Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you so much for your kindness.?

I am 22 years old woman. I have been in love with his man for 4 years, but we never have sex and I am still a virgin.





Last year, we separated and kept in touch as friends. We actually hope to get back together one day. Recently, he decided to move on by giving me some hints. He does not even want to tell me the truth. When I asked him for the truth, he ignored me.





My heart is broken. I thought he is my true love. I have never dated any other guys.





I want to think that he is giving up because he does not wait for me anymore. I want to be a virgin bride. What should I do?. Thank you so much for your kindness.Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you so much for your kindness.?
Never compromise your beliefs, they are who shapes you....if you give in on this you will have very little self respect and he still might leave you and then not only will you not be a virgin bride, you wont' be with the man you changed your values and morals for. If he really respected you and loved you this would be something he would be willing to wait for too.....keep your chin up and stick to your standards....wish all women were strong enough to stick to them!Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you so much for your kindness.?
You only give that gift away once, and it is wonderful to give it to your husband on the night you promise your life to him. Hold on and wait for your prince to come...he's out there, and he will not mind the wait. In fact, he will appreciate it.
If he has moved on then you two are not meant to be. I know it hurts now but in the future you'll meet your true love and be thankful.
I think he isn't worth it if he won't wait for you! Not many people stay a virgin these days or care to for that matter. There are other men who will give you the respect you deserve and will appreciate having a virgin for their mate. Good for you.
forget the loser, be happy, and move on.
Stay a virgin the right man will come along your young yet. It's never too late! If he really wanted a relationship he would love you and respect your wishes and wouldn't move on. (9% of men would love to have a virgin bride. They are hard to find. Let go of the old and start anew. You won't be sorry you did this. Good luck.
I think it is absolutely wonderful that you want to be a virgin bride. The man who marries you will be getting a precious gift.


Do not give up your dream of waiting until marriage because of this man of four years. If he wants to move on, then he isn't the man for you. Do not waste your tears over a man who wasn't right for you. It is not meant to be.


There is someone even better out there for you, you just haven't met him yet. Your time will come when the time is right, and when the right man comes along he will treasure you for waiting just for him.
well if you are saying the reason he is moving on is because you will not have sex with him before marriage then you will be better off now than later. if he can not wait for you then that means he don't love you.true love is hard to find and if two people truly love each other then they will respect each others feelings and wishes.im sure your true love will come when it is ment to be please don't rush things because you will regret it later so be patient good luck
If he truly love you he wouldn't ignore your questioning. If he moved on so should you.
Here is your solution. Marry him and then once he feels secure, play the field. It's OK.
if you hoped to get back together why didn't you, or was it just you and not him? why does he have to wait your 22 get married- or are you saving that until your 30. i understand saving yourself for marriage- so get married
I know this is probably what you dont want to hear , but you have it all still , you are like a fresh dish at the shop , with everything still on offer , this loss will be a blessing to you , try and chase it , but if it doesnt comply , think of what you still have , and keep moving. sad situation , but you have still got all the goodies , minus the baggage
Sweet Pea it seems like he is just tired of waiting to be with you intimately. I mean don't give up your standards just because someone can't wait. If he truly loved you he would wait and wouldn't pressure you at all. It really seems like he only wants that one thing. You keep yourself for Mr. Right not Mr. Right now. This is very sacred and you would want only your husband to handle you with care. God Bless!
How sad for you, but wonderful at the same time.





I'm sorry you're heart broken over this.





We always fall in love with the first person we date for a period of time. The sad fact is, it's rarely our TRUE love even though it may feel that way at the time.





He very well may not want to tell you his reasons for fear of hurting you even more. You seem like a very unique lady and one to be held in the highest regards.





While there is little anyone may be able to say that will ease your pain, you have to remember that his loss will only be someone else's gain.





It's a bad idea to marry the first and only person we ever dated. As time goes by, your pain will ease. Give yourself that time, then move on with your life.





You'll meet some very interesting people along the way, both good and bad. It's important that you take your time and make the right decision as to who you give your virginity to and marry. The only way to do that is through experience. Right now you lack that in the dating arena and it's OK.... we've all been there.





When you finally meet the man you truly love, this relationship and the feelings you have won't even come CLOSE to what you'll feel then.





My heart goes out to you, but understand this and take my word for it.....you'll be just fine...you really will.
He should respect your wish to remain a virgin until you are married. Why has he not married you yet? Does he have another woman in his life now? He is crazy not to wait for you. I think you should give up on him and wait for a true man who will respect you and treat you as you deserve.
Time to move on ... start with your home your friends .your job ....and a new bo ... you will be glad you did b/c he will care for you ...not just play with you.....
He's not the one for you. It doesn't seem like it now, but you will find someone else. If he really wants you, he would wait and respect your wishes to remain a virgin until married.





Let go of the past and think to the future. Most all of us have had someone early in our lives who we thought was our one true love, only to find out he or she didn't think so.





It will hurt for a while, but time heals all. Good luck to you.
I'm sorry you are hearbroken. I know it's tough. The only way to know for sure why he's moving on is for him to tell you that himself. There is no way any of us here are going to be able to give you that answer. My advice is to immerse yourself in your hobbies, go out with friends with family, etc. to take your mind off of it as much as possible. There is someone out there for you, and time does heal all wounds. Big hug. Best of luck.
I read your line about ';never dated any guys'; and thinking that he is your ';true love';. Then I had to look at your avatar. Your thought pattern seems very Asian.





However, back to your question...





If he wants to move on because he can't wait any longer, so be it. You want to be a virgin bride and he wants to move on (whether he can't wait or not). You would expect your boyfriend to respect your wishes. Why would you not expect the same of yourself for his wishes?





Giving yourself thinking that it would save a relationship won't work. Think of all the marriages (not just boyfriends) that have failed and they (usually) have had sex.





Stick to your values and find a wonderful boyfriend.
Stand your ground. Any man who can love you for who you are and respect you and your standards is truly a man worth waiting for. Don't give in - you won't regret it.





One thing though - if you are dating for that long, the pressure increases. If you find another guy and nothing seems to be in the direction of marriage after 6 months, move on.
I am sorry he broke your heart.





The thing to do is to move on with your life. Don't dwell on this man. He can't even talk to you and tell you he has moved on? He's not worth another moment of your time.
Don't balm your self. If he wanted to marry you he would of done it buy now. I am trying to be kind. Had you ever thought that he might be gay. If he is he didn't want to tell you. He should of been honest with you about how he feels. Try and go on with your life. There is a lot of men that would be lucky to have you. Good Luck. Patches.