Adults-Why should I remain a virgin until marriage? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

I am 22 and still a virgin. I am not sure when I will marry. I guess in the next 5-10 years :)Adults-Why should I remain a virgin until marriage? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
bcz 1 cant forget his or her 1st love or sex...Adults-Why should I remain a virgin until marriage? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
self respect, pride, aids,and many other reason, ex unwanted pregnancies single parenthood
you could have a baby and single parenting isn't everything its cracked up to be. it causes financial problems and you could get various sexual transmitted diseases.
whether you remain a virgin or not till marriage is not that important. what is important is that you have quality relationships and friendships. and if you choose to have a sexual relationship, that should be quality too.
It's all about morals. If you have kept it this long, then go the distance. I have a few female friends who are 27 and still virgins. I have a lot of respect for them. Just be prepared for a lot of heartache. You will most likely get cheated on until you find the one willing to wait.
why wait until then if you wait get married have sex then find your not compatible in that way then what would you do
I didn't, but my sister did. We both got married at age 30.





The logical reasons behind it (especially if you're marrying a virgin) are that there is a huge emotional connection you feel, even with something like a one-night stand. Women are geared that way, and you can save yourself a lot of heartbreak, and save a certain level of intimacy only for your husband. Religious reasons, if you believe, are obvious, it avoids any chance of disease, and reduces the chance of having any early traumatic experiences.





It is, on the whole, your choice, however, and the only reason my sister ever gave anyone was ';Because it's important to me.'; That was enough for her.





I did not wait until marriage, and I do not regret my decision, either. In the end, it's your body, and your decision what to do with it and when.





good luck.
Not unless the guy you are dating is a virgin too ,then stay one till you marry him a great present for the both of you...if not it is the 20th century enjoy your life who knows what will happen tomorrow just play it safe and smart YOU can choose your first...
just dont do it.


seww not the way to go.


just give it up =)
Because you're worth it.





You'll also keep the creeps away from you ...and trust me, when someone says they need to have sex to know if your the 'one' it is time to move on.





And don't marry someone who hasn't done the same. Set your goals and you'll meet them.
the greates gift one can give on the wedding nite purity before GOD in a sacred vow
Because you might discover that





a) you really enjoy sex.. and look you've wasted up to another 10 years!!!!


b) you actually are not heterosexual .. and look you've wasted another 10 years


c) no one is interested in you now that you are 32!


d) no one really cares if you are a virgin or not anyway, unless they are really weird.
its a thing about personal virtue and it will intensify the bond you will share with your husband
The decision is yours. If you want to wait, and you believe that it is the best thing for you, then wait. You don't need any other reason.





I didn't wait, and to be honest I am glad I didn't but that is a personal choice of mine.





So, answering the quetion why should you remain a virgin until marriage? For no other reason than you want to. I think that is plenty goodenough reason.
There is only one possible reason - because you want to. Others can give you reasons related to religion or suposed morality but the truth is how and when you lose your virginity should be your choice. If you want to wait until marriage then this is your choice and if you believe it is the right one for you then you should stick to it.
Don't know I think it is stupid to wait until marriage Only leads to extremely young marriages and divorce
It all depends on what you call marriage. Even when people get married and they have a wedding doesn't mean that they are in love. Marriage begins in your heart before it's announced to the world. I am not legally married, but I am married in my heart to my boyfriend. I only call him my boyfriend because that's his worldly label. People get married everyday and all day. I think that some people even get married just because they want to have sex. That's no reason to get married. My boyfriend and I were both virgins when we had sex for the first time. I consemated the marriage with him. I sealed the deal that I will never love another. Because I made a made a vow to him and to my heavenly father to never stray.
This is a really open emotive question. Why should you? I don't know. It's something only you know. Is it for religious reasons or just personal preference. Go with what you feel inside and what you really want. As for waiting for marriage, how do you know you'll be married in 5-10 years? Could be next year or in the next 20 years. I think you're stressing about nothing. It's actually really refreshing you're still a virgin. You sound like a sensible person and I believe you should go with the flow and see where life takes you. Good luck.
I personally couldnt think of anything worse than marrying someone who knows nothing about themselves and their sexuality. There's not much chance of you enjoying your wedding night either if its your first time. It doesnt mean that you need to have sex with anybody just so your not a virgin, but if your going to marry someone you need to know if your compatible with them. Theres a lot of learning to do in life and you only get one get one life, it also goes by surprisingly fast. If you wait out for this oh so special occasion when you get married, expecting the earth to shift from its axis and volcanoes to erupt fireworks in your honor, you will most likely be sorely disappointed. It may also be that you telling a boyfriend that you are waiting to get married before having sex causes him to want to marry you and you end up rushing into it, confusing love with lust.


