10 points for the best advice?

i din take drugs,,notin illegal...


but i feel i ruin my life...


i talk behind ppls back...


i always feel scared


im 16


i donno wat to do10 points for the best advice?
Teens have it really rough. There is this whole thing about fitting in. I used to be scared about lots of things too. I never did anything illegal, always played by the rules and I still felt as if something was wrong with me. You need to find something that makes you happy. What are the things you like to do? When you find that then you'll be a little happier with yourself and those around you. You're 16 , you don't have to be scared of anything. Maybe you could get some counseling too. It's always good to talk things out with someone. Hope you find what you need. :)10 points for the best advice?
What you need to do is try to make friends. Even though you are popular, sit with someone who doesn't have many friends. They are usually the nicest. Or get guy friends. They won't treat you any different. They'll treat you just like you're one of the guys. Not in a bad way though. I feel this way everyday, but when I talk to my guy friends, I forget about everything. They'll make you feel happy and laughable. Good luck!
Everyone talks behinds peoples back even if people say they dont then there lying.


i think you need a girl or boyfriend as you say you always feel scared if you had a girl/boy friend they would be there for you.


Your 16 your lifes just about to begin like getting a job and getting a house So your bound to feel scaredJust relax and remeber you have people around you who love you and will be there for you.
Everyone talks about people, its a way of life, most of us cant help but to share anothers mis-fortunes. But your only 16 years old, and your still growing and learning. Life is about making mistakes, and then taking those mistakes and teaching urself from them. We all go through a stage in our life where we are a bully, or mean, or too nice and get walked all over. Its hard to find an even balance.


One thing you have to try and keep in mind everytime you do something is ';Treat others the way you would like to be treated'; I know we dont always think before we act.. but next time take a moment before you do something and say that phrase...