Monday, December 28, 2009

What is the best advice you can give a new mom?

or parents to be...What is the best advice you can give a new mom?
sometimes you just have to let the baby cry





it's ok if you havent washed your hair for 2 days





Sweats are more acceptable to other when a newborn is in their presents





You'll learn to love PB%26amp;J sandwiches.. for breakfast, lunch and dinner...





it's ok to lock yourself in the bathroom, and scream and cry out of frustration





it's ok to be depressed because you don't get your figure back as soon as you hoped





take 10 mins out of every day and just be by yourself, you'll be thankful in the long run





no matter what don't forget, your baby depends on you, and will love you unconditionally!What is the best advice you can give a new mom?
Don't stress if you can't get everything done in one day! The laundry won't grow legs if you let it build up for a day or two; the bathroom floor won't disintegrate because there's a little dust on it; the carpet won't fall apart if you don't vacuum it daily. Basically--take it easy and don't knock yourself out and use all your energy on keeping your house as neat as a pin--focus on your baby at first. :)
No matter what you do, you will make a mistake and it's okay! One day, your baby will fall or roll off of something and that's okay too. And somehow, try to not worry about every little thing and try to enjoy it. They really do grow up so fast.





When my daughter was about 4 months old, I told myself to remember this moment. I was rocking her in the glider and singing to her. I sniffed her freshly washed hair and I still remember that moment and that smell and it brings tears to my eyes. My baby is now 4 1/2 years old and some days that seems centuries ago but sometimes it seems like seconds ago.
up to 2 month after having the baby the most important thing to know that every thing will be ok taking care of the baby will be easy ,your life will go back to normal ,your baby will sleep all night .


your body will be back to normal maybe will be better.


to make it short ,try to relax and you will enjoy
Ask for help, or accept help if its offered!!!





You don't have to be a supermum and have a spotless house when you've got a new bub (or even a toddler!)





So when Mum/hubby/friend offers to make you dinner/look after the baby while you have a shower/wash the dishes/whatever - accept it!!!!

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