It is your choice tho, so you need to be comfortable with it. If you are going to wait, thats fine but I would recomend you still have other relationships and other types of sex(non penetrative) So you have some experiance. If you are the type of girl who cant touch herself 'down there' and that is part of the reason you hold off, your marriage may not be what you expect anyway.


If you have lived under religious suppression of sexuality or parents that have told you that sex is dirty you should see a sex counciler to get over these things first so that you can enjoy the sex when you do have it with your husband.


Best of luck
Coming from a 21 year old who did.


I am 21 and married and both my husband and I both saved our virginity for each other.


Here are reasons to do it.


1.It shows that your respect yourself


2. it's a gift your giving to your husband, a gift no one else but him will receive


3. That is what the lord wants


4. It keeps you from heart break, and regretting your decision later if you had sex to soon or gave your virginity to the wrong person.


5.You can't get pregnant


6.You can't get STDs.


7. If you can't perform in bed, they will never know your doing anything wrong.


8.Your husband can't compare you to anyone else.


9. You will feel better about yourself


10. You can walk the walk and talk the talk by being a good example to your children.
There's no reason to, as long as you are able to financially and emotionally deal with a pregnancy or disease.
You should remain a virgin if that is your desire. You will know that you won't bring any comparisons, disease, and romantic entanglements to a marriage. Good for you!
Pros:


1. Disease free.


2. No illegitimate child(ren).


3. Self-respect.


4. Money saver. (Many women spend $15-$40 per MONTH on oral contraceptives.)


5. Might make (and this is just a guess) your wedding night different.





Cons:


1. The guy you marry is a REAL weirdo in the bedrooms *yikes*.
There is no good reason you should unless you are very religious. However, please don't go out and give it up with the first person to try just for the sake of losing your virginity. The one you give it to could be the one down the road.
well its what you belive in, if you really love a guy/girl and u feel confident that yo ulove them then you will have sex, but its your choice what you do
because if you have sex and your not married then you could get pregnant and if the guy dosent want to marry you then your going to be a struggling single mother or. or if you get rid of the baby then that to me is just alot of extra stuff to worry about. and wouldnt it be nice for your husband to know you werent sleeping around and to know that you saved somthing special for him. also if you have sex with a guy who your not going to marry then he could have a disease and give it to you.
you want to stay virgin for the right guy you don't want to have sex with someone just for attraction but something More than that something like LOVE you will be giving yourself to the person that you think will and always appreciate you...you are a very strong individual don't let any temptations get to you just wait for the right one you know when his Right... you are doing right when ver you have kids and you have a baby girl you can tell her why you did it and why you did it the way that you did and she will have a strong view over it..... :) I'm very happy for you
because they feel that your giving your love of your life your love i think or something like that...but have sex when you want to cause i doubt that your husband would be a virgin
There's really no reason you should unless it's something that you personally feel you need to do.
I'd say not to unless you are such a devote christian that you absolutely feel you will burn in hell if you do it. Otherwise, you are just missing out....look aroud the earth..for every person you see, 2 people were F'ing....and probably alot. People don't have sex because it doesn't feel good..people have sex because it pretty much is the best part of living
You should stay a virgin for these reasons.





1) You will avoid diseases


2) You will avoid unwanted pregnancy


3) You will avoid the regret of making a bad choice in choosing lovers


4) Your future husband will trust that you will not have STDs and that you will be less likely to cheat on him.