take your time getting to know the person, dont rush it (:Whats your best advice regarding love?
It's going to happen whether you want it to or not.
you can't control love, but it will control you.
Be yourself and try not to force things, what is meant to be will be.
Hey Big blue eyes
My advice would be dont give in too easily, set yourself standards, think about what type of guy you would like?, take things slow, get to know the person.
Make sure he feels the same as you do, make sure he respects and trusts you. Dont sleep with him too soon or early in the relationship because chances are you will regret it later.
Wait for Mr Right, someone who treats you like you deserve to be treated, someone who you know will stick by you through thick and thin and not disappear as soon as he sees a problem approaching. Make sure he's your best friend and that you could tell him everything and anything.
Thats my advice on boyfriends dont let them take advantage of you, use you or make you look the fool. Make sure they respect you and love you for you.
Yes- I agree- take your time.
Regarding love?
1. It's the little things they say or do that say the most (like when you're not watching and they go out of their way to help you/take care of you).
2. When there's a sense of 'togetherness/thereness.' You feel emotionally held/cared for.
3. When there's a sense of understanding.
4. Respect
5. When that person cherishes the bond you have, vice versa.
6. When they are your best friend.
7. When their actions are sincere.
8. When they're consistent.
If at any point you feel skeptical, the truth usually reveals itself..
Understand and feel with him/her..
My favorite synonym is empathy:
1. the intellectual identification with or vicarious experiencing of the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another.
2. the imaginative ascribing to an object, as a natural object or work of art, feelings or attitudes present in oneself: By means of empathy, a great painting becomes a mirror of the self.
if it happens, let it dont fight it. youll know your in love when you can sit in a room with that person and not say a word to one another and you still feel stronger than ever about him.
Just dont. Not worth it in the end. Be happy with yourself. You are the only person that will love you unconditionally and will never break your heart.
don't freak out if one boy doesn't like you. there will always be another one.
you need to be happy and confident with yourself before you can ever be happy and love someone else.
don't let this aspect of your life take over everything else.
good luck.
:)
take your time get toknow them. if they cheat, dont nag them, talk to them about it. and let it go. if it happens again. give a second chance but never give a 3rd. guys tend to change on there terms. the man i married cheated on me 3 maybe 4 times. i was stupied and kept going back to him. but finally he relized he loved me adn wanted only me. give em a chance if he is right for u he will come around
dont do it lol
Oh geez, I know this from experience.
DO NOT lose who you are as a person while you love someone else. If that relationship ends, you may feel incomplete and not be able to function.
Never change who you are in the hopes of attracting/keeping someone.
don't be someone ur not
If you really like the guy, go for it and don't miss your chance because you're scared. I did and I completely and totally regret it!
just avoid it all together it dosent seem the pain is worth the pleasure......
Don't rush love and always try to still make time for yourself and give your guy space too.
Get to know him, make first moves, dont get hurt by rejection, guys mess up, guys are just as nervous and shy as you, dont panic, its ok to cry, if youre getting suspicious dont let love get in your way of finding out the truth, take it slow, and most relationships wont last, if he dumps you thre are always other guys
Date your best friend. If you don't like spending time together over time it will not work out.
Attraction is important, but for the long run, make sure you like each other.
Dont move too fast thats how realationships break, if u think u know them and u really dont
Know that as you get older your idea and experiences of love will change... what love was when you were 12 isn't going to be the same as love at 17. :) See what I mean?
Take it slow, enjoy your time with the guy, and have fun.
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