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how do i be patient with this girl? its really obvious she likes me and i like her but we've just recently moved into college in a huge city and she says that she really cant balance a relationship right now. so i mean i think ill just stay friends with her and keep her in my life but i really wanna get things kicked off with us, but i mean is this a good idea? please tell me what to do10 points for best advice?
i think you should both start hanging out together as much as you can and see where your relationship takes you from there. good luck!10 points for best advice?
no. don't rush into things. if you do it might mess up things in the end.. maybe you can talk to her and see if you can work something out. like you wont date anyone and neither will she? but def dont rush into things. ler her get to kno you and you get to know her a lot more then go on from there
Hey, if she already told u she can't do it right now, the best way to drive her away for good is to push her. That means:


be there if she needs you for anything


have a casual relationship/ dont say let's go do this let's go do that/


do what u have to do %26amp; let her do the same/ she's busy/ new school/


new town...


just always be nice but not like you're going to fall all over yourself when u see her. If the chance opens up in a few weeks, say hey


I met some nice people %26amp; we r going to try out this little place to eat or something %26amp; say she can come along if she wants %26amp; meet new friends %26amp; get to know the city. Let her have your number %26amp; leave her alone.


Dont start calling her. Maybe once every couple weeks for a short sweet hello ';hope things r going well in school, I met some nice people,, have u had a chance to discover anything new in the city.?


Well gotta go study. U know, keep in contact like that every once in a few weeks. If she never acts interested, leae her alone. There will be other girls. If u chase her, u will chase her away. She wouldnt have told u that if she didnt mean it. Good luck
she probably feels the same way. I would stay friends with her definitely, that's why you two were together right?- Because you have things in common that you both enjoy...usually anyways.


Plus you both just got into a whole new city, there's many different things to explore, new people to meet..


I would say its not a bad idea, just keep in touch in case feelings change down the road. =)
well try not to come across as ';pushy'; just relax and see where time takes u. if she doesnt want a relationship rite now.. just wait and see if she wants one later once shes settled into her new life and surroundings and stuff like that. just be patient and if u really like her... u will be patient. good things come to those who wait :)


good luck