treadmill every other day for about 30 minutes and increase the speed and time gradually. You will lose weight over time and will be in the best shape of your life. However, you have to be committed to this as you will gain the weight back if you stop doing the cardio work. Also, don't get frustrated if it doesn't work immediately because your body has its base weight and you won't lose the pounds in one week. Stay committed and it will all work out.
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