Help meee i need to give the best advice for my friend?

He's having girlfriend rpoblems and did something stupid and regretted it.


So he cut himself %26amp; told me %26amp; he said he he needed a shoulder to cry on!





o feeel soo bad right now i want to help him!





i need to give him advice!Help meee i need to give the best advice for my friend?
he needs to speak to a counselor. he doesn't know how to handle his feelings. believe me if he cut once he will do it again. i am an ex cutter. get him help before it becomes a habit. and it does become a habit.





people cut coz the pain on their arm takes away from the pain in his heart or head. it shocks them into a feeling of utopia sense of being almost like a drug.





good luck with your friendHelp meee i need to give the best advice for my friend?
Everyone screws up in a relationship. Thats normal. Cutting yourself, however, is a completely seperate thing. You need to be really careful and extremely supportive. People who cut themselves are in a lot of pain and they feel that the only way to release that pain is through actually cutting open their body. Most people who cut themselves once will continue to do it. You need to help him find a positive outlet to help him release that pain without hurting himself. Spend as much time with him as possible and make sure that if he seems especially down at some point that you go to him or find someone else to go to him immediately. If you feel like he might be in danger of hurting himself you have to tell someone. Tell a teacher, tell his parents, tell someone. I know you don't want him to be mad at you for telling, but if you really truly thing he might hurt himself that is being a good friend. Give him the shoulder to cry on, but keep in mind, you are not a therapist and you are not his only lifeline. If he really needs help you may not be able to help him. Best of luck to you, I know this is a really scary situation.
counselling is the best solution.
OMG GET A COUNCLER A-SAP! CUTTING ISNT EXACTLY THE BEST HABBIT! if u care ull get him a counceler and talk to his gf
Being a former ';cutter'; myself, i can tell you and know that your friend is very depressed and is drop dead serious when he told you he needs someone to talk to. If that person is going to be you, try to go into the situation without judging him for what he's done, and let him know that it is okay to seek counseling from a professional. Because if he feels anything like i did, he probably thinks no one can help him and no one will understand. I advise you to keep being by your friend's side and give him support whenever he needs it. this will give him a glimmer of hope that everything's gonna be cool, and he'll thank you later, trust me. Best wishes to you and your friend.